Share the "burden", subby teamwork game

[nina@]

Originally Posted by qmu

How exactly do we define a thoughtful dare? It seems a little too abstract. Does some dare I gave that took time to think considering the person previous posts and everything but got no response or a negative one counts? Or a simple one lined task or that I borrowed from another thread/nina@/Anna blog that the person liked?

Or we should just go by instinct and count the ones you consider "thoughtful"?

@qmu - Thoughtful to me means original (so cannot be from my or anna's list unless you are the original contributor/maker of the dare. So thoughtful is some dare you come up with which is in accordance with the kinks and limits of the requester, relevant to that thread and reasonably doable, also creativity wouldn't hurt but that is subjective..lol.

For example the dare A treat retreat or read or repent of the punishment dictionary (both are your contributions) are both thoughtful!

Whether or not your thoughtful dare gets response or not is irrelevant. If the dare was thoughtful and the task seeker is active and has recently asked for dares, and when you give a good one to them and they don't respond, then it is not your problem that they lack basic courtesy!!

Though it is advisable to post for recent task seekers only as posting a dare in a thread that hasn't been active for weeks is futile as the dare giver may not be looking for it anymore. Also there is no word or line limit and dares need not be very long to qualify as thoughtful!

Bottom line.. go by instinct and also by generic meaning and usage of the word "thoughtful" in english language! Hope this shall suffice!

Wow! I never thought I would write guidelines for this!..lol

[subva999]

Wow, Skywise, that was an impressive amount of work you did! Great report too! Curious how it felt for you doing the eating/drinking from the bowl?

Alas, I'm already in denial myself, so can't help release you. The question of how people go for months with all the edges, etc., was the topic of my "meaningful discussion" contribution. (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=306397)

I haven't gotten any response to that so far from any experts...just a reply of another person who would like the same information. If anyone here is a long-term denial person, I'd love if you could check out the post and give your thoughts. For selfish reasons, particularly interested in thoughts from females.

Also, just to remind everyone, I'm meant to be exiting from participation today. I may or may not squeeze in just a bit more work tonight. I believe I'll be back next week, and will probably add a couple more interesting tasks before going back into participation as a sub.

Thanks!

[qmu]

Originally Posted by nina@

[...] For example the dare A treat retreat or read or repent of the punishment dictionary (both are your contributions) are both thoughtful! [...]

Bottom line.. go by instinct and also by generic meaning and usage of the word "thoughtful" in english language! Hope this shall suffice!

Wow! I never thought I would write guidelines for this!..lol

Thanks nina@ for the guidelines, sorry for being stupid lol. As for those two, I doubt I can replicate them anytime soon. Those not only took time, but they were for people I know, it is way easier =p

[nina@]

Originally Posted by qmu

Thanks nina@ for the guidelines, sorry for being stupid lol. As for those two, I doubt I can replicate them anytime soon. Those not only took time, but they were for people I know, it is way easier =p

Then selectively post in request TORD threads where the OP has given some information in signature like likes and limits etc.. pm dare lists also give an insight on what kinks one may be into..

Need not be highly creative or one of a kind but can be just decent dares!!

[Sain]

It's been two weeks, so I'm out...

My last contribution to this thread:
I had an orgasm, freeing Skywise from his denial. I will follow the denial despite not being in this thread anymore.

2 pm dares sent, and 3 vs polls voted in.

I will probably join again eventually...

