Help us train, humiliate, and use our slut (f32)

K&B · 11-02-2020, 08:50 PM

Hello…

I’m in kind of a complicated relationship, at least compared to what I’m used to. I guess it’s Dom-Domme-sub, where I’m hoping to get help, ideas, and dares to humiliate my boyfriend’s sub slut wife and teach her her place. The slut, Emma is married to my boyfriend, Ben. Ben and Emma, and my ex-husband and I, used to swap partners. My ex was actually the one who discovered Emma is so submissive. That worked well for years – not every day or anything, but almost monthly. To make a long story short, Marc (my ex) and I split up and the swapping arrangement went on a long hiatus even though Ben and I would see each other sometimes. I recently moved back to the area and work for Ben now. He and his family own a bunch of businesses, including a chain of car dealerships where Ben is owner/manager, and I work as one of the sales associates. Emma is Ben’s secretary. I’ve been enjoying picking things up with Ben again, and like going to his office for an afternoon quickie – we fuck each other’s brains out with little Emma sitting outside, then let her come in the office to wipe off any cum from the couch or the floor. Ben likes when I make her crawl, she’s even licked my boots while he jacked off into her hair. She’s the first girl I’ve been with and Ben enjoys ordering her to kiss me, lick me, and eat me too.

I’m staying at their place right now. They have a huge house in the country with a pool and stable. My stay was supposed to be temporary until I found a new place, but we’re starting to establish these new roles with the three of us. Even though it’s Ben and Emma’s house (his really), Ben’s been encouraging me to think of it more as mine and his, and Emma’s been in a more and more submissive role with the three of us. Last Saturday, everyone at the dealership wore costumes to work for Halloween. We had Emma dress up as a slutty school girl – I thought it might be pushing it for work but she doesn’t interact with customers at all – just the employees, and Ben enjoyed it. She’s 32 (Ben and I are in our late 40s) and looked really hot, but pretty ridiculous too in a tiny miniskirt, stiletto heels, and a white blouse – unbuttoned, just knotted at the front. She’s cute, like girl-next-door cute, but she looked like a $1 hooker Saturday and some of the guys from sales and the mechanics too, were hitting on her. My and Ben’s relationship is a very open secret that’s really not a secret at all anymore, and we both enjoyed how embarrassed she seemed getting all this attention from all those horny dudes, but she was clearly turned on by the whole thing too!

We’ll have Emma (we call her m&m, like the candy or just "m") introduce herself too. I’m sure I’m forgetting something, so please ask about anything you need to know about. Thanks for reading this and for all the great posts I’ve seen so far! This looks like a pretty awesome group!

Best,
Karen

FeeltheRez · 11-02-2020, 09:05 PM

Sounds like it was quite the party. I find it hilarious that you've moved into her home and now are in a dominant position not just on a temp basis but basically are there around her every corner (not in a ruin your life kinda way but more in a 'The leash just got shorter' kind of way). It's gonna be interesting to see how things turn out.

Slut M · 11-02-2020, 10:06 PM

Hi,
I’m m – Mistress Karen already told you about me. God this is exciting! I’m not sure what to say… I guess I just said I’m excited so that doesn’t need to be repeated! Anyway, wow! Like Mistress Karen said I’m 32. I’ve been married to Ben - Master (it still feels weird saying that!) for 9 years. By the 5th year, I don’t know, the heat in our relationship was going away, but when we started dating, I don’t know what the right word for it is, when we started seeing Karen and Marc, that changed things. Maybe it changed me. Or I think even more that maybe I didn’t change, I think I just started discovering who I am. Who I really am. And now that’s happening again. I’m submissive. Very! More than I realized, and even though its not a “normal” marriage, what’s happening makes me so excited! All the time!!!
What else…. I’m 5 foot 1. I have blue eyes and blond hair but my hair is dyed red right now. I weigh 105 pounds. Please ask me anything else you want to know! I’m excited to be a slave and a slut. I love that word! Slut! SLUT! 😊 Hoping this works out! Thanks! -m

showyouoff · 11-02-2020, 10:53 PM

Well, hello Slut! I'd like to know some basic things
1) what's your best feature?
2) how lovely is your ass? (I'm an ass man...can't resist)
3) What's the best orgasm you've been allowed recently?
4) what's the dirtiest thing on your mind right now?

Filthycumguzzler · 11-02-2020, 11:17 PM

Oooh, thanks so much for sharing this story with us! This seems like a super hot dynamic you all share, and I’m happy you’re all enjoying it in a healthy and super fucking kinky way. I’m honestly a little jealous of your little slave m, with how she’s basically living a ton of subs’ biggest fantasies as a 24/7 submissive slut under the two of you.

