Chastity with ex?

Nuada · 09-22-2015, 02:31 PM

I'm seeing my ex girlfriend next week. We're going to the cinema.

While we were together we played with a chastity cage occasionally, I never wore it for more than a few days at a time but we had amazing sex where she demanded massages and orgasms etc before unlocking me.

We've slept together a few times since breaking up so it's not unlikely we'll get intimate after the cinema.

I'm fantasising about wearing the cage to the cinema and being 'discovered' and being asked to hand over the keys.. or going to her place afterwards and undressing each other. She used to like it when I wore girl's underwear so could do that too.

Although I might get scared and just turn down any opportunity of sex as I'm suddenly embarrassed by the cage..

Djeskos · 09-22-2015, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Nuada

I'm seeing my ex girlfriend next week. We're going to the cinema.

While we were together we played with a chastity cage occasionally, I never wore it for more than a few days at a time but we had amazing sex where she demanded massages and orgasms etc before unlocking me.

We've slept together a few times since breaking up so it's not unlikely we'll get intimate after the cinema.

I'm fantasising about wearing the cage to the cinema and being 'discovered' and being asked to hand over the keys.. or going to her place afterwards and undressing each other. She used to like it when I wore girl's underwear so could do that too.

Although I might get scared and just turn down any opportunity of sex as I'm suddenly embarrassed by the cage..

If you're really that much into her...
Then i dare you to lock yourself up and give her the keys...
You'll have no spare ones and she can keep the keys...

lizzielizard · 09-22-2015, 04:59 PM

I'd like to lock up my ex

myplaytime · 09-22-2015, 06:41 PM

Lock yourself in the cage before going and wear panties and bra. Wrap key in a note and secure inside the bra. Note will read, "if you find this key I am yours to use as you wish". If everything goes as you are hoping and she finds the key you are her boy toy for the night or weekend and will obey and satisfy her every desires.

smalldickbound · 09-23-2015, 06:01 AM

I say that you lock yourself up, put the key on a chain, get to the theater and give it to her with a smile. then go from there.

Nuada · 09-24-2015, 08:30 AM

So we're definitely going to the cinema next week. There's another film I want to see though so I've asked her if she's free tomorrow.

I've locked myself up while I wait for a reply. I haven't played with my cage for a while and want to make sure it's still comfortable enough.

myplaytime · 09-24-2015, 02:45 PM

You chose to lock your self in so stay locked, if not comfortable, get use to it. You will now stay that way until she finds the key.

Nuada · 09-25-2015, 03:16 PM

Took the cage of when she replied. She wasn't free tonight but we're going to go to the cinema on Thursday. I'll update anyone interested then.

Asteroth · 09-25-2015, 03:49 PM

Please do - this sounds very interesting.

myplaytime · 09-27-2015, 06:50 PM

Put the cage back on next week and give a detailed report after your movie and evening with her.

Nuada · 10-01-2015, 06:00 AM

so Ive got a couple of hours until I need to go meet her.

Feeling a bit nervous about wearing the cage. Neither of us have work or college tomorrow so it's not unlikely we'll end up spending the night together.

My reckoning is because I've got the keys I can take the cage off at any point during the evening if I want to back out..

I'm going to wear boxers, if I sleep over whether I sleep with her or not I'm likely to want to take my jeans off- if I'm only wearing panties and we're not getting sexy it'd just be odd.

wish me luck!

Nuada · 10-01-2015, 07:04 AM

Just washed and locked myself up. Forgot how much of a bulge there was when I wore the cage.. most people wouldn't notice but I feel there's almost no way she wouldn't realise. I should abort..

smalldickbound · 10-01-2015, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Nuada

Just washed and locked myself up. Forgot how much of a bulge there was when I wore the cage.. most people wouldn't notice but I feel there's almost no way she wouldn't realise. I should abort..

nope, you should leave it locked on.
In fact, you should put the key on a chain and present it to your ex when you meet her.

tikiliz · 10-01-2015, 09:22 AM

Keep us posted on what you decided and what happened if you did go through with it please

Really curious!

