Would you rather (Kinks)?

[Jaro]

1. Would you rather never orgasm again or never be able to make anyone else orgasm no matter how hard you tried (including toys, over cam or during sex of course)? The only exception would be if someone else took your place to pleasure your partner.
I would rather never orgasm again. I think it's much more rewarding to make someone else orgasm. Besides, this is my subby nature.
It still would suck not to ever orgasm again though.

2. Would you rather your closest family (parents, siblings or children) or your closest friends found out about your kinks? If they already know replace with the worse secret about you that no-one knows.
Rather my closest friends because I think they would be a little more accepting. But both are horror scenarios for me, honestly.

3. Would you rather perform your kinks for who you picked above or see them perform them? (If they perform there's no assumption that they'd like it but they'd be forced to do it anyway).
This is a super hard one. Both options are terrible as nobody involved would like it. In this case them perform probably.

4. Would you rather never be able to do your favourite kink again (you'd still crave it but you'd magically be stopped from performing it) or remove the inhibition that stops you doing one of your hard limits (you'd still have to deal with all the consequences of the actions but face minimal guilt)? Which kink/limit would you remove?
Rather have to do one hard limit. Maybe scat. As terrible as that is, I think it would be more terrible never to be able to indulge in my foot fetish again... which would include merely looking at them.