Help with Denial, 24F

EleriB · 09-30-2020, 11:28 PM

So recently I have been assigned two weeks of denial. I have been really struggling and every night I find myself having trouble sleeping or waking up really horny and unproductive. I know to some extent this is the purpose behind denial, but I was wondering if anyone has any advice they could lend to me in order to help with the denial. Does edging and sexual play help or make it worse? If yes, what kind? Is there things I can do to help take my mind off it? Let me know! And thanks for the help in advance.

MrFrustration · 09-30-2020, 11:33 PM

I think everyone is different when it comes to denial. For some not touching at all is the best approach. For others regular edging takes the edge off the arousal. The only thing you can do is experiment... Try three days of no touch, and then three days of regular edging and see which works best.

Merlin · 10-01-2020, 12:02 AM

I have to agree with MrFeustration there, it is really a very personal thing, up to denial reducing hornyness over time for some.
You really can only experiment what works for you, no touch, regular edges, trying to do other dom/sub play (if you feel very submissive from it) or distracting with other things like concentrating on work

09-30-2020, 11:28 PM	#1
EleriB Member Join Date: Jul 2020 Posts: 41	Help with Denial, 24F So recently I have been assigned two weeks of denial. I have been really struggling and every night I find myself having trouble sleeping or waking up really horny and unproductive. I know to some extent this is the purpose behind denial, but I was wondering if anyone has any advice they could lend to me in order to help with the denial. Does edging and sexual play help or make it worse? If yes, what kind? Is there things I can do to help take my mind off it? Let me know! And thanks for the help in advance. __________________ 24/F Submissive switch, still figuring this out tho Likes/Limits (I am still exploring, so anything not on here just assume I haven’t tried it) Likes: Nipple play, anal, light spanking, short term orgasm control, double penetration, strict rules, scheduled tasks, denial play Limits: Feet, piss/shit, public nudity, pics/video, blood, permanent, sex life interfering with social/work life My wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/l...?ref_=wl_share

09-30-2020, 11:33 PM	#2
MrFrustration Longtime User Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 3,379 Blog Entries: 7	I think everyone is different when it comes to denial. For some not touching at all is the best approach. For others regular edging takes the edge off the arousal. The only thing you can do is experiment... Try three days of no touch, and then three days of regular edging and see which works best. __________________ Male fetishist/switch. Heels, corsets, tights add thread Track what I have been wearing and my points here

10-01-2020, 12:02 AM	#3
Merlin Misschievous's Authority Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Germany Posts: 1,552	I have to agree with MrFeustration there, it is really a very personal thing, up to denial reducing hornyness over time for some. You really can only experiment what works for you, no touch, regular edges, trying to do other dom/sub play (if you feel very submissive from it) or distracting with other things like concentrating on work