Forced and being controlled

[kinamar]

id like the computer program to partly control and a question anyone know of a similar site or program that does this?

[SockWhore]

i like being forced like bullied and humiliated.
i take pics of dares and tasks, so i guess maybe they could be used for blackmail?

[Kisune Karnon]

I voted for the family member. Since my wife is the only one to spank me, she does it how she likes.

[smallonem]

--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled?
someone I know
--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too?
- If yes, why about being blackmailed turns you on?
it is a fantasy of mine that I be blackmailed, but I don't know if I have the guts to do it in real
- If not, why not?

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
nope

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
nope

--• Did someone blackmail you before?
nope
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it?
yes
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend?
prefer a good friend
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough?
yeah
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet?
not immediately I have to know that she will not post the pictures if I obey

--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
female
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual?
straight

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have?
being forced to do sexual things for her, even if I don't get to enjoy it (like being put in a chastity(
- For how long are you forced or controlled?
don't have a time line but there should be an agreement that if either of us get annoyed or don't like it anymore, it will stop
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
by a female friend, she is taller than me and younger, she is 22, she is slim

--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed?
yes
- For how long are you blackmailed?
again as before if we either one of use wants to stop we stop
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
same female as above
- What material does he/she blackmail you with?
pics of me
- Is he/she anonymous or known?
she is a female friend of mine

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants?
I would love it to be abusive

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part?
part
- What can he/she control and what not?
she cannot control my finances, and when using bathroom mostly
- Any reasons why you choose for this?
nothing in particular just limits

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them?
yes of course
- Who would this person be?
same female as above
- What kind of pictures and videos? (with or without face, humiliating, naked or clothes, ...)
it would be nice with face so she can control me more. type of pics are naked and me dressed as a female

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die?
nope
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human?
I would prefer a human

--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automatically controls you?
yeah. is there one like that??
- What functions is it allowed to have? (webcam, picture, reports, disclosing stuff, controlling your internet usage, controlling what you wear, etc.)
webcam, picture, reports
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly?
partly
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human?
prefer a human

- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread?
8

[Consensus]

Originally Posted by RiskyFlame

--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled?

I would love my wife to do this. It is unlikely, so strangers on the internet and dice are the best ways open to me.

--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too?

Probably not. I mean, I can see the attraction, but my job makes this sort of thing very difficult.

- If yes, why about being blackmailed turns you on?
- If not, why not?

Mainly my job. I'm in a position where things such as this are considered to affect what I do (I disagree) and therefore security of my own private life is paramount.

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
- If yes, that thing that he/she forced you to do, was that related to anything kinky?
- Did he/she know that you like to be controlled?

Sort of. My mad-ex did so when I asked her to, meaning that she knew, but she wasn't happy with it at all. It may even be one of the reasons we were incompatible. Some strangers on the internet have taken pity and tried to force me to do things and I thank them for that. Yes, it was kinky.

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
- Who is or was this person?
- What did you have to do? (your most exciting example)

My mad-ex. I was handcuffed and naked whilst she was clothed. I hate having bracelets and bright colours on so I was dressed in bright colours and glow bracelets were put on. This was on two separate occasions.

--• Did someone blackmail you before?
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet?

No one has blackmailed me yet, I don't have much blackmail worthy material. I'd be interested, yes, but like I say - it would not be possible to actually do this in real life due to my job. Unless it was my wife, I guess, I'd trust her.

--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual?

To be honest? Females. I'm straight. Both would be acceptable however.

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have?
- For how long are you forced or controlled?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- Something more you want to say about it...

Good question. I'm not certain. I have proclivities to being cross-dressed and feminized, so that would play a part, but I enjoy the experience of being unable to say no to something so pretty much anything would be open I guess, within reason and with consent. As to who does the controlling, my wife would be awesome, but unlikely. So...

Given most people who would do this are anonymous and on the internet I guess what they look like, even their real selves, are pretty irrelevant. They can pretend to be anything they like.

--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed?
- For how long are you blackmailed?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- What material does he/she blackmail you with?
- Is he/she anonymous or known?
- Something more you want to say about it...