Asteroth · 10-01-2015, 12:31 PM

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09-22-2015, 02:31 PM	#1
Nuada Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 34	Chastity with ex? I'm seeing my ex girlfriend next week. We're going to the cinema. While we were together we played with a chastity cage occasionally, I never wore it for more than a few days at a time but we had amazing sex where she demanded massages and orgasms etc before unlocking me. We've slept together a few times since breaking up so it's not unlikely we'll get intimate after the cinema. I'm fantasising about wearing the cage to the cinema and being 'discovered' and being asked to hand over the keys.. or going to her place afterwards and undressing each other. She used to like it when I wore girl's underwear so could do that too. Although I might get scared and just turn down any opportunity of sex as I'm suddenly embarrassed by the cage..

09-25-2015, 03:49 PM	#9
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	Please do - this sounds very interesting. __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

10-01-2015, 09:22 AM	#14
tikiliz Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 23	Keep us posted on what you decided and what happened if you did go through with it please Really curious! __________________ 26 / M / straight / sub BDSM Test Likes: Orgasm control / tease & denial / mindfuck / humiliation Dislikes: Cum eating / anal Limits: Public / Scat / Pics / Cam / Family / Permanent / Blood / Marks

10-01-2015, 12:31 PM	#15
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	Subscribed to this thread so that I don't miss anything __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

09-22-2015, 04:59 PM	#3
lizzielizard Account Banned Join Date: Sep 2015 Location: usa Posts: 15	I'd like to lock up my ex

09-22-2015, 06:41 PM	#4
myplaytime getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2014 Posts: 268 Blog Entries: 1	Lock yourself in the cage before going and wear panties and bra. Wrap key in a note and secure inside the bra. Note will read, "if you find this key I am yours to use as you wish". If everything goes as you are hoping and she finds the key you are her boy toy for the night or weekend and will obey and satisfy her every desires.

09-23-2015, 06:01 AM	#5
smalldickbound Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Maryland Posts: 773 Blog Entries: 35	I say that you lock yourself up, put the key on a chain, get to the theater and give it to her with a smile. then go from there.

09-24-2015, 08:30 AM	#6
Nuada Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 34	So we're definitely going to the cinema next week. There's another film I want to see though so I've asked her if she's free tomorrow. I've locked myself up while I wait for a reply. I haven't played with my cage for a while and want to make sure it's still comfortable enough.

09-24-2015, 02:45 PM	#7
myplaytime getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2014 Posts: 268 Blog Entries: 1	You chose to lock your self in so stay locked, if not comfortable, get use to it. You will now stay that way until she finds the key.

09-25-2015, 03:16 PM	#8
Nuada Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 34	Took the cage of when she replied. She wasn't free tonight but we're going to go to the cinema on Thursday. I'll update anyone interested then.

09-27-2015, 06:50 PM	#10
myplaytime getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2014 Posts: 268 Blog Entries: 1	Put the cage back on next week and give a detailed report after your movie and evening with her.

10-01-2015, 06:00 AM	#11
Nuada Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 34	so Ive got a couple of hours until I need to go meet her. Feeling a bit nervous about wearing the cage. Neither of us have work or college tomorrow so it's not unlikely we'll end up spending the night together. My reckoning is because I've got the keys I can take the cage off at any point during the evening if I want to back out.. I'm going to wear boxers, if I sleep over whether I sleep with her or not I'm likely to want to take my jeans off- if I'm only wearing panties and we're not getting sexy it'd just be odd. wish me luck!

10-01-2015, 07:04 AM	#12
Nuada Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 34	Just washed and locked myself up. Forgot how much of a bulge there was when I wore the cage.. most people wouldn't notice but I feel there's almost no way she wouldn't realise. I should abort..