So, for some ideas of how to put her in her place! I think a great way to start that’s sure to keep any obedient slut eager and willing to please is a strict pleasure schedule. Of course if you’re just starting something like this it takes time to amp up the intensity, but, ideally, m shouldn’t be allowed to pleasure herself or orgasm without either of your permissions, granted either directly after some solid begging (which is always fun) or by a predetermined schedule of when she’s allowed to touch. A horny slut is an eager slut after all! Especially if whatever schedule you chose is in addition to regular edging sessions. Plus, it’ll really cement her submission to you.

Aside from that, some subtle public play, like you mentioned with the slutty schoolgirl outfit. Making sure m is plugged, either anally or vaginally, is a great way to always be reminding her who’s in charge, and if you wanted to really make her sweat you could find a discreet vibrating plug and activate it sporadically throughout the day during work. Some hidden body writing is a great tool for humiliation and submission too. The more, and the closer it is to peeking out from under her clothes, the better.

So yeah! To Karen and Ben, I hope you have tons of fun making m your little bitch. Hopefully some of these suggestions were helpful, and even if not, thanks for sharing your story anyway.

And to m, good for you! That’s great that you’re able to enjoy your position, as out of the ordinary as it is. Just make sure you stay happy and healthy as a good little slut to your husband and his girlfriend, and I’m sure you’ll do great in your role in the relationship.

Sorry if that was a little long winded, reading your story just got me really excited and inspired!

CaffeineColin · 11-03-2020, 12:05 AM

First, I wanted to tell three of you how nice it is to read an honest story like this of people doing the things that make them happy and taking care of each other in the ways they and the other people in the relationship enjoy. Sure, it might not be the typical Little House on the Prairie, but it's a nice home you're putting together.

The body writing that was suggested before is an awesome idea and has my full support! In addition to controlling and limiting her pleasure, you can also insist that she not orgasm unless she has made you and Ben cum a ore-determined number of times.

A few ideas for training m. They're mainly for when you're at home, but can be adapted for work, too:
- She should wait at the door for you and Ben to get home and then take off your shoes, put away your jackets and work things. If you get back at the same time, she'd still get everyone else comfy at home and things put away before doing anything for herself.
- Even if you or Ben enjoy cooking, m should do all the cleaning to give you and Ben some time to unwind after dinner.
- Where she sits (and even if she is allowed to sit or kneel) when you are together at home could be dependent on her behavior. Good girls relax on the sofa, disobedient girls stand or kneel in the corner.
- You can consider the amount of and type of clothing m is permitted to wear. Mostly sheer clothing, or deep cut shirts at the least, at work sounds like it could be possible.
- There are bluetooth and internet controlled vibes she could insert and you and Ben could control from work to keep her excited whenever you please. Imagine she's talking to the mechanic when all the sudden the vibe starts going inside her.

I hope some of this is interesting for you three - feel free to get in touch if you want more ideas.

I really hope all of you have a great time and keep regularly posting here so we can see how everything develops.

Have fun,
-Colin

SirD · 11-03-2020, 06:26 AM

Karen- since Ben wants you to think of the house as yours and his have you considered moving in to his room and putting m on the floor? Wouldn't want her to miss out on any sex you guys might be having or for her to be too far should you need her services.

m- what kinds of likes/dislikes/limits do you have?

Looking forward to hearing more about your adventures.

zephyrnem · 11-03-2020, 06:39 AM

Definitely,you guys should control her clothing.

At home she should get no clothing at all.

(At least once a week she needs 2r4 hours nude)

It would be great that she is responsible to tell people she is a sexual slave/slut. A subtle tattoo she could show that says this.

I like to keep sluts barefoot. Especially in public where it draws attention.

So many fun things to do.

Take her out on a leash. Make her do the shopping in a swimsuit. Have her serve friends...or enemies. Make her earn whatever clothing or privileges by humiliating herself. Take pics to show her off, humiliate her.

Get a cage for her...that can be fun. Take her to a sex shop and make her model/perform.

Hahaha.

Make sure you know what turns her on the most. Let us know her fantasies. Let us know what she hates, and what you can use to control her if she gets...uppity.

Enjoy

Slut M · 11-04-2020, 01:27 PM

Hi everybody!

Sorry for the slow reply. Master and Mistress were busy yesterday and Master didn't want me to reply until we had a chance to talk more about what your suggestions and ideas mean. I know I sometimes act before I think and my first reaction to reading your posts was WOW! YES! I HAVE NO LIMITS!

Master pointed out that I DO have some, even if there aren't very many of them. So... I figured out how to add those to my signature. I'll change them based on what I learn.

