20/f ama

[vibratoruser]

Hi!
I don't really have much to say except that I love being asked things and having to answer.

Ask away, I'll answer almost anything, sexual, humiliating, kinky or completely unrelated to getdare. Only things I won't answer are things that are too identifying, including which country I live in.

I hope many questions come together! Maybe I'll add a condition tied to how fast I answer tomorrow, but I haven't thought of anything yet.

[sirie]

why are you here on getdare ?

What is it you truly want to explore , learn , or try ?

Whats really in the back of your mind your deepy interested in but scared to say to people in real life ?

[vibratoruser]

Originally Posted by sirie

why are you here on getdare ?

What is it you truly want to explore , learn , or try ?

Whats really in the back of your mind your deepy interested in but scared to say to people in real life ?

Thanks for your questions!
1. 'Twas a lonely night when I was searching for anyone posting instructions for masturbation, because I like to be lead through it. And somehow I found this site. I started frequenting it more and ended up joining.
2. In general or on getdare? Imma go with general: I want to find a real life dom some day, who can satisfy my need to be stripped of all control, but can also give me freedom where I need it. Obedience is definitely something I want to explore/learn, and being bratty is something I want to try.
3. Well, in real life I'm deeply scared of saying anything about masturbation or, worse, my kinks (because I live in a way too conservative area). Online, I'm not really scared to say anything. I'll share a fantasy I have: I would like to be used at a party or something one day. Just there, for anyone to use as they please. Maybe I'd get to cum, maybe not. They could restrain or even suspend me, use all holes, just get off to the sight of me... I would love to experience it once blindfolded and with earplugs in (maybe even music playing, so I really wouldn't expect anything), but also once with all senses working.

Hope that answers your questions!

[Robert Brady]

What colour is your hair?
How long/what style is your hair?
Do you have any new year's resolutions? If yes, what are they?
Do you have any nail polish on? If yes, what's the colour?
What size are your tits?
How many sexual partners have you had?
Are you straight or bi?
How would you describe your butt?
At what age did you first start exploring sexual things?
Are you ticklish? If yes, what's the most ticklish part of you?
Have you ever tried self bondage? If yes, how did you do it, how long for? Did anyone else know?
Is your pussy naturally hairy, neatly trimmed, shaven or waxed?

I'll think of more questions soon.

[vibratoruser]

Originally Posted by Robert Brady

1. What colour is your hair?
2. How long/what style is your hair?
3. Do you have any new year's resolutions? If yes, what are they?
4. Do you have any nail polish on? If yes, what's the colour?
5. What size are your tits?
6. How many sexual partners have you had?
7. Are you straight or bi?
8. How would you describe your butt?
9. At what age did you first start exploring sexual things?
10. Are you ticklish? If yes, what's the most ticklish part of you?
11. Have you ever tried self bondage? If yes, how did you do it, how long for? Did anyone else know?
12. Is your pussy naturally hairy, neatly trimmed, shaven or waxed?

I'll think of more questions soon.

1. Brown
2. A little bit wavy, but I can easily get it straight if I want. It reaches just about my nipples. The cut is a very generic one, everything the same length
3. No resolutions - I just hope to do well in uni, in music, and in my submissive activities haha, but I always try my best, not just a new year's thing
4. No nailpolish
5. 95C where I live... Not small, but pretty proportionate to my body size.
6. None, unfortunately : /
7. bi
8. My butt? There's definitely a layer of fat on it haha, underneath that it is pretty muscular. But in general... soft? How tf do I describe my butt lol
9. Well, I first read smut when I was around 15 years old. But then it actually took me three more years to finally masturbate haha
10. Sometimes. Usually when my siblings catch me off guard. And it's the worst on the sides of my torso.
11. Yes, tied my legs open by tying them to my desk with belts. It worked great, felt amazing, but only lasted until I'd cum once, so not very long. No one else knew.
12. Hairy, I just let it grow.

Thanks for your questions!