Alas, no. As per above statements, I haven't given it enough thought to have fantasies about it.

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants?

The latter. They would be in control after all - the fun is in giving up the control and responsibility. Provided I had veto, ultimately, then pretty much what they want to do. Ultimately, if I don't like it, I leave - no harm done.

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part?
- What can he/she control and what not?
- Any reasons why you choose for this?

It would be full control, but for short periods of time - my paranoia is strong. They could control pretty much anything but my relationship with my family and co-workers. Why? Well, outwardly I'm respectable and, for all I'd love a revolution, I have vulnerable children to look after (mine) and a mortgage.

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them?
- Who would this person be?
- What kind of pictures and videos? (with or without face, humiliating, naked or clothes, ...)

Depends, do they want them? Probably not. It's hard to get photos of me in my current home set up. I'd try, but I couldn't guarantee anything. Again, the person would be someone who I could trust as much as they could trust me, we're on the internet, we're careful.

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die?
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you?
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human?

Dice dares are great. I love the Proctor by Ms Cassandra, line writing, faproulettes (rollinfap.tumblr) and that kind of thing. Ultimately, I've been controlled by a human so little that I have little basis for comparison. As a consequence, I'd say that I enjoyed dice dares and the like very much.

--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you?
- What functions is it allowed to have? (webcam, picture, reports, disclosing stuff, controlling your internet usage, controlling what you wear, etc.)
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly?
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human?

I find this fascinating but haven't really given it much thought. I'd say it could control everything but disclosing stuff without my consent and with the restrictions on family and work detailed above. I would like partial control by computer program and... I'd like it about equally to be controlled by a human.

--• What do you think right now? (only related to this thread)
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions?
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread?

I did find out a bit about myself, yes. Thank you!

I'd rate this 8/10. Why? Well, it's qualitative, thoughtful and well crafted but by being a survey can't be perfect. It's a survey!

[xxxpilotx]

The majority of all the people on GetDare like to be forced and controlled by something or someone. This can be your master, your boy- or girlfriend, someone from the internet or even fate. So I thought, if the majority of the people likes this, why don't I ask some questions about it to everyone. So vote at the poll and answer the questions below.

Please, only vote and answer the questions if you like to be forced and controlled. If you are going to answer the questions, you may not only answer 'yes' or 'no'. Write why you do or don't want/like it.

--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled? Any person.

--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too? Not really
- If yes, why about being blackmailed turns you on?
- If not, why not? I don't like having a consequence to affect my "real" life

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something? Yes.
- If yes, that thing that he/she forced you to do, was that related to anything kinky? Yes. I've had multiple people online control my masturbating and ass toying and fingering. Then I would send them picture proof. I have also been controlled on cam.
- Did he/she know that you like to be controlled? Yes.

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you? Yes. I guess I didn't get the last question. See above for this answer.
- Who is or was this person?
- What did you have to do? (your most exciting example)

--• Did someone blackmail you before? No.
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it? Maybe.
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend? Yes
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough?no
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet?no

--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female? female
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual?straight with a bi curious side

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have? I would like to be with a couple with a dominant womman. I would love to be forced by her to satisfy her man and her. I would want her to bend me over and force a strapon in my ass while she makes me suck her guy's dick. That would be the minimum of what I would want.
- For how long are you forced or controlled?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- Something more you want to say about it...

--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed? no
- For how long are you blackmailed?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- What material does he/she blackmail you with?
- Is he/she anonymous or known?
- Something more you want to say about it...

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants? use and abuse

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part? just at times.
- What can he/she control and what not?anything can be controlled during the times they have control. Nothing long term for days on end.
- Any reasons why you choose for this? It is just for fun and play.

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them? yes.
- Who would this person be? anyone
- What kind of pictures and videos? (with or without face, humiliating, naked or clothes, ...) without face doing whatever they want.

