31/transfemale/switch seeks any age/any sex/master in any location

MischievousKitten · 03-23-2018, 11:51 PM

31/female/switch seeks any age/any sex/master in any location

Hi,

I am a 31-year-old trans female switch (leaning submissive) who is currently seeking a dominant for something which can hopefully turn long-term. Yes I was assigned male when I was born, I don't identify that way now and don't use male pronouns. If you're looking for someone fit, it's not me. I'm around 308 pounds and 6'2". I am trying to lose weight and you can help me through it but that's a long road ahead. I'm not looking to switch with someone really (though that can be discussed), but I may do things with other subs at the same time.

My avatar is me.

About me:

Outside of getdare, I study computer science at school with a concentration in game programming. A lot of my interests are electronic, like gaming or watching gaming streams on twitch, TV shows, etc.

What I'm looking for:

I don't really mind gender or age that much, if we match then that isn't as important, though under 18 is obviously not OK and very much older than me might feel weird. I would very much like this to be a 24/7 control type of thing, possibly with rules and such. I would want daily communication. This is important and without some type of daily communication I would find it hard to stick to rules I don't like. With that being said, I usually take direction really seriously and will do my best to follow what you say. (If I'm in a playful mood and think you're being easy on me I might get a bit bratty though!)

I currently live with family and have to be mindful of that when I'm home (some weekdays I will have the place to myself, but evenings and weekends just confined to my room with family home).

Areas to work on

I'm currently in the process of losing weight. Just over 300 pounds but I've lost like 12 this last month. I don't have a lot of control over the types of foods available but some motivation to stay in my calories or maybe some rules.

I've recently been doing more with pet play, specifically kitten play, but pretty inexperienced. If this is in your interests and you can give me tasks or rules or even consider me a pet that would be a huge plus.

I've been having a rough time keeping with denial since my last mistress, who I followed near-perfectly. If you want me to be denied, as long as we keep communication open I'll do my best.

Beyond that I'm open to pretty much anything. I'm very inexperienced with CBT but I can do spanks and things. Stuff I have is linked to in my sig, I don't have a lot. My chastity cage isn't good for long-term wear, it falls off.

Not too interested in

Age play, diapers, piss, scat, messy, all of that just doesn't interest me that much. I also don't want to stink up the place since i don't live alone or ruin things. I tried dabbling with diapers and hated it.

Although rules are welcome I don't really want to mess up activities I enjoy. My twitch streams I watch go until late into the nights. I'd rather do playtime and such but I don't want to be given bedtimes or something that conflict with those if I'm not doing anything else. Relationships with my online friends are important.

If you're interested

Preferably send me a PM so we can chat more and tell me what types of things you'd be interested in. My full likes/limits are in my signature, though it's possible there's more I haven't listed there. If so I will tell you. I can be into most things if not listed.

31/Transwoman*/United States
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BDSMTest (3/14/2018)

*I live my life daily as my preferred gender, but sometimes I may ask or accept dares to help my transition

knorke · 03-24-2018, 09:24 AM

You're awesome, best of luck in finding someone!

You should probably post in this thread too since nobody can see your signature..

kila · 04-02-2018, 01:58 PM

Kara is super sweet and amazing! She makes the cutest kitty and anyone would be lucky to have her!!!

MischievousKitten · 04-03-2018, 06:05 PM

I have received a response and an testing out a dom who was interested.

Edit: He says he was too busy, so looking again

LitDarkness · 05-31-2018, 07:02 PM

Good luck with everything.

MischievousKitten · 05-31-2018, 07:20 PM

Thank you. I'm definitely still looking, but I have recently started a new job and things would be a bit busy for me right now.

Jaro · 06-03-2018, 02:02 AM

That's a well written ad. I wish you the best of luck finding someone as well as with the new job!

MischievousKitten · 06-23-2018, 11:11 PM

Just an update as I can't edit the original post. I am no longer looking, I have someone now.

