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Old 06-15-2023, 03:09 PM   #1
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Male 26/male/master seeks 18-30/male/slave in any place (serious online)

26/male/master seeks 18-30/male/slave in any place (serious online)

Hello submissive looking for a serious Master (“slave-aspirant”, I could say)!
The last few time I posted here, it didn’t ultimately turn out to be successful - but since I returned to the kink world in 2020 after a long break from kink and soon starting to follow a serious concept instead of just “playing around”, I learned that it takes patience and luck to succeed.


Like in mid-2021, when I met my slave Y. He was a reason for me to dive a little into pup play (mildly, and with me identifying as a human Master rather than a pup myself).
By now, we are very happy and committed with each other and I thought that my search had ended, regardless of my “policy” to take up to two boys at the same time. Additionally, with the return of more intense real life, the time for kink decreased anyway.


Lately however, I feel a growing interest in giving a second slave a chance to serve me.
With Y, I found more than what I was looking for after a year of many frustrating and a few nice, but ultimately unlucky attempts, so any offers I get and any choices I make on this, I would consider “bonus”, so you could say I’m just testing the market.

Too long; didn’t read (TL;DR)

Don’t be scared off by this long post or all those requirements, I’ll happily guide you once we establish contact: This is just a way for you to learn about my expectations, and it’s something you should at least read fully once.
You won’t be quizzed on it, but I think that this detailed text should give you a good impression on what to expect from and with me.

In short:
  • I mean the anonymous on my part serious, don’t expect to get more from me than text,
  • I am serious about a Master-slave arrangement, and I expect you to be that as well:
  • For me, conversations as well as cam-sessions on your part are a core part of my arrangement (with texting, reports, pictures and videos as additions),
  • I am and will be picky, but if you reach out, you’ll get answers to all the questions you might have as well as a fair chance,
  • I already have a slave (Y.), he will be my priority if I have to choose between him and somebody else. He might get involved with any new arrangement, but the details of that would have to be worked out between the three of us.


What this is all about (the “Arrangement” I offer)


I am a German Master in his mid-/late-20s, called Master L or Sir by his slaves. I can offer communications with you in English or German.
I am generally aiming for long term connections and are not interested in just a session (or occasional playing around) in general.

I'm only offering an online-based arrangement that is based on regular communication and sessions (including cam and voice/talking on your end for adequate judgment of your behavior, inspection and control), but I don't show myself, use voice or share pictures of me.
The only thing you will likely ever get from me (as a matter of personal policy) are text-based responses in and outside of cam sessions, which makes this arrangement very one-sided.
If that doesn't work for you, that's only fair, I'm just not the right Master for your needs then.

As a Master, I think sexual aspects (I like chastity with or without cage, cum control/teasing, edging and milking most) are important (and an integral part), but I also go for control in general because I consider a slave more as a project than a simple sex toy (example: written reports, protocol training, tasks depending on your current goals or duties outside of kink).

I like to get involved in the lives and decisions of my slaves. That doesn't need to be 24/7 or total power exchange – I like slaves who use their own brains and don't confuse their Master with a babysitter or daddy who makes every decision for them (so I’m not into micromanagement or offering it, at least not on a regular basis).
The aspirant should however be open to adapt at least his free time to his service as a slave and give up a considerable amount of freedom, share things about their personal life and live with my rules, orders and requests.

I also care for my slaves and lend an ear where needed, and I am willing to adjust the arrangement if circumstances change, as opposed to just dumping a slave after we established our arrangement.
I can't however be a Master to those who are into Sissyfication/Cross Dressing/feminization, who are trans-male or looking for someone to jut bully or blackmail them - I am not big on humiliation besides “putting the slave in his place” on a regular basis either. Furthermore, I’m also not interested in dirty or extreme play (like scat, blood, injuries, and other dubious practices).
I'm also not interested in slaves that start ghosting or leave after a short time: I'm serious about the arrangement I offer, and I expect the slave to be it as well.