74/100 cum swallows (#037)
20/20 hours watching porn or reading erotica with hand right over cock/pussy but not touching (min 30 mins at a time) (#091) - COMPLETED
705/2400 minutes kneeling naked in the corner (#096)
90/240 minutes twerking naked in front of a mirror (#099)
209/300 minutes deep throating a dildo (#100)
5/10 times genitals covered in icyhot (#103)
124/300 minutes in corner: hands on head, nose holding coin on wall (#106a)
105/500 minutes laying still in the dark and quiet while not falling asleep, with Clothespins on nipples. (#108a)
381/500 posts in third person (#115)
225/360 minutes naked housework (counts only if witnessed!) (#118)
15/100 minutes of stripping and edging online on Chaturbate or any other site (#135)
5/30 full nights wearing a butt plug while sleeping (#139)
8/10 times eating or drinking from a bowl on the floor, naked with hands behind back (#140)
620/1000 whip strokes with charger cord (#142)
1/14 days with very humiliating avatar picture (#143)
90/400 slow spanks to right butt cheek with heavy wooden implement (#144)
90/400 slow spanks to left butt cheek with heavy wooden implement (#145)
12/100 edges with wrists tied crossing each other (#146)
41/100 votes casted in various gd polls (#147)
53/200 pm dares sent to different gD members (#148)
6/50 thoughtful dares posted in request TORD section of getdare (#149)
1/10 meaningful discussions started in blogs or forum posts on D/s related topics (#150)
10/25 edges, can only be performed by members with less than 50 posts on GetDare (#151)
20/300 minutes masturbating to opposite-sexually-oriented porn, cum at the end (#152)
10/240 minutes with vibrator, no cumming allowed (#153)
2/20 orgasms given out (#154)
3/10 full orgasms, denied until someone else posts an orgasm (#155)
12/50 report points (0-5 points pr report as given by a task giver) (#156)

[Corwin13]

I'll join for 2 weeks.

Able to do tasks a few times a week

[BBLove28]

I'll join for 10 day

[Skywise]

Originally Posted by Sain

My last contribution to this thread:
I had an orgasm, freeing Skywise from his denial. I will follow the denial despite not being in this thread anymore.

Wow, thanks mate! I love you for that And thanks for all your contribution, hope to see you here again.

Since I'm now free of denial, I'll have to plan something special for my next orgasm. Tomorrow is a national celebration here and a big family day here in Norway, so I will have to put my reward of for 2 more days. 7 days in denial has been hard enough, I did 8 more edges today for a Milovana webtease (no, will not report them to my task, as I want to give others the opportunity to do that task). Probably gonna do a couple more edges before I go to bed tonight, just to add to the frustration, and increase the anticipation for when I finally allow myself to cum again.

[saltychip]

I'll join in until June 1st

[peter213]

I'll join for 2 weeks

[SlaveBoy31]

Hey every one I was wondering if you can add stuff to the list and still be able to participate in the thread?

[saltychip]

Originally Posted by SlaveBoy31

Hey every one I was wondering if you can add stuff to the list and still be able to participate in the thread?

I'm pretty sure in the rules it says people who havent joined in the sub group can add tasks only

[IceMaiden]

Originally Posted by SlaveBoy31

Hey every one I was wondering if you can add stuff to the list and still be able to participate in the thread?

Originally Posted by saltychip

I'm pretty sure in the rules it says people who havent joined in the sub group can add tasks only

Anyone can add tasks as long as they aren't currently in the thread helping clear tasks when they do so.

[qmu]

OK, I think the one month I had here is over, last contribution. If you guys want I can think of some tasks

+2 cum swallows
+120 whip strokes with charger cord
+3 votes casted in various gd polls (Mousey VS. Brandonlow67042; bithug vs humiliatedboyslave; Masturbation poll; daresub19 vs Evermore)
+2 thoughtful dares posted in request TORD section of getdare
+6 PM Dares sent to different gD members

Edit: always forget to add PM Dares --'