03-23-2018, 11:51 PM	#1
MischievousKitten gD king Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: United States Posts: 986 Blog Entries: 6	31/transfemale/switch seeks any age/any sex/master in any location 31/female/switch seeks any age/any sex/master in any location Hi, I am a 31-year-old trans female switch (leaning submissive) who is currently seeking a dominant for something which can hopefully turn long-term. Yes I was assigned male when I was born, I don't identify that way now and don't use male pronouns. If you're looking for someone fit, it's not me. I'm around 308 pounds and 6'2". I am trying to lose weight and you can help me through it but that's a long road ahead. I'm not looking to switch with someone really (though that can be discussed), but I may do things with other subs at the same time. My avatar is me. About me: Outside of getdare, I study computer science at school with a concentration in game programming. A lot of my interests are electronic, like gaming or watching gaming streams on twitch, TV shows, etc. What I'm looking for: I don't really mind gender or age that much, if we match then that isn't as important, though under 18 is obviously not OK and very much older than me might feel weird. I would very much like this to be a 24/7 control type of thing, possibly with rules and such. I would want daily communication. This is important and without some type of daily communication I would find it hard to stick to rules I don't like. With that being said, I usually take direction really seriously and will do my best to follow what you say. (If I'm in a playful mood and think you're being easy on me I might get a bit bratty though!) I currently live with family and have to be mindful of that when I'm home (some weekdays I will have the place to myself, but evenings and weekends just confined to my room with family home). Areas to work on I'm currently in the process of losing weight. Just over 300 pounds but I've lost like 12 this last month. I don't have a lot of control over the types of foods available but some motivation to stay in my calories or maybe some rules. I've recently been doing more with pet play, specifically kitten play, but pretty inexperienced. If this is in your interests and you can give me tasks or rules or even consider me a pet that would be a huge plus. I've been having a rough time keeping with denial since my last mistress, who I followed near-perfectly. If you want me to be denied, as long as we keep communication open I'll do my best. Beyond that I'm open to pretty much anything. I'm very inexperienced with CBT but I can do spanks and things. Stuff I have is linked to in my sig, I don't have a lot. My chastity cage isn't good for long-term wear, it falls off. Not too interested in Age play, diapers, piss, scat, messy, all of that just doesn't interest me that much. I also don't want to stink up the place since i don't live alone or ruin things. I tried dabbling with diapers and hated it. Although rules are welcome I don't really want to mess up activities I enjoy. My twitch streams I watch go until late into the nights. I'd rather do playtime and such but I don't want to be given bedtimes or something that conflict with those if I'm not doing anything else. Relationships with my online friends are important. If you're interested Preferably send me a PM so we can chat more and tell me what types of things you'd be interested in. My full likes/limits are in my signature, though it's possible there's more I haven't listed there. If so I will tell you. I can be into most things if not listed. 31/Transwoman/United States Likes/Dislikes PM Dares My Transition My Rules Things I have BDSMTest (3/14/2018) I live my life daily as my preferred gender, but sometimes I may ask or accept dares to help my transition Last edited by Red; 04-02-2018 at 02:35 PM.

03-24-2018, 09:24 AM	#2
knorke Glitter Princess Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Wherever I'm with you Posts: 1,840 Blog Entries: 11	You're awesome, best of luck in finding someone! You should probably post in this thread too since nobody can see your signature.. __________________ L&L Last edited by knorke; 03-24-2018 at 09:30 AM.

04-02-2018, 01:58 PM	#3
kila getDare Succubus Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Where the sun usually shines Posts: 1,510 Blog Entries: 9	Kara is super sweet and amazing! She makes the cutest kitty and anyone would be lucky to have her!!! __________________ "I am CHAOS!" Loves, Likes, Limits - Switch (Updated on 11/06/2020) My Toys BDSM Test Results + Analysis (Updated on 01/29/2023) I do NOT use KIK. Get to know me by finding me on the unofficial gD discord.

04-03-2018, 06:05 PM	#4
MischievousKitten gD king Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: United States Posts: 986 Blog Entries: 6	I have received a response and an testing out a dom who was interested. Edit: He says he was too busy, so looking again __________________ (It lists my old Dom there too lazy to change it) Full Likes/Dislikes PM Dares My Transition My Rules Things I have BDSMTest (3/14/2018) Biggest denial: 175 days Last edited by MischievousKitten; 04-04-2018 at 04:08 PM.

05-31-2018, 07:02 PM	#5
LitDarkness Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: May 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 6,116 Blog Entries: 289	Good luck with everything. __________________ M/Novisexual/24/sub Do have female parts. 30/1,603 edges+ 2 more days of denial after edges Make My Denial Harder Denial Diary 6,000th post tasks and reports Likes + Limits Stuff I Can Use for Dares BDSM Test Results PM DARES Stories & Poems Spelling or Grammar Mistake: Let Me Know Help Break My Cursing Habit Live with people and do not own toys. Keep in mind when daring me please. Not your bitch and calling me names or trying to Dom me is probitted. Violators will be declared as idiots.

05-31-2018, 07:20 PM	#6
MischievousKitten gD king Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: United States Posts: 986 Blog Entries: 6	Thank you. I'm definitely still looking, but I have recently started a new job and things would be a bit busy for me right now. __________________ (It lists my old Dom there too lazy to change it) Full Likes/Dislikes PM Dares My Transition My Rules Things I have BDSMTest (3/14/2018) Biggest denial: 175 days

06-03-2018, 02:02 AM	#7
Jaro A filthy maggot anal whore Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,459 Blog Entries: 299	That's a well written ad. I wish you the best of luck finding someone as well as with the new job! __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys ♦ AMA ♦ Check out my truths and dares here

06-23-2018, 11:11 PM	#8
MischievousKitten gD king Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: United States Posts: 986 Blog Entries: 6	Just an update as I can't edit the original post. I am no longer looking, I have someone now. __________________ (It lists my old Dom there too lazy to change it) Full Likes/Dislikes PM Dares My Transition My Rules Things I have BDSMTest (3/14/2018) Biggest denial: 175 days