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Old 04-04-2015, 06:41 PM   #1
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I found it pretty randomly and read a few sites, first I found it was quite a good site to jerk to and I also saw some good tipps for woman to train their man into chastity but than I saw one topic where it says:

The woman should stop the male if he wants to get out of chastity like for real.

They give the woman ideas like:

» institute a policy of permanent orgasm denial
» increase his chore/work load by 50%
» a severe cock caning or whipping session
» make an appointment to have his penis pierced
» discontinuance of all male chastity activities
» threaten to leave the relationship

exspecially the last one isnt that almost mental abuse o.o?
If a man really wants to re-think about his life in chastity than the woman should not interfere...
What do you think about it? I think this part is cruel and tries to make woman abusive...

Sry if there was something like this already somewhere in the forum :x
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Old 04-04-2015, 08:26 PM   #2
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I find that cruel. If someone wants out of chasisty, they should be let out.

And if someone threatens to leave the relationship because of that, I say let them leave.

Permeant chasisity is abusive if not agreed to. They should consent.

The whipping and piercing is ridicuoulous. It's painful and can mess up their cock.

And increasing workload, I have no objections to that one.

All but the threating to leave is okay if consensual.
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Old 04-04-2015, 08:30 PM   #3
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Yeah, this just plain violates the "Consensual" of Safe/Sane/Consensual. At the end of the day, a sub has the right to refuse any task for any reason. They simply choose not to and to allow the dominant control for the enjoyment of both. If the man wants out, his domme can make him beg, make him negotiate, but if he wants to end things he has that right, unconditionally.
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Old 04-05-2015, 04:46 AM   #4
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I would hope people have eough sense to realize this is abusive and not to follow this type of relationship.
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Old 04-05-2015, 05:11 AM   #5
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It also violates the 'sane' component in my opinion. That said, if both consenting adults choose to live that way, I guess it is fine, but to threaten to leave the relationship for example is a bit 'out of the scene' that you are playing. Like if you are doing a punishment session and punishing the sub/slave for bad grades/not working enough while not having added that to the list of things that can be played with.

Then again, I never understood the men who are into severe domination by their spouses, so what do I know :P For each their own I suppose.
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Old 04-05-2015, 08:04 AM   #6
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It's good to see people on here opposed to this. I've seen threads where users merrily went along with abusive situations.

And this is abusive! The guy should leave for sure, before he gets sucked deeper into that madness.
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Old 04-05-2015, 11:45 AM   #7
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Yeah I think this too...
It's just sad that this site is trying to give ADVICE to females about femdom...
This one was named: "The thinking womans guide to a fun and exciting Male chastity Lifestyle"
That is just sick.
And I mean it would be ok with consent of the man, but this ideas for when he really wants out thats just cruel...
I am happy that you think the same on here^^
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