Can you make sense of this? - Page 2

Info Man · 12-13-2016, 07:02 AM

Well, having answered the basic question in making sense of your plight... Exactly what do you want from it? You have a general idea of why you are the way you are - what do you intend to do with that information... did you just want clarification or reassurance? are you looking to take steps to improve your position?

are you even satisfied with the answers provided so far by the people in the thread?

Angelic_Fire · 12-13-2016, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Info Man

Well, having answered the basic question in making sense of your plight... Exactly what do you want from it? You have a general idea of why you are the way you are - what do you intend to do with that information... did you just want clarification or reassurance? are you looking to take steps to improve your position?

are you even satisfied with the answers provided so far by the people in the thread?

I think I've come to a pretty solid conclusion that I like (most) of what I was taught and I do want to be able to use it further, that's the one reason why I liked it so much, it was useful.
In regards to what I'll do with it now, I'll use my knowledge to help other people, whether it be sub or dom, to be trained and help train "properly."
The main thing I wonder now is what on earth are my friends going to do about it, they're trying to break me out of it, but I'm pretty comfortable knowing all that stuff, as long as it isn't used in the wrong way. So far, I think I'll be okay.

Angelic_Fire · 05-22-2018, 01:57 AM

Hi all,

After looking back at this thread after having so much time away from an S/M environment. And actually looking at where boundaries should have been put in place, I have come to the conclusion that I was severely abused.

I now have two counsellors, a psychiatrist and am on anti-depressants, as well as various other help groups to deal with the effects this had on me.

I'm going to be honest here, but this started well before I was 18. Before I was 16 even. People took advantage of me when they really had no right to. I now have to deal with the consequences, while they get away not knowing or caring what they did. I don't like to think about this.

Guys, even if a girl is underage and assures that it's okay to do things that she legally can't do, you have to stand up and say "No, you are too young for this, I don't know what got you to this place, but you deserve better at your age."

If there are any girls reading this that are under 18, you don't have to be here. There are other things that you should be able to focus on. Don't end up where I'm at just because so many people have told you that you're where you should be. You're not. You're worth so much more than what keeps bouncing around your mind.

If anyone would like to message me to ask about anything in this reply, please feel free to do so.

Good luck to all,
Make sure that you tell your subs about their true worth and subs, don't take anything less.

05-22-2018, 01:57 AM	#18
Angelic_Fire Member Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Australasia Posts: 36	Please read!!!! It's important!!!!!! Hi all, After looking back at this thread after having so much time away from an S/M environment. And actually looking at where boundaries should have been put in place, I have come to the conclusion that I was severely abused. I now have two counsellors, a psychiatrist and am on anti-depressants, as well as various other help groups to deal with the effects this had on me. I'm going to be honest here, but this started well before I was 18. Before I was 16 even. People took advantage of me when they really had no right to. I now have to deal with the consequences, while they get away not knowing or caring what they did. I don't like to think about this. Guys, even if a girl is underage and assures that it's okay to do things that she legally can't do, you have to stand up and say "No, you are too young for this, I don't know what got you to this place, but you deserve better at your age." If there are any girls reading this that are under 18, you don't have to be here. There are other things that you should be able to focus on. Don't end up where I'm at just because so many people have told you that you're where you should be. You're not. You're worth so much more than what keeps bouncing around your mind. If anyone would like to message me to ask about anything in this reply, please feel free to do so. Good luck to all, Make sure that you tell your subs about their true worth and subs, don't take anything less.

12-13-2016, 07:02 AM	#16
Info Man Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: United States, Central Time Zone Posts: 39	Well, having answered the basic question in making sense of your plight... Exactly what do you want from it? You have a general idea of why you are the way you are - what do you intend to do with that information... did you just want clarification or reassurance? are you looking to take steps to improve your position? are you even satisfied with the answers provided so far by the people in the thread?