What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

Bethanyy · 07-30-2023, 12:27 AM

I orgasm most days, some days multiple times and love it. I’ve gone orgasm free in the past while under the control of another person but nothing too extreme.

I saw a dare on here that said ‘role a dice to see how many orgasms you can have in a year’ and I don’t know why but it really turned me on. Imagine being a horny desperate submissive and being granted 6 or under orgasms per year. Or 1 orgasm per year. Being constantly aroused with just that 1 release. I’m not sure if it’s just a turn on or something I’d want to explore more.

So my question to you all…..

What is the longest time you have gone orgasm free?
Were you edging during that time?
How did it make you feel?

otrsan · 07-30-2023, 12:51 AM

The longest I've gone was about two months. I was edging and being edged a lot and it was super intense and a lot of fun. The constant ache and leaking was almost unbearable. I don't think I could go that long again without a domme to do it for. I just need that feedback and encouragement, and some sort of sexual focus, to make it seem worthwhile.

I fantasize about going a whole year without orgasms, or being allowed twelve for the entire year but being made to use them all up near the beginning. It would drive me wild I think.

Salem · 07-30-2023, 03:12 PM

At most I think two weeks, but it wasn't intentionally or through the direction of another person. I was just really busy for a couple weeks and didn't have any time to myself. By the time the 2nd week rolled around, I was very agitated and on edge. I do NOT handle not being able to orgasm very well at all but the idea in theory of someone giving me permission to do it or denying me permission is extremely sexy to me. But only in theory.

Azwoodguy2004 · 07-30-2023, 03:20 PM

I went an entire year, and a few weeks. Wife locked me in a chastity cage and lost the key. She found it after 3 months but wanted to torture me some.

DarkSide94 · 07-30-2023, 04:47 PM

Last year I did NNN, and intend to do it again due to the insane orgasm afterwards
Unintentionally, I reckon I’ve done close to two months, just too busy or not in the mood, or didn’t have the energy to masturbate

I do love the idea of having a random generator give three or four numbers between 1-365, which would correspond to a day of the year you could orgasm on. Imagine them all being in December, or worse, January! Haha

otrsan · 07-31-2023, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by DarkSide94

Last year I did NNN, and intend to do it again due to the insane orgasm afterwards
Unintentionally, I reckon I’ve done close to two months, just too busy or not in the mood, or didn’t have the energy to masturbate

I do love the idea of having a random generator give three or four numbers between 1-365, which would correspond to a day of the year you could orgasm on. Imagine them all being in December, or worse, January! Haha

Check out the calendar date generator on random.org. It’s perfect for such things.

andrew_b · 07-31-2023, 09:27 AM

33 years. That might sound like BS but it's true. I'm pretty sure anyway

I should explain, I've got a medical condition which meant that I could not cum during sex or masturbation but recently it did

I'm still not fully sure there's a chance I could have been having orgasms before and not knowing what it felt like but more than likely I had my very first that night. I do hope it's the start of many more.

Cstelle · 07-31-2023, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by andrew_b

I'm still not fully sure there's a chance I could have been having orgasms before and not knowing what it felt like but more than likely I had my very first that night. I do hope it's the start of many more.

May the gods smile upon your endeavour! You certainly have my best wishes!

Sex Speed Runner · 07-31-2023, 10:41 AM

The longest i have gone is around 2 months. I just wasn't in the mood for it!

andrew_b · 07-31-2023, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Cstelle

May the gods smile upon your endeavour! You certainly have my best wishes!

Thank you much appreciated

cieirn · 07-31-2023, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by andrew_b

33 years. That might sound like BS but it's true. I'm pretty sure anyway

I should explain, I've got a medical condition which meant that I could not cum during sex or masturbation but recently it did

I'm still not fully sure there's a chance I could have been having orgasms before and not knowing what it felt like but more than likely I had my very first that night. I do hope it's the start of many more.

Was there a change that helped this to happen, or did it just happen?

andrew_b · 07-31-2023, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by cieirn

Was there a change that helped this to happen, or did it just happen?

I've spent years doing my best to strengthen my pelvic floor so that may have helped but I wasn't expecting it so it did sort of just happen too

Ornatery · 08-01-2023, 12:51 AM

I honestly can go months without masturbating at all. I just tend to lose interest and forget. It doesn't bother me at all except when I get horny again and am too tight to do much anal play. Spending the time to loosen up properly over the course of days or weeks is such a bore.

For denial to be fun at all for me I need daily reminders to edge or play otherwise I just forget and then it's not denial play anymore - it's just a lack of horniness

Dirk-exposed · 08-01-2023, 04:35 AM

I got 2 weeks without orgasm. After these two weeks I was very very horny and I had a permanent boner.

socklover · 08-01-2023, 05:41 AM

I honestly don’t know but I think it was maybe a week. I was trying out chastity for the first time.

07-30-2023, 12:27 AM	#1
Bethanyy Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2023 Location: UK Posts: 23	What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm? I orgasm most days, some days multiple times and love it. I’ve gone orgasm free in the past while under the control of another person but nothing too extreme. I saw a dare on here that said ‘role a dice to see how many orgasms you can have in a year’ and I don’t know why but it really turned me on. Imagine being a horny desperate submissive and being granted 6 or under orgasms per year. Or 1 orgasm per year. Being constantly aroused with just that 1 release. I’m not sure if it’s just a turn on or something I’d want to explore more. So my question to you all….. What is the longest time you have gone orgasm free? Were you edging during that time? How did it make you feel?

