Non sexual turn ons?

Twisted Kitten · 03-25-2018, 01:53 PM

Do you have any? Anything that turns you on, but isn't itself sexual?

For me, vaping fruity flavored vapes turns me on. So does a simmilar interest in anime and table top games. Being geeky!

foxknot69 · 03-25-2018, 02:08 PM

Being geeky is definitely a turn on! I love people who love nerdy stuff as much as I do!

Do furries count? :P I really like furries.

Also glasses. For some reason, I really like the look of a guy in glasses.

LegLovingSissy · 03-25-2018, 02:11 PM

I have been hearing quite a lot that "partial choking" turns most people on... I tried it, and yes it does...

Calcifer · 03-25-2018, 03:37 PM

I love it when people are geeky, and especially when it's something that I'm also geeky about! Specifically anime, and some video games (like Dark Souls and XCOM).

Somebody's confidence can be a huge turn on for me, even when it's a borderline superiority complex. It really fires up my submissive side when somebody exudes an aura of unshakable confidence or superiority.

That works into another turn on for me, which is competition, with a love for winning (but not being a sore loser). I love competing with people and I'll always do my best to win, and I love playing against people who are also trying to win. Trash talk turns me on, and when the winner rubs it in when they win. As long as they're not too salty when they lose.

I would say that submissive people turn me on too (because I do have a dominant side), but this is a lot more nuanced. Having a submissive personality is sometimes paired with a lack of self-confidence, and that's a big turn off for me. But under the right circumstances, submissive personalities can be a turn on.

Even though I'm mostly straight, I'm turned on by feminine boys who have girly personalities.

Bare feet and socks turn me on, but that's because I've been ingrained with a foot fetish, and I'm not sure that counts as something non-sexual. I have enough fetishes to make an entire second post about them all.

Asteroth · 03-25-2018, 04:05 PM

Sweating girls at the gym. Those that push themselves to the limit where I can see the strain in their faces, veins bulging, struggling to do one more repetition.
On the other hand, gym hoes in full makeup who just sit there taking selfies and trying to look hot are a turn-off.

Twisted Kitten · 03-25-2018, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Asteroth

Sweating girls at the gym. Those that push themselves to the limit where I can see the strain in their faces, veins bulging, struggling to do one more repetition.
On the other hand, gym hoes in full makeup who just sit there taking selfies and trying to look hot are a turn-off.

So then fitness, for the sake of being healthy, with that visible personality trait of perseverance and determination?

Another strange turn on for me is the smell of fresh rainfall.

SlaveLeia147 · 03-25-2018, 07:46 PM

I'm sapiosexual. I'm aroused by intelligence and wittiness in my men!

Twisted Kitten · 03-25-2018, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by SlaveLeia147

I'm sapiosexual. I'm aroused by intelligence and wittiness in my men!

That's really interesting! I've never heard of sapiosexual before, I'm gonna have to look that up!

SlaveLeia147 · 03-25-2018, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Zombie Ninjas 7

That's really interesting! I've never heard of sapiosexual before, I'm gonna have to look that up!

sa·pi·o·sex·u·al
ˌsāpēōˈsekSH(o͞o)əl/
adjective
1.
(of a person) finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.
"I met a PhD student from Germany who told me that he was sapiosexual"
noun
1.
a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.
"I'm a sapiosexual and I like to talk"

I looked it up for you!

foxknot69 · 03-25-2018, 08:04 PM

I have to admit, I find intelligence attractive as well (though not in the context you do, and I'm not trying to demean or insult you or anything, I'm sorry if it seems that way!), although it could really just be the opposite, and I can't stand idiocy!

Dman1212 · 06-01-2018, 07:00 PM

Yes I do, pie is my favorite dessert. I go 6 to midnight real quick!!

shiloh · 06-01-2018, 10:16 PM

Being tall 💕💕💕💕
Big hands (esp for guys lmao. But girls too)
Deep voices
For guys, stubble, and the occasional beard is nice
For girls I like tall and slender girls with flatter chests
Brown, grey, or green eyes ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Full lips
Long hair
Freckles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Idk why but a big nose on a guy is so got damn good. It's so good

FoxyFluff · 06-03-2018, 08:05 PM

A pitch black sense of humour. I love someone who has the capacity to see some form of humour in the bad of life, To peel away from the savage hold of emotion, and can dilute it to its bare factual reality to extrapolate comedy. That's not to say a sociopath. This person should still be able to emphatize with the suffering of others.

A constructive outlook towards problems and how to solve them. I can't stand self pity. Strife is to be met with calculated challenge, not sorrow and defeat. Not beyond a certain point, anyway.

