What should I give up for lent?

[Louise1]

OK so we've left this very late but only just thought of it... People normally give up things like chocolate or alcohol for lent... But you get to decide what I have to give up for lent!

My husband will make the final decision, it's completely out of my hands.

Lent starts on Wednesday (26th February) and continues until Thursday 9th April.

[Quanta]

Well I might as well be the one to suggest the obvious but maybe orgasms would be a interesting thing to give up.

[aralius]

This will be a little hard to manage. But you could give up your control and decisions. Let hubby control everything. What you wear. What you eat. If you get to use furniture. When you get to use bathroom. Anything that you would need a decision to do. You ask your hubby to make that decision for you.

[rw789]

Originally Posted by Quanta

Well I might as well be the one to suggest the obvious but maybe orgasms would be a interesting thing to give up.

I'm thinking maybe instead of that, adding in a bit of aralius' idea, needing permission to orgasm but to give up being allowed to ask for permission.

Other idea:

Give up regular entertainment of tv and music. When at home, must either leave the room or sit facing a corner when husband watches tv. Or blindfolded with ear plugs or something and sits next to husband while he watches tv.

[pain slut joe]

combo of above:

- no orgasms unless hubby initiates and causes yours - that mean no begging for relief either; but of course, that does not stop him from cumming

- no panties (except during period) & bra (unless your breast size requires you wear one)

[batfinch]

As you might expect I suggest not sitting on a toilet seat

[Louise1]

Thanks everyone. Some great ideas / combinations of ideas there.

My husband will decide tonight what I have to give up for Lent

[zephyrnem]

The ability to say no to sexual requests.

Control of clothing/ wearing clothes at home


Give up a limit.


Dignity.

[Louise1]

Originally Posted by aralius

This will be a little hard to manage. But you could give up your control and decisions. Let hubby control everything. What you wear. What you eat. If you get to use furniture. When you get to use bathroom. Anything that you would need a decision to do. You ask your hubby to make that decision for you.

Originally Posted by batfinch

As you might expect I suggest not sitting on a toilet seat

Originally Posted by zephyrnem

Control of clothing/ wearing clothes at home

Originally Posted by rw789

I'm thinking maybe instead of that, adding in a bit of aralius' idea, needing permission to orgasm but to give up being allowed to ask for permission.

Other idea:

Give up regular entertainment of tv and music. When at home, must either leave the room or sit facing a corner when husband watches tv. Or blindfolded with ear plugs or something and sits next to husband while he watches tv.

Originally Posted by pain slut joe

combo of above:

- no orgasms unless hubby initiates and causes yours - that mean no begging for relief either; but of course, that does not stop him from cumming

- no panties (except during period) & bra (unless your breast size requires you wear one)

So my husband has decided that for Lent I will be giving up all control. Mainly following Aralius's post but also including the other posts too as they can be included in the overall giving up control theme.

He is also including the ones where I can't sit on the toilet seat and I will give up tv and music. No orgasms without permission and I am not allowed to ask for permission.

More rules can be added at any time between now and 9th April.

[silkysatin]

Give up underwear for Lent!

[Louise1]

Originally Posted by silkysatin

Give up underwear for Lent!

I'm already banned from underwear until the 21st March

[pain slut joe]

New rule: you must ask permission to pee; either directly to your husband or ask in chat if he is not in the mood or available

[callmecurious]

I'd save give up hot water for your showers unless your husband gives you explicit permission to use it.

[growler21d]

Give up eating at a table and using your hands*. Must eat from floor using only your mouth.

*Exceptions may be made for certain social/public situations and if guests are visiting. Since your husband is making all your decisions these exceptions are at his discretion.

[Louise1]

Originally Posted by callmecurious

I'd save give up hot water for your showers unless your husband gives you explicit permission to use it.

Originally Posted by growler21d

Give up eating at a table and using your hands*. Must eat from floor using only your mouth.

*Exceptions may be made for certain social/public situations and if guests are visiting. Since your husband is making all your decisions these exceptions are at his discretion.

Cold showers and eating from the floor with my hands behind my back are both added to the control I have given up