32/male/dom seeks 24-36/female/sub in EU

[herpderp42]

32/male/dom seeks 24-36/female/sub in EU

Why do the ads always get closed so quickly...? 'Reopening' my ad in a new thread since the old one got closed on me.

About me:
I am 31 years old (the title is automaticly generated, I chose the 01.01.1992 as my birthday) and am mostly dominant. My nationality is German and I enjoy reading, all the usual friend stuff including gaming and some random programming at times. And who isn't enjoying to watch videos or series?

While I do believe that the judgement whether I am friendly or not should be done by the other person I usually try to be friendly. Since I am German my sense of humor is horrible so I enjoy puns, dad jokes, dry humor, stupid logic etc. very much.

Nobody will ever have all the experience but I did gather enough to mostly know what I want.

The type of dom I am aiming to be and have been in the past (has been a little while since my last proper dom-sub-relationship) is a soft-dom:

I do not consider myself something 'better' than a submissive but I still love to sweettalk them into being good girls. I personally value trying hard over succeeding, which however means I don't need to feel bad for giving challenging tasks. A punishment for failing is still in order but I hardly ever feel angry in those cases, so you should take the punishment with a smile.


What the relationship should be like:
I am looking for a hopefully longterm relationship, which should not be a burden on you but instead enhance both of our freetime. It is important that the relationship builds at least on a form of friendship and we enjoy each other outside of play aswell. Trust and honesty in both direction is a necessary condition for me.
If we connect and decide to give it a try I prefer to chat via an app like kik or telegram (the later is actual a nice app, unlike the former). This allows us to form a deeper connection and keep in touch, even if time for a play-session is hard to find. Some form of ongoing communication is very important to me, even if it is just a good morning and good night message on busy days. But just showing that you did not 'forget' about each other is nice.
Neither you should have a secondary dom/me, nor do I want a secondary sub.

What I would like you to be/ have/ etc:

• around my age. I don't want to draw a hard arbitrary line but I am certainly too old for somebody 18 years old or so.
• around my area. This means our time zones should at least be close and further than that it is like with edges: The closer the better.
• I would like to enjoy chatting with you
• Share most of my likes (see below) or are curious to try
• female (sex and gender)

My kinks:

• I love orgasm control and tease & denial. Both kinks belong naturally to each other for me. I want to decide when you get to cum, when not and at best even decide when you get to edge. I prefer the denial to be unpredictable and the length is often rather mediocre because I also really like to make a good subby, whom I adore, cum. I generally want you to give the control over your pleasure away. Even if you get to know when your next orgasm will be would be my decision.
• Edging kind of belongs to the tease& denial above but it deserves to get its own spot. I do love to make my submissives wet and either make her cum hard or leave frustrated and needy but happy.
• Lighthearted degradation in both tasks and name calling. Body writing, panty gags etc belong to this for me.
• Anal: I do usually not heavily focus on this but it is a nice way to add additional pleasure/ degradation and a good way to make you fuck yourself without the need of your pussy. And plugging you would be a great fun aswell!
• Pain: Similar as anal, a very nice way to add additional fun. The pain doesn't need to be very intense.

Limits:

• Pictures: sharing pictures with strangers is scary. I am not claiming I don#t like them but it is not necessary for me. I might ask for pictures of objects after a while but I do mean it as a question. If you aren't comfortable a no is a no.
• Public/family: huge no for me, just too dangerous for the social life. Safely hidden public is something different of course.
• Permanent: The female body is pretty beautiful already, why would I want to change much about that?
• Dangerous: do I have to say more than no?
• Scat: Nope, not into it at all.
• Ageplay: Only turns me off.

How to apply:
If you are still interested feel free to write me a PM to get into contact. Please make sure the following information is either contained in the Pm or accessible via your profile:

• Age and Location (as general as you feel comfortable, but at least the timezone please)
• Your likes/ dislikes and limits. Are there some you have missed in my list?
• The toys you own (Not a requirement to own some but gives a nice overview over your experience and likes etc.)
• How much experience you have with denial. As in how long is your maximal duration etc.
• Show some personality please. I want a person as a submissive, not a robot.
• Any questions you have for me.
• Anything you want to say.

Thank you for reading all of this, no matter if you reply or not and good luck on your search!

[herpderp42]

A month has passed so I can bump.

[herpderp42]

Jus a quick bump.