36/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place

LochyG · 06-23-2023, 11:04 AM

36/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place

I know this says anywhere however UK/Europe would definitely be a bonus due to time differences. If you stay elsewhere, I am not against it if we get on well.

I enjoy a bratty or willful submissive, I don't want a carpet, I want to feel my control over a sub not walk all over them, it's that taking of power that I find most enjoyable.

My main interests in kink are, breast and nipple play, I absolutely love everything to do with it. Control, I love choosing and telling a sub what to do, this might be what to wear, what to eat, no you can't go to the toilet or giving you random meaningless tasks to do during the day. Humiliation, I find this a huge turn on, everything from semi public to private humiliation. Orgasm control/denial, I love to play and toy with a sub and take them to the edge often. Edging and forced orgasms will be frequent. These interests are key, if you don't like them, it isn't going to work. Simple as.

My other interests are in, body writing, I guess this ties in with humiliation, it follows on naturally from it anyway in my mind. Pet play, again it ties in with humiliation for me. I really enjoy deciding on underwear especially lingerie and very attractive underwear, especially bras for some reason, I guess that is the breast play fetish coming through. I am also interested/intrigued by forniphilia (that is human furniture) it is something I would love to try a some point. These aren't requirements, just likes.

I dislike age play and blood. I don't do sharing, I won't be playing around and expect the same back. I won't go near needles or knife play, I'm from Glasgow, I have seen what knives do to people, that isn't fun.

I have had a fair few kink relationships, a mix of real ones and online. I do not want a text based relationship from this, talking on skype/discord or any other means will be happening. Once we are both more comfortable and the appropriate trust has been gained, picture sharing and video is the goal, I am not expecting that anytime soon though.

Non kinky me is a sarcastic, self deprecating guy, who doesn't take himself too seriously. I'm enjoy gaming and I love my ancient history. I read a hell of a lot, mainly sci-fi and steampunk. I used to read a lot of fantasy, but I got rather fed up with the continuous tropes. I'm a keen F1 fan, I know a lot of people find it boring, but I enjoy the strategy and tactical thinking.

Babygirlblackout · 06-29-2023, 04:45 PM

Bump bump bump

Cause Lochy is awesome and I really hope anyone reading this gives him a chance

LochyG · 07-24-2023, 02:45 PM

Bump, still looking so please get in touch if this catches your eye.

theblondedubdomme · 07-27-2023, 10:45 AM

Lochy is substantially less than "awesome", a faux dom who seeks out dommes himself, makes a bunch of promises, admits he isnt really a dom himself, really incredibly submissive, seeks EXTREME submission and then runs away.

LochyG · 08-25-2023, 11:53 PM

Bumping again, still looking.

lilisass · 08-26-2023, 07:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by theblondedubdomme

Lochy is substantially less than "awesome", a faux dom who seeks out dommes himself, makes a bunch of promises, admits he isnt really a dom himself, really incredibly submissive, seeks EXTREME submission and then runs away.

That’s not very nice…maybe there was a misunderstanding but don’t try to ruin his future happiness. It’s okay that things might’ve went south between you two, but people deserve second chances. I’m sorry that your relationship wasn’t the best though 😢

theblondedubdomme · 09-20-2023, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by lilisass

That’s not very nice…maybe there was a misunderstanding but don’t try to ruin his future happiness. It’s okay that things might’ve went south between you two, but people deserve second chances. I’m sorry that your relationship wasn’t the best though 😢

There was no misunderstanding. He agreed to a scene, he entered into it, and then he ghosted me. He is on here claiming to be this very serious dom whilst he has been seeking extreme submission elsewhere, and then ghosting on it. I would tell you if there had been a "misunderstanding", but instead of talking, Lochy simply ghosted me.

06-23-2023, 11:04 AM	#1
LochyG Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Glasgow Posts: 107	36/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place 36/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place I know this says anywhere however UK/Europe would definitely be a bonus due to time differences. If you stay elsewhere, I am not against it if we get on well. I enjoy a bratty or willful submissive, I don't want a carpet, I want to feel my control over a sub not walk all over them, it's that taking of power that I find most enjoyable. My main interests in kink are, breast and nipple play, I absolutely love everything to do with it. Control, I love choosing and telling a sub what to do, this might be what to wear, what to eat, no you can't go to the toilet or giving you random meaningless tasks to do during the day. Humiliation, I find this a huge turn on, everything from semi public to private humiliation. Orgasm control/denial, I love to play and toy with a sub and take them to the edge often. Edging and forced orgasms will be frequent. These interests are key, if you don't like them, it isn't going to work. Simple as. My other interests are in, body writing, I guess this ties in with humiliation, it follows on naturally from it anyway in my mind. Pet play, again it ties in with humiliation for me. I really enjoy deciding on underwear especially lingerie and very attractive underwear, especially bras for some reason, I guess that is the breast play fetish coming through. I am also interested/intrigued by forniphilia (that is human furniture) it is something I would love to try a some point. These aren't requirements, just likes. I dislike age play and blood. I don't do sharing, I won't be playing around and expect the same back. I won't go near needles or knife play, I'm from Glasgow, I have seen what knives do to people, that isn't fun. I have had a fair few kink relationships, a mix of real ones and online. I do not want a text based relationship from this, talking on skype/discord or any other means will be happening. Once we are both more comfortable and the appropriate trust has been gained, picture sharing and video is the goal, I am not expecting that anytime soon though. Non kinky me is a sarcastic, self deprecating guy, who doesn't take himself too seriously. I'm enjoy gaming and I love my ancient history. I read a hell of a lot, mainly sci-fi and steampunk. I used to read a lot of fantasy, but I got rather fed up with the continuous tropes. I'm a keen F1 fan, I know a lot of people find it boring, but I enjoy the strategy and tactical thinking.

06-29-2023, 04:45 PM	#2
Babygirlblackout Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: May 2020 Location: Discord Posts: 2,570	Bump bump bump Cause Lochy is awesome and I really hope anyone reading this gives him a chance __________________ Switch- Bi Loves: power exchange, teasing, lots of things.. I’m part of a kink friendly discord group we are always looking for new people to join! Ask for an invite

07-24-2023, 02:45 PM	#3
LochyG Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Glasgow Posts: 107	Bump, still looking so please get in touch if this catches your eye.

07-27-2023, 10:45 AM	#4
theblondedubdomme Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2023 Posts: 3	Lochy is substantially less than "awesome", a faux dom who seeks out dommes himself, makes a bunch of promises, admits he isnt really a dom himself, really incredibly submissive, seeks EXTREME submission and then runs away.

08-25-2023, 11:53 PM	#5
LochyG Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Glasgow Posts: 107	Bumping again, still looking.