Quote:

Originally Posted by showyouoff

Well, hello Slut! I'd like to know some basic things
1) what's your best feature?
2) how lovely is your ass? (I'm an ass man...can't resist)
3) What's the best orgasm you've been allowed recently?
4) what's the dirtiest thing on your mind right now?

For number 1 and 2, Master says my ass is my best feature. My boobs are not very big (30c), but he likes when I wear tight short shorts and tight skirts that show my ass. Other things, people say sometimes is I have nice hair - it's long, down to my lower back and also sometimes that I have big eyes and some like that I have dimples. Master said that my naked ass is still better than the rest of those. :-)

3) Best orgasm - Mistress sat on my face while Master switched back and forth between spanking my pussy and fingering me. The combination of Mistress calling me dirty names and Master mixing pain and pleasure, and telling me if I could cum or not, GOD that drove me crazy and when he said I could cum I just exploded!

4) This dirtiest thing on my mind right now is this comment.

Quote:

Originally Posted by zephyrnem

Have her serve friends...or enemies.

This was some of the conversation yesterday and involved stuff that Mistress did not know about me yet. The story Master and I always told is that he met me when I applied for a secretary job with him. But then there is the truth. When I was 18 I started I started working as an escort, and more truth... I was a prostitute. There was some medical stuff with one of my family (I come from a big family - it's complicated, Mistress once called us a appalachian shit show - and that's pretty correct actually, but we are close - they don't know the truth about me) and I wanted to make money to help. The money was good, and like I said before, I like being a slut. And even when we didn't need the money so much anymore I kept doing it. I met Master when he was a client and he became one of my regulars for a little over a year. I quit as we became closer and we got married about a year after that.

Like I said, I feel like I'm discovering again who I really am. A slut. I'm a slut that serves anyone. Anyone. Master likes zephyrnem's idea alot! (I wish I knew how to say your name the right way!) He used to like it when I'd tell him about other clients (even though I wasn't supposed to) and Mistress really loves it too! Money isn't an issue - and that makes me feel like even a bigger slut. Its not about money - its about being used. Being a real slut again. I'm typing this and my heart is pounding. Master sharing me is the dirtiest and most exciting thing on my mind right now!

So... there it is. Its out there now and Mistress knows and all of you know too.

All of your suggestions so far are great! I'm at work right now. Mistress picked out my clothes. I'm wearing a tight sleeveless blouse, no bra - I think everyone sees how excited I am!!!! a short black denim mini with a sliver zipper in the front, and the same 6 inch stilleto sandals from halloween. Master and Mistress worked at the election yesterday and slept late this morning. I will make them dinner tonight and make sure they can relax. Tonight or tomorrow, we are going to a sex shop. Mistress wants to buy some toys and other clothes for me. I haven't been allowed to cum since Monday - I feel like my body is on fire and full of electricity!

Thank you again for all your amazing posts!
-m

Qwertyasdfgh391 · 11-05-2020, 04:46 AM

If you’re at work slut, roll a die and edge that many times. As you must be a bit of a pain slut too, put bulldog clips on your nipples while you edge.
There’s a good slut.

11-02-2020, 08:50 PM	#1
K&B Baby Member Join Date: Nov 2020 Posts: 1	Help us train, humiliate, and use our slut (f32) Hello… I’m in kind of a complicated relationship, at least compared to what I’m used to. I guess it’s Dom-Domme-sub, where I’m hoping to get help, ideas, and dares to humiliate my boyfriend’s sub slut wife and teach her her place. The slut, Emma is married to my boyfriend, Ben. Ben and Emma, and my ex-husband and I, used to swap partners. My ex was actually the one who discovered Emma is so submissive. That worked well for years – not every day or anything, but almost monthly. To make a long story short, Marc (my ex) and I split up and the swapping arrangement went on a long hiatus even though Ben and I would see each other sometimes. I recently moved back to the area and work for Ben now. He and his family own a bunch of businesses, including a chain of car dealerships where Ben is owner/manager, and I work as one of the sales associates. Emma is Ben’s secretary. I’ve been enjoying picking things up with Ben again, and like going to his office for an afternoon quickie – we fuck each other’s brains out with little Emma sitting outside, then let her come in the office to wipe off any cum from the couch or the floor. Ben likes when I make her crawl, she’s even licked my boots while he jacked off into her hair. She’s the first girl I’ve been with and Ben enjoys ordering her to kiss me, lick me, and eat me too. I’m staying at their place right now. They have a huge house in the country with a pool and stable. My stay was supposed to be temporary until I found a new place, but we’re starting to establish these new roles with the three of us. Even though it’s Ben and Emma’s house (his really), Ben’s been encouraging me to think of it more as mine and his, and Emma’s been in a more and more submissive role with the three of us. Last Saturday, everyone at the dealership wore costumes to work for Halloween. We had Emma dress up as a slutty school girl – I thought it might be pushing it for work but she doesn’t interact with customers at all – just the employees, and Ben enjoyed it. She’s 32 (Ben and I are in our late 40s) and looked really hot, but pretty ridiculous too in a tiny miniskirt, stiletto heels, and a white blouse – unbuttoned, just knotted at the front. She’s cute, like girl-next-door cute, but she looked like a $1 hooker Saturday and some of the guys from sales and the mechanics too, were hitting on her. My and Ben’s relationship is a very open secret that’s really not a secret at all anymore, and we both enjoyed how embarrassed she seemed getting all this attention from all those horny dudes, but she was clearly turned on by the whole thing too! We’ll have Emma (we call her m&m, like the candy or just "m") introduce herself too. I’m sure I’m forgetting something, so please ask about anything you need to know about. Thanks for reading this and for all the great posts I’ve seen so far! This looks like a pretty awesome group! Best, Karen