Someone who will listen to you, but then gives it to you straight. That shows respect towards your opinions, but also to your ability to grow as a person, and your ability to take criticism when due.

Someone wanting to binge watch a show from start to end, no matter how long it takes, provided we have the time. Shows, movies and games are my life, and I will spend three full days going through a show pr game if I have the time to spend.

Someone showing the interest into some, or the majority of shows, movies and games I love. This one to lesser extend, since I'm not going to deny anyone liking what they like. But it is a huge turn on to geek out about the things you love personally.

Someone who knows when to objectify, but also when not to. It's so incredibly vindicating to be objectified and considered hot by another person. But there are times in which the complex mind needs attention. Perhaps an outside view and analysis to help keep things in perspective. Someone just 'knowing' how and when to do this is extremely appealing.

An untamed lust for pizza. If I have to explain this WE CANNOT BE FRIENDS! >:U

I'll stop there..

poetrylover828 · 06-04-2018, 06:24 AM

So I was watching Queer Eye with a friend yesterday and one of the episodes reminded me how much a good man bun can turn me on. Also someone who is funny and sweet.

Underpants · 06-04-2018, 08:33 AM

Brains in a woman, this has been mentioned before.

Complete Bimbos, the pink and fluffy types that are more girly than you can
imagine is possible.

VPL, the outline of the underwear under a tight skirt or trousers.

03-25-2018, 01:53 PM	#1
Twisted Kitten Distinguished Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: In a Semi Truck on the US east coast Posts: 746 Blog Entries: 61	Non sexual turn ons? Do you have any? Anything that turns you on, but isn't itself sexual? For me, vaping fruity flavored vapes turns me on. So does a simmilar interest in anime and table top games. Being geeky! __________________ 28/Trans woman/might be ace now? My BDSM test results unlocked Last orgasm:08/06/23 (from getting face fucked and swallowing) Likes/Limits/Dislikes PM dares Toys kik: obvious_Ocelot

03-25-2018, 02:08 PM	#2
foxknot69 getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: In the (furry) trash Posts: 1,184 Blog Entries: 3	Being geeky is definitely a turn on! I love people who love nerdy stuff as much as I do! Do furries count? :P I really like furries. Also glasses. For some reason, I really like the look of a guy in glasses. __________________ 28 / Male Non-Binary / Pan / Pet / Furry / Nerd Likes/Dislikes/Limits PM Dares Remaining PM Tasks Edges Before Orgasm: 0 Wedgie Time: 0 minutes Ball Slaps: 0 Spanks: 0 Days of Denial: 0 "I'm a silhouette asking every now and then: Is it over yet? Will I ever feel again?"

03-25-2018, 02:11 PM	#3
LegLovingSissy Account Banned Join Date: Aug 2017 Posts: 202 Blog Entries: 5	I have been hearing quite a lot that "partial choking" turns most people on... I tried it, and yes it does... __________________ I'm ella . I won this account in a bet Likes: public,naked,exposure,stores,risky,extreme Limits: pictures,police, anal Age: 24 Gender: female

03-25-2018, 03:37 PM	#4
Calcifer Senior Member Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 137 Blog Entries: 6	I love it when people are geeky, and especially when it's something that I'm also geeky about! Specifically anime, and some video games (like Dark Souls and XCOM). Somebody's confidence can be a huge turn on for me, even when it's a borderline superiority complex. It really fires up my submissive side when somebody exudes an aura of unshakable confidence or superiority. That works into another turn on for me, which is competition, with a love for winning (but not being a sore loser). I love competing with people and I'll always do my best to win, and I love playing against people who are also trying to win. Trash talk turns me on, and when the winner rubs it in when they win. As long as they're not too salty when they lose. I would say that submissive people turn me on too (because I do have a dominant side), but this is a lot more nuanced. Having a submissive personality is sometimes paired with a lack of self-confidence, and that's a big turn off for me. But under the right circumstances, submissive personalities can be a turn on. Even though I'm mostly straight, I'm turned on by feminine boys who have girly personalities. Bare feet and socks turn me on, but that's because I've been ingrained with a foot fetish, and I'm not sure that counts as something non-sexual. I have enough fetishes to make an entire second post about them all. __________________ *29/Male* Likes/Limits ; Toys/Etc PM Dares Ask for my Kik Last edited by Calcifer; 03-25-2018 at 03:44 PM.

03-25-2018, 04:05 PM	#5
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	Sweating girls at the gym. Those that push themselves to the limit where I can see the strain in their faces, veins bulging, struggling to do one more repetition. On the other hand, gym hoes in full makeup who just sit there taking selfies and trying to look hot are a turn-off. __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

03-25-2018, 07:46 PM	#7
SlaveLeia147 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 301 Blog Entries: 13	I'm sapiosexual. I'm aroused by intelligence and wittiness in my men! __________________ Anal Only Whore My username means I like Star Wars, not that I am a slave. I'm a sub.