[Heswitch]

1. what sneakers/running shoes do you have?(be specific. brand, color, model, etc.)
2. what size?
3. what footwear do you prefer?
4. do you always wear socks with your sneakers?
5. how bad do your sneakers smell?
6. have you ever been gagged with a sneaker?
7. would you gag yourself with a sneaker for a dare?
8. have you ever been in a cast? (for a broken bone)
if so what color, type, and how long were you in it?
9. would you be willing to be put in a cast for fun/bondage?
10. have you ever had braces?
11. if so did you have any special appliances like headgear
12. whats the biggest thing you have ever put in your mouth?
13. how many people have you slept with?
14. what is the last thing you had in your ass? pussy?
15. what is the most disgusting thing you have ever done?
16. what is your deepest darkest secret?

[Robert Brady]

Have you ever watched piss play porn?
Have you ever wanted to try it? If so, what would you like to try?
Do you think your first sexual partner will be a guy or a girl?
Were you home schooled or did you go to a school?
Have you ever slept naked?
How many siblings do you have?
What age their ages and sexes?
If one (or more) is male, have you seen his dick since you became a teen?
Have you ever heard your parents having sex? Did it gross you out or turn you on?
What's your favourite colour?
Have you ever used anything except fingers to help you cum? What did you use?
Do you believe that all people are basically good but turn bad because of situations in their lives or that all people are basically bad and are only kept good through good influence and mentoring/oversight by people with high moral standards?
Is right and wrong determined by the law or by something else? If it is by the law, does something stop being wrong if the law changes?
Have you ever kissed a girl?
Have you ever kissed a guy?
Have you ever flashed anyone?
Have you ever gone commando in pubic?

[vibratoruser]

Originally Posted by Heswitch

1. what sneakers/running shoes do you have?(be specific. brand, color, model, etc.)
2. what size?
3. what footwear do you prefer?
4. do you always wear socks with your sneakers?
5. how bad do your sneakers smell?
6. have you ever been gagged with a sneaker?
7. would you gag yourself with a sneaker for a dare?
8. have you ever been in a cast? (for a broken bone)
if so what color, type, and how long were you in it?
9. would you be willing to be put in a cast for fun/bondage?
10. have you ever had braces?
11. if so did you have any special appliances like headgear
12. whats the biggest thing you have ever put in your mouth?
13. how many people have you slept with?
14. what is the last thing you had in your ass? pussy?
15. what is the most disgusting thing you have ever done?
16. what is your deepest darkest secret?

1.They're very classic asics running shoes, the base colour is a dark mint green and the ornaments are in pink. And obviously, they're a bit worn down.
2. 42 in EU sizing, that's a 10 in US sizing.
3. Sneakers or barefoot in summer, waterproof boots in winter. Inside the house usually socks, but sometimes I wear slippers.
4. Yes, because if I sweat in my shoes without socks, the smell could kill in a 20m radius tbh
5. Just... normal, I think? Because I wear socks haha
6. No.
7. No, I'm scared of germs.
8. When I was 4, I nearly broke my toe and had my leg in a cast for four days, I think the doctor just put it there to indulge me haha. And then when I was 12, I sprained my wrist while rollerblading, and had a half-open cast for about a week. the bandage on that one was green.
9. I don't think so... I think other types of bondage appeal more to me (like cuffs or rope).
10. No
11. -
12. My largest dildo, probably. I have a jaw issue tho, so I can't really open my mouth well nor can I hold it open for long, which is a shame.
13. None, unfortunately.
14. In my ass a plug, in my pussy a dildo.
15. I'm not sure... I once accidentally peed while cumming, that was pretty gross for my scared-of-germs self.
16. Probably how many toys and kinks I have. I hope people in real life never ever find out.

Thanks for your questions!