11-02-2020, 09:05 PM	#2
FeeltheRez Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: Null Island Posts: 531 Blog Entries: 1	Sounds like it was quite the party. I find it hilarious that you've moved into her home and now are in a dominant position not just on a temp basis but basically are there around her every corner (not in a ruin your life kinda way but more in a 'The leash just got shorter' kind of way). It's gonna be interesting to see how things turn out. __________________ 29/M/Dom Loves: tits, I mean gosh! They're just so wonderful Likes: can jive w/pretty much anything if I'm in the mood Limits: permanent PM me: Your thoughts on tits, tit bondage, and tit related dares. Kinda racking my head around why ppl like caning them but not against the idea. If you have an inkling why lemme know.

11-02-2020, 11:17 PM	#5
Filthycumguzzler Member Join Date: Sep 2018 Posts: 83 Blog Entries: 1	Oooh, thanks so much for sharing this story with us! This seems like a super hot dynamic you all share, and I’m happy you’re all enjoying it in a healthy and super fucking kinky way. I’m honestly a little jealous of your little slave m, with how she’s basically living a ton of subs’ biggest fantasies as a 24/7 submissive slut under the two of you. So, for some ideas of how to put her in her place! I think a great way to start that’s sure to keep any obedient slut eager and willing to please is a strict pleasure schedule. Of course if you’re just starting something like this it takes time to amp up the intensity, but, ideally, m shouldn’t be allowed to pleasure herself or orgasm without either of your permissions, granted either directly after some solid begging (which is always fun) or by a predetermined schedule of when she’s allowed to touch. A horny slut is an eager slut after all! Especially if whatever schedule you chose is in addition to regular edging sessions. Plus, it’ll really cement her submission to you. Aside from that, some subtle public play, like you mentioned with the slutty schoolgirl outfit. Making sure m is plugged, either anally or vaginally, is a great way to always be reminding her who’s in charge, and if you wanted to really make her sweat you could find a discreet vibrating plug and activate it sporadically throughout the day during work. Some hidden body writing is a great tool for humiliation and submission too. The more, and the closer it is to peeking out from under her clothes, the better. So yeah! To Karen and Ben, I hope you have tons of fun making m your little bitch. Hopefully some of these suggestions were helpful, and even if not, thanks for sharing your story anyway. And to m, good for you! That’s great that you’re able to enjoy your position, as out of the ordinary as it is. Just make sure you stay happy and healthy as a good little slut to your husband and his girlfriend, and I’m sure you’ll do great in your role in the relationship. Sorry if that was a little long winded, reading your story just got me really excited and inspired! __________________ Likes Denial, anal, piss, bondage, petplay, pics Limits Public, face pics, family, Please PM me for more dares or questions! http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=87892 PM Dares!