03-25-2018, 08:04 PM	#10
foxknot69 getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: In the (furry) trash Posts: 1,184 Blog Entries: 3	I have to admit, I find intelligence attractive as well (though not in the context you do, and I'm not trying to demean or insult you or anything, I'm sorry if it seems that way!), although it could really just be the opposite, and I can't stand idiocy! __________________ 28 / Male Non-Binary / Pan / Pet / Furry / Nerd Likes/Dislikes/Limits PM Dares Remaining PM Tasks Edges Before Orgasm: 0 Wedgie Time: 0 minutes Ball Slaps: 0 Spanks: 0 Days of Denial: 0 "I'm a silhouette asking every now and then: Is it over yet? Will I ever feel again?"

06-01-2018, 07:00 PM	#11
Dman1212 Butterfly’s Edging Bitch Join Date: Mar 2016 Location: Ohio Posts: 390 Blog Entries: 10	Yes I do, pie is my favorite dessert. I go 6 to midnight real quick!! __________________ LIKES, LIMITS, DISLIKES, TOYS Male 32, Discord, UPDATED PM DARES Triangles Task 19 out of 25

06-01-2018, 10:16 PM	#12
shiloh Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2017 Location: Louisville Kentucky Posts: 114 Blog Entries: 1	Being tall 💕💕💕💕 Big hands (esp for guys lmao. But girls too) Deep voices For guys, stubble, and the occasional beard is nice For girls I like tall and slender girls with flatter chests Brown, grey, or green eyes ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Full lips Long hair Freckles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Idk why but a big nose on a guy is so got damn good. It's so good __________________ 20 f, bisexual, 5'1", 140 lbs, c cup Likes:pee holding and wetting, wedgies, pussy insertation and stretching, panty stuffing (putting things into panties), ice, pillow humping Limits: too much pain, public, pics or videos, poop, involvin others or animals You can call me Shy for short 😘 I am not looking for a dom/domme right now, but would probably be willing to play! Feel free to message me when I'm online! Ask me anything: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=330992

06-03-2018, 08:05 PM	#13
FoxyFluff Senior Member Join Date: May 2017 Posts: 118	A pitch black sense of humour. I love someone who has the capacity to see some form of humour in the bad of life, To peel away from the savage hold of emotion, and can dilute it to its bare factual reality to extrapolate comedy. That's not to say a sociopath. This person should still be able to emphatize with the suffering of others. A constructive outlook towards problems and how to solve them. I can't stand self pity. Strife is to be met with calculated challenge, not sorrow and defeat. Not beyond a certain point, anyway. Someone who will listen to you, but then gives it to you straight. That shows respect towards your opinions, but also to your ability to grow as a person, and your ability to take criticism when due. Someone wanting to binge watch a show from start to end, no matter how long it takes, provided we have the time. Shows, movies and games are my life, and I will spend three full days going through a show pr game if I have the time to spend. Someone showing the interest into some, or the majority of shows, movies and games I love. This one to lesser extend, since I'm not going to deny anyone liking what they like. But it is a huge turn on to geek out about the things you love personally. Someone who knows when to objectify, but also when not to. It's so incredibly vindicating to be objectified and considered hot by another person. But there are times in which the complex mind needs attention. Perhaps an outside view and analysis to help keep things in perspective. Someone just 'knowing' how and when to do this is extremely appealing. An untamed lust for pizza. If I have to explain this WE CANNOT BE FRIENDS! >:U I'll stop there.. __________________ This account is no longer active. Last edited by FoxyFluff; 06-03-2018 at 08:16 PM.

06-04-2018, 06:24 AM	#14
poetrylover828 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: US Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 4	So I was watching Queer Eye with a friend yesterday and one of the episodes reminded me how much a good man bun can turn me on. Also someone who is funny and sweet. __________________ Likes: rope play, spanking and other forms of light impact play Limits: anal, piss, scat, video, pics, permanent damage Don’t send me messages asking to help with your dare or help you shop. If I want to take parts in dares I will. If you need someone to pick out the things you are buying then you don’t need to being doing dares. I'm not looking for a partner.

06-04-2018, 08:33 AM	#15
Underpants getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: UK Posts: 336 Blog Entries: 2	Brains in a woman, this has been mentioned before. Complete Bimbos, the pink and fluffy types that are more girly than you can imagine is possible. VPL, the outline of the underwear under a tight skirt or trousers.