08-13-2022, 02:18 AM | #1 |
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25/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in any place (24/7 dynamic)
25/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in any place (24/7 dynamic) So as the title, I hope, makes abundantly clear I am in the market for a kinky slave who enjoys living the lifestyle 24/7 and loves the idea of TPE. NB folk AFAB are more than welcome to get in contact. So lets get into talking about me shall we? Lets start with the vanilla. The vanilla! From my ads title you already know my age and location. so there is no point rehashing old news haha. Looks wise I find myself on the more chubby side of the equation, mostly due to a mixture of lockdown and a side effect to some medication. I am comfortable with my body, I do aim to to get back into my more physical hobbies such as swimming and hiking to lose a few pounds. You know what they say about chubby men, we do snuggle better and keep you warm on those cold winter nights. Now as you may have gathered from the title of this ad and my Reddit name I am rather nerdy. Hell who am I kidding I am nerdy as all hell. From anime to gaming, comics to lego, warhammer to board games I love it all. It would be slightly important to me that my partner shared at least some nerdy hobbies but it is not a necessary. I will take some time to outline a few of my nerdy hobbies.
The kinky side! So I have been into BDSM since I was around 19/20, so close to 4 to 5 years. I am not a new come to the kink scene but I am a new comer to this lovely forum. Over those years my tastes changed and what I was seeking began to take shape, until here we are today and I know just what I am looking for. The idea of this section of my ad is to try and put into words what exactly I seek in a dynamic and what my kinks are, as well as the type of slave I seek in a partner. So here we go! So first and foremost I would say my biggest kink is that of TPE. It is something I have found I require in my dynamic time and time again. From the smaller choices over things outfits and make up, to the larger aspects of financial control (I.e. you needing permission to buy luxuries and other non essential things. I.e. buying a Starbucks etc). This is, as you can imagine, a kink that evolves over time and as trust depends. I would never expect my partner to surrender all control initially because that is both stupid and unrealistic. I discuss in great detail with my partner all the ways she'd be comfortable surrendering control and build a foundation from their. So those interested in TPE feel free to ask any questions. While not a "kink" as such I do seek a 24/7 dynamic. This ties in with my love of TPE. My dream dynamic is one that molds and blends seamlessly into day to day life. I want to create a dynamic that is ever present. One with rules for all aspects of my partners day to day life, engage in both sexual and non sexual kink. Have things like rituals, a day collar and private/play collar. I have so many ideas that if I put them all in this ad it would be far to long haha. So as you can imagine dear reader I want a lady that shares this idea, one that sees being a slave as a 24/7 dream not a bedroom fantasy. In past relationships/dynamics I have played around with journals and diaries. Things like a daily journal entry to keep track of my partners thoughts on our dynamic. I think journals can be an excellent way to gleam and insight into my partners mind and for her it can sometimes be easier to write down feeling in a structured manner. In addition to this I have also had previous partners suggest the idea of keeping like a food diary, this can be linked back to my TPE kink and while I enjoyed it, it isn't something I would say I crave. In other ads on this forum I see many people listing all their kinks so bellow you can find my own list:
I think the above just about covers most of the kinks and kinky interests my perverted self enjoys, however I am always down to try new thing so if you find something you enjoy I have not mentioned let me know and I am sure we can discuss it. Now as fun as knowing my kinks is we also need to go over my limits:
So now that I have covered my kinky interests and limits as well as what I crave/seek in my dynamic with a partner, lets talk about the type of partner I seek. Firstly I would love a partner that enjoys make up and dressing up. One that has a rather large collection of both make up and clothing. Someone that loves the idea of getting dressed up in an outfit completely picked by their Dom for the sheer reason it makes them happy to see him happy. In terms of make up or style looks I really enjoy everything haha. From bright and vibrant looks with eye shadow to more darker "alt" looks for both make up and clothing I love it all. Personality is the most important factor to me. If we click on a deep personal level I will easily find myself deeply attracted to you. Race, age and weight don't play much if any factor in who I am attracted to. Of course a base level of physical attraction is necessary but beyond that it is personality all the way for me. That is all about the kinky stuff so onto the closing statements (oh wait this isn't an essay is it?) So communication wise I am happy to start of with a few pm's back and forth on GD but would be much more comfortable talking on an app such as Discord. GD is a great site but its messaging features are lacking haha. Now if you made your way through this mammoth length ad, first of all, thank you for sticking with me I promise I am worth it haha. Secondly, you are probably wondering what to do next? I know this ad is double the length of most but I couldn't stop once I got going. Those parties that still stuck with me and made it to the end I do have one request. I absolutely love detailed messages, it makes me so happy to read a message of a similar detail to my own ad. I understand that not everyone is able to write at length on demand, so with that in mind I have come up with some questions to help frame out a message:
That covers everything I wanted to cover. I really hope that this ad is successful in helping me find that perfect someone I know is out there just waiting for me. So to all that made it this far thank you and I cannot wait to talk |
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