self spanking

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 11:24 AM

is there any way to make self spanking actually hurt anywhere close to a real spanking? i have tried it but it doesnt really have any effect and never close enough to make me even close to crying. i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of how you could make it more painful?

Night-1991 · 05-20-2008, 11:52 AM

One thing, hair brush, those things hurt, trust me

SubMissChievous · 05-20-2008, 02:23 PM

Yes, indeed, hairbrushes can be painful. New unused ones are usually more effective. Kitchen wooden spoons can be quite snappy too

The most common item used for self-spanking are belts. I always had a bit of difficulty when using the ones I use as clothing accessories as they seemed to be a bit too long to use on myself. Recently I bought one designed for kids. It's made of leather & about 60 cm long (24 inch). I found that this one, folded in 2, works very well.

You may have to try to spank different "targets" too. How one reacts to different kinds & location for spanking is relatively variable from one person to another. You could maybe try your nipples & upper inner thighs. If you hit hard enough you should be able to feel it for a little while after that

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 03:00 PM

thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

Night-1991 · 05-20-2008, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by sl101

thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

My best bet is on the softest part of the ass, just constant fast spanking, 40 on each cheek.

SubMissChievous · 05-20-2008, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by sl101

thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

You're welcome

Yeah you're right. Self-spanking isn't quite as the same as if the hits are given by someone else. No matter how hard I hit it still feels different & I've never reached that point where I would get close to tears (although I've had a few minor sitting problems a couple times...

) Anyway I've reached that point where it was getting close to too much only one time in RL & ended up with my ass black & blue with "sitting-problems" that lasted for about 4-5 days afterwards...

Well... that's why I thought about suggesting different items & trying different targets so you can experiment if any works for you. So I hope you have lots of spanking fun

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 03:37 PM

well il try and have a few sitting problems hopefully. i would love to be spanked in real life but am nervous of the pain i think so would like to give myself as close to what a real spanking would be like. how were you spanked when you were beaten black and blue? would it be possible to adapt that to self spanking?

SubMissChievous · 05-20-2008, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by sl101

well il try and have a few sitting problems hopefully. i would love to be spanked in real life but am nervous of the pain i think so would like to give myself as close to what a real spanking would be like. how were you spanked when you were beaten black and blue?

Just simple bare hand spanking but really hard

It was just an idea like that that my partner had that I would have to say stop when it would really be too much & I was just too focused (and stubborn) to quit...

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would it be possible to adapt that to self spanking?

I have no idea... I guess it's possible but I've never ever got close to that point by myself.

Pingu · 05-20-2008, 04:44 PM

Might have to give this a go before my driving test which requires me to be sitting on my arse concentrating.

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 04:59 PM

ok so it seems that self spanking is a very difficult way to actually cause yourself any real pain. so does anyone have any ideas on how you can cause yourself enough pain to make you close to tears and feeling the effects of it for a while after?

Stripperman · 05-20-2008, 06:30 PM

Go to a sex shop and buy yourself a rubber whip, they come in different lenghts and are made of 100 or so very small strands of rubber, trust me, with this you can get a real good sting and apply it with very fast speed by twirling it.

MstDynamic · 05-21-2008, 09:48 AM

Try a good ol riding crop!

I dated a horesy-girl in my teens, believe me, even a self cropping hurts

Rain · 05-21-2008, 11:37 AM

Try with one of those hairbrushes that folds in two. If you hold it so it flips open just as you swing, it really hurts.

boislave1 · 05-24-2008, 05:51 AM

use a foot long plastic ruler, swing it hard enough and it will hurt.

onknees · 05-24-2008, 06:34 AM

You can try by attaching a small whip (its not the correct word but i dont find it its this => http://87.98.222.182/0/02/11/79/martinet.jpg ) to a small mixer ( http://maison.evous.fr/local/cache-v...inex-afa7d.jpg ) or to a drill ( http://www.kadophone.com/images/cade.../perceuse3.jpg )

You can find this sort of whip in pet shops in France

05-20-2008, 11:24 AM	#1
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	self spanking is there any way to make self spanking actually hurt anywhere close to a real spanking? i have tried it but it doesnt really have any effect and never close enough to make me even close to crying. i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of how you could make it more painful?

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05-20-2008, 11:52 AM	#2
Night-1991 Account Banned Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,216 Blog Entries: 86	One thing, hair brush, those things hurt, trust me

05-20-2008, 02:23 PM	#3
SubMissChievous Prodigy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 4,466	Yes, indeed, hairbrushes can be painful. New unused ones are usually more effective. Kitchen wooden spoons can be quite snappy too The most common item used for self-spanking are belts. I always had a bit of difficulty when using the ones I use as clothing accessories as they seemed to be a bit too long to use on myself. Recently I bought one designed for kids. It's made of leather & about 60 cm long (24 inch). I found that this one, folded in 2, works very well. You may have to try to spank different "targets" too. How one reacts to different kinds & location for spanking is relatively variable from one person to another. You could maybe try your nipples & upper inner thighs. If you hit hard enough you should be able to feel it for a little while after that

05-20-2008, 03:00 PM	#4
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

05-20-2008, 03:37 PM	#7
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	well il try and have a few sitting problems hopefully. i would love to be spanked in real life but am nervous of the pain i think so would like to give myself as close to what a real spanking would be like. how were you spanked when you were beaten black and blue? would it be possible to adapt that to self spanking?

05-20-2008, 04:44 PM	#9
Pingu Be afraid Join Date: May 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,010 Blog Entries: 14	Might have to give this a go before my driving test which requires me to be sitting on my arse concentrating.

05-20-2008, 04:59 PM	#10
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	ok so it seems that self spanking is a very difficult way to actually cause yourself any real pain. so does anyone have any ideas on how you can cause yourself enough pain to make you close to tears and feeling the effects of it for a while after?

05-21-2008, 11:37 AM	#13
Rain Account Banned Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1	Try with one of those hairbrushes that folds in two. If you hold it so it flips open just as you swing, it really hurts.

05-24-2008, 05:51 AM	#14
boislave1 Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: UK Posts: 14	use a foot long plastic ruler, swing it hard enough and it will hurt.

05-24-2008, 06:34 AM	#15
onknees getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Paris Posts: 494	You can try by attaching a small whip (its not the correct word but i dont find it its this => http://87.98.222.182/0/02/11/79/martinet.jpg ) to a small mixer ( http://maison.evous.fr/local/cache-v...inex-afa7d.jpg ) or to a drill ( http://www.kadophone.com/images/cade.../perceuse3.jpg ) You can find this sort of whip in pet shops in France