"Getting started"-help for a Mistress

MistressXYZ · 08-15-2010, 06:46 AM

Hello,

i'm new in this forum an read the last 3 hours some of the threads.

I have a 'problem'. My bf told me a few weeks ago that that he would like to try to be my slave. I'm not experienced in beeing a mistress. I didn't had any thoughts about that till now. (He has no real xp too)

I read in some forums and my bf told me a bit about what 'kind of slave', or better what punishments he has thought of.

The problem for me now is that i don't have much ideas how i can start a session.
For punishment i have a few ideas but only a few (don't know if they will work). We are living in a flat with no garden, they shouldn't be to public.

Maybe someone can help me, maybe assist me with some ideas. How i could set up a session, some tasks he may fail and some ideas for punishment ... something easy to start with.

If you wish i will send you an feedback how our session worked (or maybe toll he he has to), but without sending fotos. Sorry for beeing a little bit sceptic about sending pics to someone we don't know.

hope to hear from you

Mistress XYZ

kenneth.s · 08-15-2010, 08:59 AM

Try looking at the TORD or punishment sections of the forum.

Just take it slow (at first)

SM relationship is not only about 'punishment'. I call my sessions 'play'. If te slave misbehaves or being disobedient, then go for 'punishment/discipline'.

Anything that the slave 'dislikes', that's what I usually do for punishment.

All the best

Punisher37 · 08-15-2010, 02:19 PM

What sort of things was he thinking of?

08-15-2010, 06:46 AM	#1
MistressXYZ Baby Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 1	"Getting started"-help for a Mistress Hello, i'm new in this forum an read the last 3 hours some of the threads. I have a 'problem'. My bf told me a few weeks ago that that he would like to try to be my slave. I'm not experienced in beeing a mistress. I didn't had any thoughts about that till now. (He has no real xp too) I read in some forums and my bf told me a bit about what 'kind of slave', or better what punishments he has thought of. The problem for me now is that i don't have much ideas how i can start a session. For punishment i have a few ideas but only a few (don't know if they will work). We are living in a flat with no garden, they shouldn't be to public. Maybe someone can help me, maybe assist me with some ideas. How i could set up a session, some tasks he may fail and some ideas for punishment ... something easy to start with. If you wish i will send you an feedback how our session worked (or maybe toll he he has to), but without sending fotos. Sorry for beeing a little bit sceptic about sending pics to someone we don't know. hope to hear from you Mistress XYZ

08-15-2010, 08:59 AM	#2
kenneth.s Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Australia Posts: 57	Try looking at the TORD or punishment sections of the forum. Just take it slow (at first) SM relationship is not only about 'punishment'. I call my sessions 'play'. If te slave misbehaves or being disobedient, then go for 'punishment/discipline'. Anything that the slave 'dislikes', that's what I usually do for punishment. All the best

08-15-2010, 02:19 PM	#3
Punisher37 Distinguished Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 681	What sort of things was he thinking of?