[vibratoruser]

Originally Posted by Robert Brady

1. Have you ever watched piss play porn?
2. Have you ever wanted to try it? If so, what would you like to try?
3. Do you think your first sexual partner will be a guy or a girl?
4. Were you home schooled or did you go to a school?
5. Have you ever slept naked?
6. How many siblings do you have?
7. What age their ages and sexes?
8. If one (or more) is male, have you seen his dick since you became a teen?
9. Have you ever heard your parents having sex? Did it gross you out or turn you on?
10. What's your favourite colour?
11. Have you ever used anything except fingers to help you cum? What did you use?
12. Do you believe that all people are basically good but turn bad because of situations in their lives or that all people are basically bad and are only kept good through good influence and mentoring/oversight by people with high moral standards?
13. Is right and wrong determined by the law or by something else? If it is by the law, does something stop being wrong if the law changes?
14. Have you ever kissed a girl?
15. Have you ever kissed a guy?
16. Have you ever flashed anyone?
17. Have you ever gone commando in pubic?

1. No
2. No, I'm scared of germs and I also really just absolutely don't find it hot to think about.
3. Probably a guy... I lean more towards men, and it's also just sooo much easier, not having to face homophobia and all...
4. I went to school
5. Yes, I have. Mostly if I was dared to. Usually makes me very horny haha
6. A sister and a brother.
7. Sister is 16, brother is 19.
8. Flashes of it, like twice (mostly if I opened the door at an untimely moment and he was changing or somethinig).
9. I heard the bed move a bit more than I normally would, but I just thought "oh, they're probably having sex" and went on, I think.
10. Hmm... I once chose green because I wanted to impress a girl when I was in 4th grade, and I didn't want to have the 'boring' purple or pink anymore... so now I always say green. But I also adore all colours.
11. Yeah, all my toys lol (they're listed in my signature). I've tried many, many combinations...
12. Neither. I believe we have the possibility to do good and bad (btw, who determines what is good and bad), and we choose based on what we believe is right, or what we believe is wrong (sometimes we want to hurt someone...). I believe in constructivism and the fact that everybody builds their own reality and morals over time, but not all of us have the same believes of right and wrong, so who says someone's doing a "bad thing" when they're just doing what they believe is right? I hope that made sense, was a bit jumbled haha
13. No, the law is made based on general believes that a group of people have, not the other way round. I'm glad it exists, don't get me wrong, because we need rules to live together in a civil manner. My favourite example: In most western countries, homosexuality is legal now, in many even marriage. If you believed it was wrong before, you probably still do. But I believe it never was wrong and never will be, the laws don't matter in that...
14. No : /
15. No : /
16. Don't think so, no. Or if, then on accident.
17. I don't think so... But I was dared to do it this week haha

Thanks for your questions!

[OhMyGosh]

Hey, this is Claudia, I'm a 37yo mistress from Germany (although I hate the term mistress as my approach of being dominant is a little different from what most people expect from a "mistress"). I got seven more questions for you:

1) Which sexual fantasy of yours is arousing you the most, although you would never want it to happen in real life as it would be way too extreme?
2) Is your pussy an "innie" or an "outie" (with large and protruding labia majora or rather small ones and meaty and bulging outer lips instead)?
3) What is the most bizarre thing you ever masturbated to?
4) Who would be the two persons you would feel most ashamed in front of if they ever found out about your secret kinky side?
5) Which kink of yours is one you needed the most time and effort to accept, that it actually turns you on?
6) What is the worst punishment your pussy ever had to endure so far and why?
7) Have you ever been caught masturbating by anyone else, if so, how did you and that person react?

[vibratoruser]

Originally Posted by OhMyGosh

Hey, this is Claudia, I'm a 37yo mistress from Germany (although I hate the term mistress as my approach of being dominant is a little different from what most people expect from a "mistress"). I got seven more questions for you:

1) Which sexual fantasy of yours is arousing you the most, although you would never want it to happen in real life as it would be way too extreme?
2) Is your pussy an "innie" or an "outie" (with large and protruding labia majora or rather small ones and meaty and bulging outer lips instead)?
3) What is the most bizarre thing you ever masturbated to?
4) Who would be the two persons you would feel most ashamed in front of if they ever found out about your secret kinky side?
5) Which kink of yours is one you needed the most time and effort to accept, that it actually turns you on?
6) What is the worst punishment your pussy ever had to endure so far and why?
7) Have you ever been caught masturbating by anyone else, if so, how did you and that person react?