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die? yes.
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you? I was driving from Detroit to Cleveland and I took on a request dare that ended up controling how much clothing I would wear, masturbating, etc., for the whole drive based on the colorsand types of cars/trucks I saw. I ended up driving naked for half the ride and edging at different stops about 20-30 times. It was so exciting. It was kinda a mixed fate/human thing.
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human? I prefer satisfying a human desire.

--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you? yes
- What functions is it allowed to have? (webcam, picture, reports, disclosing stuff, controlling your internet usage, controlling what you wear, etc.) reports, picture, control wear, control pee, control cum
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly? partly
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human? no

--• What do you think right now? (only related to this thread) nothing really
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions? nothing new
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread? 7

xD Sorry for those last questions, I just had to know if people like these kind of questions. I hope you liked it.

[MountainLion]

By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled?

--Mostly I like to be controller and influenced by strangers online. But really love being manipulated by kinky friends and software as well. Whatever causes me to forfeit control.


Do you like to be blackmailed, too?
- If yes, why about being blackmailed turns you on?
- If not, why not?

--Sure, within reason of course. I really love being blackmailed because it eliminates choice. Those holding the cards could pull you into a room at any given moment and touch whatever they want, do whatever they want, and send you back when they have been sufficiently entertained.


Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
- If yes, that thing that he/she forced you to do, was that related to anything kinky?
- Did he/she know that you like to be controlled?

--I once give one of my friends control over my body via webcam, and he instructed me to masturbate. To told me to grip really firmly and masturbate as hard and fast as I could. But close as I was I wasn’t allowed to cum.


Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
- Who is or was this person?
- What did you have to do? (your most exciting example)

--Yes, it was the same friend. He told me to ride a dildo on webcam as he masturbated. When he was done he simply kind of dismissed me. It was exciting to be treated like an object.


Did someone blackmail you before?
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet?

--I have no, but I would absolutely go for it. Like I mentioned earlier, the elimination of choice excites me to extreme levels. I’d be fine with if it were a distant family member or friend, but I’d be cautious with people I didn’t know too well.


What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual?

--I’m bi-sexual and prefer being controlled/forced by a burly dude. In these situations I’d like to be manhandled and overpowered.


What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have?
- For how long are you forced or controlled?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- Something more you want to say about it...

--For the entire evening I'm stuck with powerful male who is slightly older than me. In this fantasy we don't quite get along. But while we don't get along, there's an obvious physical attraction. After an awkward silence in which I ignore him, he suddenly initiates the night by pinning me to the floor, whipping open his pants and resting his genitals on my face, implying that I suck it. After a period of resistance and turning my head both ways, the tip finds my mouth. I comply submissively.


Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed?
- For how long are you blackmailed?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- What material does he/she blackmail you with?
- Is he/she anonymous or known?
- Something more you want to say about it...

--Initially for the evening, at a family gathering. A female cousin of about my age, average looking nothing special in particular, show me pictures she took of my computer screen with legal but unpopular porn on it. If I don’t do as she says, she’s going to show it to everyone. During the entire night she keep pulling me aside and teases me relentlessly. Asking me to expose myself, touch her in inappropriate places, and forces me elaborate about my sexual fantasies. When I’m fired up and about ready to burst she sends me back only to repeat it time after time again for the own personal entertainment.

Getting a taste for this kind of thing, her exploits continue long after that initial evening.


Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants?

--The latter. It’s not really control when there’s string attached. I’m just careful who I give the control to.


Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part?
- What can he/she control and what not?
- Any reasons why you choose for this?

--Contradictory to my previous answers, I’m going to say partially. While I’ll give them full control, the fact that I being controlled has to remain a secret. So things like clothing, behaviour and so on have to stay in my control when in public.


Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them?
- Who would this person be?
- What kind of pictures and videos? (with or without face, humiliating, naked or clothes, ...)

--I’d show and do anything for those deserving of that sort of trust. I find that kind of loyalty and assertiveness very arousing.


Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die?
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you?
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human?

--While I like machines/chance controlling me, I prefer there being someone’s devious mind behind it. So I don’t really have any lasting memories of time where I was incredibly aroused by a fate dare/challenge.


Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you?
- What functions is it allowed to have? (webcam, picture, reports, disclosing stuff, controlling your internet usage, controlling what you wear, etc.)
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly?
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human?

--If it can do so while keeping me anonymous, absolutely! I’d like it to;

-Be discrete and wearable in public.
-Control vibrators attached to the genitals, butt and nipples.
-Activate at random times.
-When it’s active, I’d like it to broadcast my voice (but distorted) and heartbeat.
-When broadcasting, I’d like it for people watching/listening to be able to says thing to me over an earpiece.
-Occasionally give the reigns to members of the audience for brief periods.


What do you think right now? (only related to this thread)
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions?
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread?

--I rate this thread a very solid 9 out of 10. It’s was an interesting and exhilarating trip down my own psyche. I knew most of it already, but it’s always nice to review it and reaffirm what you know. Which is that I’m a submissive perv.

[SeriousAutmn]

--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled?
preferably by my now ex gf when she comes back

--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too?
I never have nee blackmailed but the imagination is awesome. So you cant chicken out or something and you give control about yourself and do not need to be reasonable.

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
A lot of times but those were not sexual things. I think everyone who is not a total asshole gets forced to do things...

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
No

--• Did someone blackmail you before?
By a trustworthy person i think i would accept it.
This should be a good friend so he also loses something But not by a family member and also not by someone i know just little bit.
I dont know if i would accept it by someone i do not know or from the internet. Sometimes blackmailing is not that volutarily.


--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
I am a straight male so i would like to be forced and controlled by a female.

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have?
Well, thats a connection with blackmailing. I fantasize about beeing blackmailed and controlled by a female friend of mine for a month or so. I live at hers for that time and she controls my clothes, my sleep, my orgasms, her orgasms... for beeing controlled by my ex gf it would be at my appartement and she controls me when she is at mine.


--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed?
Beeing blackmailed would be with pictures. Just secrets are to weak since i can deny them. I think it would be for about a month.

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have
She could do anything to me, but always within my limits, so no public etc.

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part?
She could control my whole life. Exceptions would be that i need time to learn because i would appreciate to get a job

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them?
If i know she would never disclose them, i would give full nude pictures with doing any sexual things to my ex gf. To the other female friend i would also give nude pics but (and i do not know why) i wouldnt do anything on them.

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die?
I didnt do any dice dare from here but before i explored getdare i often rolled a die to decide if and which underwear i have to wear.
I thinkg being controlled by a human would be much more awesome but i never experienced it.

--• What do you think right now? (only related to this thread)
I did not find out anything new about me but this thread is nice so i give it a 7

[maxperv]

--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled? By women.

--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too? No, too risky.

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something? Yes
- If yes, that thing that he/she forced you to do, was that related to anything kinky? Yes
- Did he/she know that you like to be controlled? Yes

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
- Who is or was this person? Someone on GetDare
- What did you have to do? (your most exciting example) Multiple days of edges and punishments when I didn't make the day's requirements

--• Did someone blackmail you before? No
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it? Maybe
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend? Maybe
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough? No
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet? No

--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female? Female
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual? Bi-curious

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have? Slave in an BDSM gangbang
- For how long are you forced or controlled? multiple days
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...) A mixed group
- Something more you want to say about it... Not enough time or space here

--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed? A few, but not a big thing for me.
- For how long are you blackmailed? Long term
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...) Women
- What material does he/she blackmail you with? pictures and videos of me performing various "acts"
- Is he/she anonymous or known? Known
- Something more you want to say about it... Not at the moment

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants? Within bounds

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part? Fully

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them? No

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die? Yes
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you? Not knowing the extent of the punishment, the risk that its extreme.
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human? I like both.

--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you? No


--• What do you think right now? (only related to this thread) Interesting
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions? Nothing I didn't already know/suspect.
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread? Don't believe in numbers.

[CurvedDickSub]

--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled?
by any female...

--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too?
never tried before, but i think i would like it.

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
yeah once over skype, and she knew it. she forced me to strip and play with myself etc.

