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Old 03-17-2024, 02:21 PM   #1
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Male 50/male/slave seeks 21+/female/dom in any place (online 24/7)

50/male/slave seeks 21+/female/dom in any place (online 24/7)


Who am I ?

Submissive, Straight Male, 50 US PST, looking for my forever Domme.

I am a resourceful and intelligent submissive straight male in pretty good shape. I am interested in serving as a serious online submissive or slave over the long term for the right Domme. I can be dedicated, loyal, and consistent in obeying daily tasks, rules, and assignments over time.
I am demisexual so an emotional connection comes first for me, submission is not just about sex for me. Although it does play a role, submission is more mental than physical to me.

What Do I Offer?:
Dedication - I can be responsive for you almost anytime day or night. I have reasonable flexibility in my normal daily schedule to work around your needs.
Effort - My submission is important to me and I'm willing to put in the work.
Obedience
Friendship
Responsiveness - Responding to messages in a timely fashion is one of the best ways I can show my Domme that I prioritize my role as a submissive. My timely response to every message I am sent is an opportunity to demonstrate this.
Honesty - I’ve always been honest with Dominants, I don't lie and if I make a mistake or break a rule I confess right away.
Affection and Adoration - being under someone's power generally makes me fall for them.
Time - I have a fair amount of flexibility in my schedule most days, and I'm willing to adjust my schedule to fit into your free time.
Consistency - I’m in this for the long-term, not just until I get off.
My Body to use, examine, pose, or improve as you see fit.
My Orgasms, to restrict or control as you please.
Willingness to try new things. I try not to be too rigid in my preferences and I do enjoy experimenting and learning about new things.


What I'm looking for in a Domme:

I’m looking for a long-term online relationship with a woman I can respect, adore, and submit to, a partner on what is hopefully long journey of exploration for both of us.
Ideally some amount of daily contact - hopefully we can become friends and share our days outside of kink (or bits of it anyway)
Structure & Rules
Healthy Communication

My Ideal Qualities in a Domme:
High Standards - You expect a lot and you are not afraid to be demanding and strict when it matters and is needed. I want to be held to account for the details of tasks and rules.
A Nurturing Side - I need to feel cared-for and safe. I'd like to feel an emotional connection and trust my Domme to help me grow as a submissive and slave.
Ambition/Enthusiasm - ideally you are enthusiastic about exploring kink and control, and excited to keep exploring.
A Touch of Sadism- To keep me on my toes.

My Kinks & Likes:
Some things that I'm open to, interested in, or have enjoyed in the past:
Daily Tasks - I do best with some structure and outlets for me to put my submissive energy and creativity into. Journaling, morning rituals, photos, dedicated time focused on my Domme.
Rules - Give me rules , around language, how I dress, how you want me to groom my body, open to all sorts of ideas, tell me what you want to control.
Orgasm Denial - You control how and when I orgasm, if at all. I love giving this gift to my Domme.
Ruined Orgasms - The deepest I've ever been in "subspace" was just after my first ruined orgasm. It's so frustrating and so good at the same time
Body-writing - If you own me, my body is your canvas and whiteboard, I love being labelled and marked like property, as a reward or punishment, or just for your amusement. I love having a constant reminder that stays with me.
Photo Tasks and Assignments - I enjoy proving my obedience by providing my Dominant with pics, random inspections, picture imitation, complicated photo-assignments, or a humiliating pic just because, I love being challenged to make the lightning nice, get the right camera angles, even outdoor locations. make me into your personal model and posing doll.
Underwear Control - You may decide what kind of undies you want me to wear, how you want to dress me when I'm serving you, or how I dress when I'm sleeping.
Writing Tasks - I've done well with Dominants who had me keep a daily journal. It keeps me focused on my submission and is good for my mental health. Plus it gives my Owner insight into my submissive brain. I'm open to other writing tasks as well.
Micromanagement - I love the attention, even when it’s exhausting (to a point of course.)
Being Trained, conditioned, and programmed - Teach me simple commands or tricks to make your life easier. I want to be trained or conditioned, like a pet.
Pet play - Make me your puppy, your kitty, teach me tricks. collar and leash me.
High Protocol- Torture or test me by subjecting me to periods of extra-strict high-protocol communications.
Hypnosis - Use me as your hypno guinea pig and brainwash me. Very interested and open to suggestion. I've little experience beyond a few hypno videos that I've found and enjoyed, but I would love to learn more.
Being “On-Call” 24/7 - I love to feel like I may be called on and ordered to serve at any time, 24/7 (or as close as work and other responsibilities allow for), even if its not regularly exercised. It’s one of the things that makes me feel like a full-time slave vs. a part-time sub. I don’t need constant everyday surprises, just enough to keep me on my toes so I don't become complacent and lazy.

Sleep Interruption :
I am probably at my most submissive, obedient, compliant, and susceptible to influence when I am sleeping, sleepy, or just woken up. If you want to get inside my head, this is the time to do it. I love being disturbed, inconvenienced, roused from my cozy dreamland and forced to get up and obey on someone else’s schedule.

Maybe Someday after enough trust is established:
Face pics, voice, or identifying information. After I feel comfortable enough maybe.
Chastity Device. I have mixed feelings on this but if it is important to you then we can discuss it.
Being Taught to enjoy Your Kinks. Imprint your own kinks on me, show me what I'm missing, I love to experience new things.
Anal

Sometimes/It Depends:
Being Degraded - I enjoy degrading tasks/poses/body writing, but I don’t like being called things like “pathetic” or "Loser" or "Faggot." Insulting me (or anyone else) for being a submissive is a major turn-off.
Pee play (mild) - Usually meh or right on the line, but on rare occasions used effectively
Girl's Panties/ feminization - I’ve reluctantly enjoyed panties and mild feminization when it's approached in the right way and makes my Dominant happy. I wouldn’t do it on my own, but my desire to please is strong. Possibly an effective punishment.
Bladder control - maybe in small doses.

Dislikes & Soft Limits (Punishments?):
Pee Play Extreme
Being harshly degraded/shamed
Disappointment
Messy
Pain

Hard Limits (Stuff I am not looking to get into):
Cum Eating
Diapers
Poop
Findoms and anyone else looking for "tribute"

Misc Tidbits
Time Zone is not that Important - My time zone is U.S. PST, but because of my flexible schedule and my love for sleep interruption, a different time-zone or typically incompatible hours may be ideal for me. I’ve been able to adapt to serving Dominants in North America, Asia and Europe.

Domme or Dom?

As I am straight my preference is for a Domme/female (trans-friendly.) I have served and enjoyed serving male Doms in the past but I’m really looking for a Domme this time around.


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