11-03-2020, 06:26 AM	#7
SirD getDare Succubus Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 1,720	Karen- since Ben wants you to think of the house as yours and his have you considered moving in to his room and putting m on the floor? Wouldn't want her to miss out on any sex you guys might be having or for her to be too far should you need her services. m- what kinds of likes/dislikes/limits do you have? Looking forward to hearing more about your adventures. __________________ 38M/ Straight/ Dominant Looking for a sub to play with / train https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=399872

11-03-2020, 06:39 AM	#8
zephyrnem getDare Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Iowa / Illinois Posts: 2,068 Blog Entries: 35	Definitely,you guys should control her clothing. At home she should get no clothing at all. (At least once a week she needs 2r4 hours nude) It would be great that she is responsible to tell people she is a sexual slave/slut. A subtle tattoo she could show that says this. I like to keep sluts barefoot. Especially in public where it draws attention. So many fun things to do. Take her out on a leash. Make her do the shopping in a swimsuit. Have her serve friends...or enemies. Make her earn whatever clothing or privileges by humiliating herself. Take pics to show her off, humiliate her. Get a cage for her...that can be fun. Take her to a sex shop and make her model/perform. Hahaha. Make sure you know what turns her on the most. Let us know her fantasies. Let us know what she hates, and what you can use to control her if she gets...uppity. Enjoy __________________ PM Dares Likes: exhibitionism, forced stripping, feet, humiliation, piss, mild to moderate pain, light xdress, tickling, mud, food, messy, dunking of all kinds, bondage, oral, anal, part time slavery Limits: scat, hard pain, blood, family, obvious/stupid public. Toys: Ball gag, plug, clothespins Clothes: Fishnet body suit, swimsuit (women’s), thong, leotard. Currently seeking Master or exhibitionist female to serve.

11-02-2020, 10:06 PM	#3
Slut M Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2020 Posts: 2	Hi, I’m m – Mistress Karen already told you about me. God this is exciting! I’m not sure what to say… I guess I just said I’m excited so that doesn’t need to be repeated! Anyway, wow! Like Mistress Karen said I’m 32. I’ve been married to Ben - Master (it still feels weird saying that!) for 9 years. By the 5th year, I don’t know, the heat in our relationship was going away, but when we started dating, I don’t know what the right word for it is, when we started seeing Karen and Marc, that changed things. Maybe it changed me. Or I think even more that maybe I didn’t change, I think I just started discovering who I am. Who I really am. And now that’s happening again. I’m submissive. Very! More than I realized, and even though its not a “normal” marriage, what’s happening makes me so excited! All the time!!! What else…. I’m 5 foot 1. I have blue eyes and blond hair but my hair is dyed red right now. I weigh 105 pounds. Please ask me anything else you want to know! I’m excited to be a slave and a slut. I love that word! Slut! SLUT! 😊 Hoping this works out! Thanks! -m

11-02-2020, 10:53 PM	#4
showyouoff Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2020 Posts: 10	Well, hello Slut! I'd like to know some basic things 1) what's your best feature? 2) how lovely is your ass? (I'm an ass man...can't resist) 3) What's the best orgasm you've been allowed recently? 4) what's the dirtiest thing on your mind right now?

11-03-2020, 12:05 AM	#6
CaffeineColin Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2019 Posts: 162	First, I wanted to tell three of you how nice it is to read an honest story like this of people doing the things that make them happy and taking care of each other in the ways they and the other people in the relationship enjoy. Sure, it might not be the typical Little House on the Prairie, but it's a nice home you're putting together. The body writing that was suggested before is an awesome idea and has my full support! In addition to controlling and limiting her pleasure, you can also insist that she not orgasm unless she has made you and Ben cum a ore-determined number of times. A few ideas for training m. They're mainly for when you're at home, but can be adapted for work, too: - She should wait at the door for you and Ben to get home and then take off your shoes, put away your jackets and work things. If you get back at the same time, she'd still get everyone else comfy at home and things put away before doing anything for herself. - Even if you or Ben enjoy cooking, m should do all the cleaning to give you and Ben some time to unwind after dinner. - Where she sits (and even if she is allowed to sit or kneel) when you are together at home could be dependent on her behavior. Good girls relax on the sofa, disobedient girls stand or kneel in the corner. - You can consider the amount of and type of clothing m is permitted to wear. Mostly sheer clothing, or deep cut shirts at the least, at work sounds like it could be possible. - There are bluetooth and internet controlled vibes she could insert and you and Ben could control from work to keep her excited whenever you please. Imagine she's talking to the mechanic when all the sudden the vibe starts going inside her. I hope some of this is interesting for you three - feel free to get in touch if you want more ideas. I really hope all of you have a great time and keep regularly posting here so we can see how everything develops. Have fun, -Colin

11-05-2020, 04:46 AM	#10
Qwertyasdfgh391 Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Posts: 613	If you’re at work slut, roll a die and edge that many times. As you must be a bit of a pain slut too, put bulldog clips on your nipples while you edge. There’s a good slut. __________________ Likes: Fantasy/Role Play, Edging, Masturbation control, Spanking, forced and denied orgasms, Little/Pet play and Honesty and Respect Dislikes: Dishonesty Limits: Blood, Scat, Knives, Needles, Family, Pics/Videos (of me)