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
see above

--• Did someone blackmail you before?
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it? not yet
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend? depends on who, male no but female yes
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough? see above
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet? yes

--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual? female, and i'm straight

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have?
- For how long are you forced or controlled? a long period of time
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...) female, age and looks doesn;t matter
- Something more you want to say about it...

--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed?
- For how long are you blackmailed? a long period of time
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...) female, age and looks doesn't matter
- What material does he/she blackmail you with? naked pics or some 'extreme truths'
- Is he/she anonymous or known? known
- Something more you want to say about it...

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants? you've got no saying over that, that person can do whatever they want

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part?
- What can he/she control and what not? would love to have some sayings, as in limits
- Any reasons why you choose for this?

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them? yes
- Who would this person be?any female would be fine
- What kind of pictures and videos? (with or without face, humiliating, naked or clothes, ...)whatever she wants, but when i don't know her i would start without face

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die? dice dares over here
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you? naughty boys dice dare
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human? no

--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you? not really, like the human aspect
- What functions is it allowed to have? (webcam, picture, reports, disclosing stuff, controlling your internet usage, controlling what you wear, etc.)
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly?
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human? no

--• What do you think right now? (only related to this thread)
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions? not really
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread?8

[Hawkward]

I felt like answering this thread again as I feel my answers may have significantly changed since last year - as stuffs has happened.
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--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled?
> By someone, preferably a friend, that I could place trust in.


--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too?
- If yes, why about being blackmailed turns you on?
- If not, why not?
> I'm not sure to be honest... I've had an interest in it. I wouldn't "want" to be blackmailed, but I feel that with online control, there is only so much you can control someone before they say "no!", and try to back out. To me, I like the thought of blackmail merely as means to add an extra layer of feeling to being controlled., and feel that there would be real, tangible consequences that I'd realistically want to avoid as much as I can.


--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
- If yes, that thing that he/she forced you to do, was that related to anything kinky?
- Did he/she know that you like to be controlled?
> Hmm, yep a few times, and a mixture of kinky and not kinky. A recent example is how I learnt that cleaning my room was boring, but cleaning it for someone that had an element of influence over me, it made me happy, so in a ways they used my kink of being controlled to the beneficial act of cleaning ~


--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
- Who is or was this person?
- What did you have to do? (your most exciting example)
> Well, in a ways ~ I have certain elements of myself controlled. Since my friend lives far away, there's only so much we can do. So most control is through their words, or virtual using my computer, it's limited, but complimentary to our situation.


--• Did someone blackmail you before?
- If you get the chance to be blacmailed by a trustworthy person, would you accept it?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough?
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet?
> Nope, but I would... like to take that chance. My only fear, is that the person that has material that could be used to blackmail me, would... seem kinda disgusting. I have a large interest in using blackmail as a means to reinforce having control that might not otherwise be present through online, but... I worry that the person that would possess the blackmail material, wouldn't be all that happy, or feel a bit... put off by the material, so I choose to let things go at their own pace.


--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
- Are you straight, gay/ lesbian or bi-sexual?
> I've no preference, and I'm straight - I feel kink shouldn't be gender bound.


--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have?
- For how long are you forced or controlled?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- Something more you want to say about it...
> .... well, this is something I almost already do. Last year, I read an erotic manga called Sundome. In this manga, the main character goes from feeling like nobody, to trying to better himself for a girl - albeit through sexual gratification. The premise of using kink, to make myself a better person... makes me smile a little. Already I have bettered myself in this way.... I have a job, I've cut out several habits, and generally, I try to do things that they are happy about, and avoid what they don't want me to do, even if this goes beyond making myself a better person, ~


--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed?
- For how long are you blackmailed?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- What material does he/she blackmail you with?
- Is he/she anonymous or known?
- Something more you want to say about it...
> Not particularly... but if I were to hazard a guess, it would just be a case of having blackmail material that I would never want anyone else to see, that would make me more willing to do.... things, but what kind of things is at their discretion ~ as I said before, the less I know about, the better.