07-30-2023, 12:51 AM	#2
otrsan Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: West Coast, U.S.A. Posts: 166 Blog Entries: 2	The longest I've gone was about two months. I was edging and being edged a lot and it was super intense and a lot of fun. The constant ache and leaking was almost unbearable. I don't think I could go that long again without a domme to do it for. I just need that feedback and encouragement, and some sort of sexual focus, to make it seem worthwhile. I fantasize about going a whole year without orgasms, or being allowed twelve for the entire year but being made to use them all up near the beginning. It would drive me wild I think. __________________ Likes: spanking, chastity, edging, denial, games of chance, light CBT, corner time, cum eating Maybe: pics or cam Limits: public, body writing, watersports, scat, anything illegal, dangerous, or disrespectful to others m/50s/switch Messengers: 21+ only. Please confirm your age and let me know you’re from getDare. kik: otrsan telegram: otrsan My PM Dares

07-30-2023, 03:12 PM	#3
Salem Member Join Date: Dec 2021 Location: hell Posts: 89 Blog Entries: 8	At most I think two weeks, but it wasn't intentionally or through the direction of another person. I was just really busy for a couple weeks and didn't have any time to myself. By the time the 2nd week rolled around, I was very agitated and on edge. I do NOT handle not being able to orgasm very well at all but the idea in theory of someone giving me permission to do it or denying me permission is extremely sexy to me. But only in theory. __________________ on hiatus Most Recent Spanking: Nov. 9th 100 on each cheek with wooden cane PM Dares Likes/Dislikes/Limits + Tools/Implements

07-30-2023, 03:20 PM	#4
Azwoodguy2004 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: Phoenix Posts: 209	I went an entire year, and a few weeks. Wife locked me in a chastity cage and lost the key. She found it after 3 months but wanted to torture me some. __________________ Sub bottom slut Likes : crossdressing, selfbondage, water sports, spankings and floggings on the ass, humiliation and degradation, oral and anal poundings. Dislikes : scat, blood, flakes..... Email : [email protected] KIK. : Azwoodguy2004 Skype Live:azwoodguy2004

07-30-2023, 04:47 PM	#5
DarkSide94 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2013 Location: Scotland Posts: 389 Blog Entries: 1	Last year I did NNN, and intend to do it again due to the insane orgasm afterwards Unintentionally, I reckon I’ve done close to two months, just too busy or not in the mood, or didn’t have the energy to masturbate I do love the idea of having a random generator give three or four numbers between 1-365, which would correspond to a day of the year you could orgasm on. Imagine them all being in December, or worse, January! Haha __________________ Got a Kik group to help my abuse, torture, beat, and destroy my balls! If anyone is interested in joining, drop me a message on Kik @ darkside940 The more the merrier ☺️

07-31-2023, 09:27 AM	#7
andrew_b getDare Cultist (Outer Circle) Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 11,063 Blog Entries: 20	33 years. That might sound like BS but it's true. I'm pretty sure anyway I should explain, I've got a medical condition which meant that I could not cum during sex or masturbation but recently it did I'm still not fully sure there's a chance I could have been having orgasms before and not knowing what it felt like but more than likely I had my very first that night. I do hope it's the start of many more. __________________ *Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017* My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s)

07-31-2023, 10:41 AM	#9
Sex Speed Runner Account Banned Join Date: Apr 2022 Location: England Posts: 477 Blog Entries: 11	The longest i have gone is around 2 months. I just wasn't in the mood for it! __________________ 20/Male/UK Interested in a casual Domme PM Dares Likes- Porn watching, Edging, JOI, Humiliation, Ice, Semi/Hidden Public, Driving, Gaming Dislikes- Piss, Cum eating, Anal, Photos, Moderate Pain Limits- Face, Illegal, Family, Friends, Social Suicide, Shit, Messy, Permanent, Harsh Pain 'In liquid raptures I dissolve all o’er, Melt into sperm, and spend at every pore. A touch from any part of her had done’t, Her hand, her foot, her very look’s a cunt.'

08-01-2023, 12:51 AM	#13
Ornatery Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2020 Location: Australia Posts: 6 Blog Entries: 2	I honestly can go months without masturbating at all. I just tend to lose interest and forget. It doesn't bother me at all except when I get horny again and am too tight to do much anal play. Spending the time to loosen up properly over the course of days or weeks is such a bore. For denial to be fun at all for me I need daily reminders to edge or play otherwise I just forget and then it's not denial play anymore - it's just a lack of horniness __________________ female/bi I'm currently cumming whenever I wanna Likes/limits & toys My PM dares

08-01-2023, 04:35 AM	#14
Dirk-exposed Member Join Date: Jan 2022 Posts: 72	I got 2 weeks without orgasm. After these two weeks I was very very horny and I had a permanent boner.

08-01-2023, 05:41 AM	#15
socklover Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Florida Posts: 210 Blog Entries: 5	I honestly don’t know but I think it was maybe a week. I was trying out chastity for the first time. __________________ 31 \| Sissy \| femboy lover Looking for a master in Florida. Likes/limits and such My Rules PM Dares Toys for my slutty clit~ Screenclaim: sockloverpet Kik: sissysock BDSM Test