My preferred age-span for applicants would be between 18 and the mid-30s - don’t even dare to contact me if you are younger than 18 - I will demand proof of age early on to make sure - the upper age is not a hard limit.
I must admit that I’m probably a little biased for twink or average, but I won’t disqualify aspirants just for being on the chubbier side (within reason) and are certainly not a "fitness nerd" - I will decide based on the “whole package” of your offer.
I don’t require previous experience, as long as the commitment is genuine, and my expectations are understood (if not, ask questions - asking questions is important!).

I’m based in Central Europe, but generally a night owl (at least as long as I can be – which is the foreseeable future), and it's possible that we can match a schedule even if you are from America (like Y., who’s based in US Central Time Zone).
The best chance for an arrangement to work out time-wise would probably be if you were available regularly in the hours around midnight or in the earlier evening.

When and how to contact me

If you have questions to decide about applying, you are welcome to reach out. You are not my slave (and I am not your Master) just because we talk and get to know each other better first. Just don’t waste my time by simply not reading what I outlined in this detailed offer first. I took the effort of writing it down, so please make the effort to read it and then respond properly (which means more than “Hi”, “Slave M24, want to serve!” etc.).
Please don't apply if you are just looking for some quick fun or a few sessions, as we would both just waste our time in the application process.
If you are unsure whether you should apply, feel free to ask any questions you might have, but be specific with it and give me some background on those questions.

If you want to submit your application right away, please include at least (the more I know from the start, the better I will be able to respond to you):
  • your name (at least your first name, not a fantasy name), date of birth (I will require proof of it early on) and your location (at least the timezone),
  • a bit about yourself and why you are interested in being my slave – including something about your kinks (your main likes and important hard limits, for example) - and why you think we could make a good match,
  • during which timeframes in Berlin time you are regularly available (use the 24h-format – for example 19:00 to 03:00 instead of 7pm to 3am – and check that you converted it into Berlin time),
  • if there are any limitations on times for service and cam sessions in particular, for example because of roommates,
  • a selfie (a clothed one, not a nude one at this early point!) - a picture like that will be one of the easy things I expect from a slave.

If it turns out that you are surprised what I am (not) offering or what I expect, it tells me that you didn't read and understood what I set out in this thread.
If you mention your "most important" kinks and none of those is control/power exchange, it tells me that you didn't take my offer serious. I'm open to consider anything you may propose that is within my limits and common sense, but our main interests should align, and I should be able to understand why of all Masters you can have online, I'm your choice.

How I decide


As I said, I consider myself picky with applicants, not because I don't want them with me, but because it's important to match/"click" to make this work, especially considering that one requirement for me is Y’s approval of you.
From my previous experience: You shouldn't be committed to too many other things (like a relationship, a stressful job or an upcoming project) or live under circumstances that don't give you the ability to discuss NSFW topics with me talking on your end on a regular basis.
Nothing of this would be a no-go, it's just difficult to get something to work under these circumstances.
In-depth communication should be possible on your end more regularly than once or twice a week, and daily contact in some form would be ideal (just a short text chat or a message outlining what's up should be possible even on very busy days - the one thing I despise most is ghosting because it’s easy: either commit or don’t).
I understand of course that life can be difficult, but choosing a very busy period to get started with me isn't ideal.
If something comes up when we have found our dynamic, I'll try to be flexible and supportive. At the same time, I must ask you to understand that there will be times when my priorities must be my own real life and/or Y.


Once, an applicant expected me to change my expectations for him because he would still be willing to play with me after noticing that I was searching for a slave a few months already.
But I was never so desperate that I would have taken anyone, and I certainly am not now. Any match I can make would be an addition to what I have with Y. already.
I won't change, but I also don't have unreasonable demands besides what I outlined in this post. Don't be shy to contact me and see if it fits, or ask the questions you might have. I’m open to giving you a fair chance, but in the end, chemistry is very important.

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Have a great summer!

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Old 06-15-2023, 06:44 PM   #2
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Okay, I probably "jinxed" it by complaining about not placing successful ads in the past.
I got a few interesting applications already and just wanted to make that known, so others don't have to get into the frustration of reaching out only to hear "not available anymore".

Good luck to all of you tho.
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