--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants?
> A person once said "why not both?", though realistically, I'd let them do as they please, if it makes them happy ~


--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part?
- What can he/she control and what not?
- Any reasons why you choose for this?
> Fuuuuuully!! Well, really I just want to devote myself to them ~ If that involves fully controlling me, then so be it


--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them?
- Who would this person be?
- What kind of pictures and videos? (with or without face, humiliating, naked or clothes, ...)
> I ah..... clothed, sure... maybe... just maybe unclothed... I'm not really aware myself, but if they wanted... and promised everything would be okay.... b-but... I'm not sure.


--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die?
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you?
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human?
>Mmm... see page 1, same response


--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you?
- What functions is it allowed to have? (webcam, picture, reports, disclosing stuff, controlling your internet usage, controlling what you wear, etc.)
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly?
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human?
> Surprisingly... not as much. I've tried lots of software before, but one thing they all share in common is that they're REPETITIVE and PREDICTABLE.... what I seek is something unpredictable, someone that I can't read well, which gives an amazing feeling knowing that they might be plotting, but won't tell you anything.


--• What do you think right now? (only related to this thread)
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions?
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread?
> Honestly, I want to progress at a rate that's comfortable for the person controlling me. If they want to do more, we'll do more, and if they want to do less ~ you get the gist. Though we also have a pure element, we chat, we are good friends with similar interests, and we're friends before we are dominant, or submissive. Of course, the idea of devoting wholeheartedly to them conflicts with this, but I learn over time to not overstep my boundaries, and still agree with myself that no matter what route I go down, they'll always be a close friend.

I'll give the thread a 10 now, since reminiscing and thinking of the future makes me feel rather happy ~

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--• By who or what do you want to be forced or controlled? By a close friend of the opposite sex.

--• Do you like to be blackmailed, too?
Yes, only if there was a way out of being blackmailed. I don't think I would like it if they continued to hold something over my head.

--• Did someone (so not fate) forced you to do something?
- No.

--• Did someone (so not fate) controlled you?
No

--• Did someone blackmail you before?
no
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by a family member or a good friend? Yes
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you know in real life, but don't know well enough? yes
- Are you willing to be blackmailed by someone you've never seen or someone from the internet? No, probably like the intimacy of it.

--• What turns you on more, being forced/ controlled by a male or female?
female/straight

--• What kind of "being forced and controlled"-fantasy do you have? nudity, ejaculation, humiliation, oral.
- For how long are you forced or controlled? A weekend.
- By who? Female, 23-40, slender, toned, large C sized breasts, bald pussy, red hair, green eyes.
Done in the forest with a group of women.

--• Do you have fantasies about being blackmailed? No
- For how long are you blackmailed?
- By who? (gender, age, what does he/she look like, ...)
- What material does he/she blackmail you with?
- Is he/she anonymous or known?
- Something more you want to say about it...

--• Does the relationship between you and the one who controlled you have to be 'pure' or can she abuse, use and humiliate you whenever, however and wherever he/she wants? Pure

--• Do you want him/her to fully control you or just for a part? Part
- What can he/she control and what not? cannot control my finances or where they control me. A place and time for the controlling must be agreed upon.
- Any reasons why you choose for this? Family

--• Do you want to give videos and pictures away to the one who controls you, knowing he/she would never disclose them? Yes
- Who would this person be? Female friend
- What kind of pictures and videos? naked, no face in bondage.

--• Did fate ever controlled you, e.g. by rolling a die? No.
- What's your most exciting example of fate that controls you?
- Do you like this more than being forced or controlled by a human? Only if a human is with me to ensure I complete it and that they can assist if needed.

--• Are you interested in a Android app or computer program that automaticly controls you? Maybe.
- What functions is it allowed to have? Camera
- Do you want to let this program completely control you or only partly? Partly
- Do you like the idea of a program controlling you more than being forced or controlled by a human? No

--• What do you think right now? Good questions, made me think.
- Did you found out something about yourself after thinking a lot about this subject and these questions? yes
- From a score of 1 to 10, what's the rating you give this thread? 8