1. Hmm... Well, some classic monster-fucking or sentient plant or something... But that's obviously just not possible. I also have the fantasy to be used / whored out for sexual pleasure in front of the eiffel tower or some other crowded place, which is obviously not legal, and onlookers couldn't consent. And then I think just any kind of public fantasy of mine? Being discovered naked or getting fucked or something... But I simply am WAY too scared of the repercussions it could have on my life if anyone who knows me ever found out (it could seriously be severe).
2. No idea tbh... probably more an "outie"?
3. Probably some knifeplay or other dangerous kinks in erotica, especially because those really aren't kinks of myself. But sometimes it fits the dynamic of the characters so well that I get all hot and bothered anyways.
4. Mom and dad, probably. But honestly, I want no one in my immediate or extended family knowing about it, that's a horrible thought.
5. Not sure there are any... I think for most it was just an "Oh, that's an option? Yeah, i like that." Tbh I don't have any really extreme or rare kinks (or at least not discovered them yet)
6. Edging and denial tbh... I like it in a way, but it's horrible for my pussy haha
7. I was once stuffed with a vibrator (luckily I was able to turn it off quickly) when my sister came in the room. But at least I was under my bedcovers, and she definitely didn't see anything.

Thanks for your questions!

[OhMyGosh]

Originally Posted by vibratoruser

1. Hmm... Well, some classic monster-fucking or sentient plant or something... But that's obviously just not possible. I also have the fantasy to be used / whored out for sexual pleasure in front of the eiffel tower or some other crowded place, which is obviously not legal, and onlookers couldn't consent. And then I think just any kind of public fantasy of mine? Being discovered naked or getting fucked or something... But I simply am WAY too scared of the repercussions it could have on my life if anyone who knows me ever found out (it could seriously be severe).
2. No idea tbh... probably more an "outie"?
3. Probably some knifeplay or other dangerous kinks in erotica, especially because those really aren't kinks of myself. But sometimes it fits the dynamic of the characters so well that I get all hot and bothered anyways.
4. Mom and dad, probably. But honestly, I want no one in my immediate or extended family knowing about it, that's a horrible thought.
5. Not sure there are any... I think for most it was just an "Oh, that's an option? Yeah, i like that." Tbh I don't have any really extreme or rare kinks (or at least not discovered them yet)
6. Edging and denial tbh... I like it in a way, but it's horrible for my pussy haha
7. I was once stuffed with a vibrator (luckily I was able to turn it off quickly) when my sister came in the room. But at least I was under my bedcovers, and she definitely didn't see anything.

Thanks for your questions!

Thanks for your quick and detailed replies. But it seems you are way more innocent or at least "normal" than I was expecting after reading your vacation thread. In that one you seemed craving for unusual dares and creative tasks that also involve some more risk. But then I probably misunderstood you there. My English also isn't the best, to be honest as it is not my native language.

[vibratoruser]

Originally Posted by OhMyGosh

Thanks for your quick and detailed replies. But it seems you are way more innocent or at least "normal" than I was expecting after reading your vacation thread. In that one you seemed craving for unusual dares and creative tasks that also involve some more risk. But then I probably misunderstood you there. My English also isn't the best, to be honest as it is not my native language.

Haha idk what counts as normal anymore tbh lol... I gotta say, by the time I started discovering my kinks, I already had a pretty open mind about sex and kinks and all that. I'm also someone who likes to do research as soon as I discover something new, so stigma around some things just never really develops because I'm informed from the start.
And I do have to say, for some it took me some time to figure out a way I'd be comfortable executing them (like sharing pictures or 'public'), so from the moment I discovered a new kink, it would take me quite some time until I could write it in my "liked" on here, for example. But I don't think it was about acceptance, it was more about "how do I do it safely and in a way that won't overwhelm me?"
Hope that makes sense haha