76/100 cum swallows (#037)
20/20 hours watching porn or reading erotica with hand right over cock/pussy but not touching (min 30 mins at a time) (#091) - COMPLETED
705/2400 minutes kneeling naked in the corner (#096)
90/240 minutes twerking naked in front of a mirror (#099)
209/300 minutes deep throating a dildo (#100)
5/10 times genitals covered in icyhot (#103)
124/300 minutes in corner: hands on head, nose holding coin on wall (#106a)
105/500 minutes laying still in the dark and quiet while not falling asleep, with Clothespins on nipples. (#108a)
381/500 posts in third person (#115)
225/360 minutes naked housework (counts only if witnessed!) (#118)
15/100 minutes of stripping and edging online on Chaturbate or any other site (#135)
5/30 full nights wearing a butt plug while sleeping (#139)
8/10 times eating or drinking from a bowl on the floor, naked with hands behind back (#140)
740/1000 whip strokes with charger cord (#142)
1/14 days with very humiliating avatar picture (#143)
90/400 slow spanks to right butt cheek with heavy wooden implement (#144)
90/400 slow spanks to left butt cheek with heavy wooden implement (#145)
12/100 edges with wrists tied crossing each other (#146)
45/100 votes casted in various gd polls (#147)
59/200 pm dares sent to different gD members (#148)
8/50 thoughtful dares posted in request TORD section of getdare (#149)
1/10 meaningful discussions started in blogs or forum posts on D/s related topics (#150)
10/25 edges, can only be performed by members with less than 50 posts on GetDare (#151)
20/300 minutes masturbating to opposite-sexually-oriented porn, cum at the end (#152)
10/240 minutes with vibrator, no cumming allowed (#153)
2/20 orgasms given out (#154)
3/10 full orgasms, denied until someone else posts an orgasm (#155)
12/50 report points (0-5 points pr report as given by a task giver) (#156)


(obs.: I am stating my opinion here, and explaining my reasoning. I do not mean to offend anyone, neither start discussion or propose changes)

Also, I don't think I'll rejoin for a while. I did not like the direction the thread has taken lately with the report task. Nothing against it, but people seem to enjoy it, and I only like reporting on more complex tasks/dares that I enjoyed. But that's only when I want to, and in a controlled fashion depending on the giver like through blog posts or PMs; not because of peer pressure or out of obligation.

[saltychip]

- I did 10 minutes of clothespins on my nipples in the dark before bed (I almost did fall asleep!)
- 25 minutes with the vibrator before bed
- edged 3 times after (no cumming sadly )
- voted 6 times in various polls (Mousey VS. Brandonlow67042, bithug vs humiliatedboyslave, TECHIEGIRL - A Public Poll, Sophiaa vs. Subjoi, daresub19 vs Evermore, Fake / permanent implant Dare for Marystoy)
- PMed 2 people PM dares (work was busy!)

76/100 cum swallows (#037)
20/20 hours watching porn or reading erotica with hand right over cock/pussy but not touching (min 30 mins at a time) (#091) - COMPLETED
705/2400 minutes kneeling naked in the corner (#096)
90/240 minutes twerking naked in front of a mirror (#099)
209/300 minutes deep throating a dildo (#100)
5/10 times genitals covered in icyhot (#103)
124/300 minutes in corner: hands on head, nose holding coin on wall (#106a)
115/500 minutes laying still in the dark and quiet while not falling asleep, with Clothespins on nipples. (#108a)
381/500 posts in third person (#115)
225/360 minutes naked housework (counts only if witnessed!) (#118)
15/100 minutes of stripping and edging online on Chaturbate or any other site (#135)
5/30 full nights wearing a butt plug while sleeping (#139)
8/10 times eating or drinking from a bowl on the floor, naked with hands behind back (#140)
740/1000 whip strokes with charger cord (#142)
1/14 days with very humiliating avatar picture (#143)
90/400 slow spanks to right butt cheek with heavy wooden implement (#144)
90/400 slow spanks to left butt cheek with heavy wooden implement (#145)
12/100 edges with wrists tied crossing each other (#146)
51/100 votes casted in various gd polls (#147)
61/200 pm dares sent to different gD members (#148)
8/50 thoughtful dares posted in request TORD section of getdare (#149)
1/10 meaningful discussions started in blogs or forum posts on D/s related topics (#150)
13/25 edges, can only be performed by members with less than 50 posts on GetDare (#151)
20/300 minutes masturbating to opposite-sexually-oriented porn, cum at the end (#152)
60/240 minutes with vibrator, no cumming allowed (#153)
2/20 orgasms given out (#154)
3/10 full orgasms, denied until someone else posts an orgasm (#155)
12/50 report points (0-5 points pr report as given by a task giver) (#156)