Understanding your own humiliation

[MissyK]

1. What are some names you enjoy being called?
2. Why?
3. Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
4. What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
5. Do you prefer one over the other?
6. What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?
7. What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
8. What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
9. What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
10. What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?

[Robink]

Originally Posted by MissyK

1. What are some names you enjoy being called?
2. Why?
3. Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
4. What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
5. Do you prefer one over the other?
6. What's a time you extremely humiliated by a kink?
7. What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
8. What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
9. What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
10. What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?

1. President of the itty bitty clitty Committee or anything sph related really followed closely by sissy names
2.mainly because of a friend named me it and I really enjoy the time I talk to her. Just make me smile even when I read it
3.not really it's probably the thing I find the most fun when I'm teased about my size
4. I find humiliation to be a small part of the degradation kink. Personally though I prefer the humiliation aspect of it. Tearing down someone through using too many degrading words like pathetic and useless can be very hard to take depending on the scenario.
I I only like it in relation to my sph kink
5. Humiliation definitely
6.i was humilates by a previous keyholder when she involved a family member when taking part in an abdl session which she convinced me to do. Previously a limit
7.the family members inclusion. At least she never told anyone
8.i do find it very hard to get genuinely embarrassed I think because I enjoy it
9.extremly messy tasks which will just annoy me more than humiliate me
10. I get way to eager sometimes craving more and more until I get myself into trouble but still feel the need to continue

[Sex Speed Runner]

What are some names you enjoy being called?
I don't really get called many names, but things like cute and pretty maybe, despite being a man.

Why?
I feel it's because ive always been introverted, and don't really put myself out there. In my past relationship, I was always too scared to do things, (I recon this is what led to its demise). Therefore sort of names that make me seem a bit harmless and clueless. Like a lost puppy. But not cos im into being treated like an animal, cant remember what the kink is called.

Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
Things like weak and pussy dont really do it for me, i think i like the almost older GF looking after me kinda vibe, or babysitter.

What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
To me degrading is something to put someone down/seem worse than others, whereas humiliation is more making fun of them for something

Do you prefer one over the other?
I think i prefer humiliation more

What's a time you extremely humiliated by a kink?
Probably when i was more into cross dressing, and the girl i was talking to made me wear my sisters underwear. It doesnt do much for me nowadays.

What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
I think it was my first experience really of being told to do something and that something was to wear panties.

What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
Not much really, i feel like its hard to self humiliate, and as most of the kinky stuff i do i don't have a partner for its hard.

What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
Anything about personal appearance/my dick. Im pretty happy with all that so it just bounces off.

What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?
Not sure exactly what you mean, but i usually regret the 'humiliating' things i do, i think its nice as a fantasy but not much more.

[2shy]

[*]What are some names you enjoy being called?

Virgin, sexually inadequate, beta

[*]Why?

I think Ive turned a massively embarrassing thing in my life into a fetish

[*]Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?

Not really sure as I dont really have anyone calling me these things

[*]What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?

I think humiliation is something you feel. Degradation is something that's done to you regardless of how you feel. Someone could degrade me by calling me a pig but it wouldn't humiliate me. But if someone asked me when I lost my virginity, without intending to degrade me, I'd still feel very humiliated.

[*]Do you prefer one over the other?

Humiliation

[*]What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?

A female friend was talking to a few of us and as asking "how is your love life" when she got to me she said, "how is your love life, well I mean how is your life"
[*]What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?

It was like she and everone else could see right through me and knew I was a virgin.
I was the assumption that I had no love life, he fact that she was hot and tge fact that I obviously blushed and stammered in front of her.
It was horrible at the time but now the thought of it is a massive turn on
[*]What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?

I've not really tried much so not sure
[*]What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?

Names like pig and dog and wearing collars or making me do boring tasks. Just doesn't do it for me.


[*]What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?

Not really sure as never really had anyone try to humiliate me for fun

[alex_af1996]

[*]What are some names you enjoy being called?
Sub, slut, whore, naughty boy, sissy, femboy, anal slut, bitch [*]Why?
Because it gets me aroused [*]Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
Not really [*]What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
Degradation is getting talked down to humiliation is getting embarrassed while completing a task or dare [*]Do you prefer one over the other?
Both work well together but more humiliation [*]What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?
First time I was in a Kik group and I was the main subject doing tasks and dares for all bi or gay men (besides my mistress) I had to tell her I had to stop after I got overwhelmed (after a few more times this was my favourite kink) [*]What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
These people were talking down to me and they were screen shotting my name and forwarding it to others [*]What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
Strip teasing and cross dressing [*]What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
Get me extremely drunk or horny [*]What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?
Finding that line between me caring and not caring about it

[chiefsfan]

Originally Posted by MissyK

1. What are some names you enjoy being called?
2. Why?
3. Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
4. What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
5. Do you prefer one over the other?
6. What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?
7. What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
8. What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
9. What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
10. What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?

1. Anything that degrades my place as man. Tiny dick, sissy, slut. Things like that
2. They imply I am inferior and while I am a man I feel like an inferior man.
3. Not that I can think of. I just like being humiliated
4. Good question I hadn’t really thought about this. Degrading is the act of making me feel inferior and humiliating is more that it’s in public but I could be way off there.
5. Degrading it’s more personal
6. Telling my wife about wanting to cross dress. She was understanding but it felt humiliating
7. I was completely vulnerable and didn’t know how’d she react.
8. I don’t know maybe having my wife put a toy in my ass
9. Other than the basics idk
10. I get too excited about it.

[zephyrnem]

What are some names you enjoy being called?

Stupid, slave, idiot, anything

Why?

I like to be humiliated. Whatever you think is the most degrading name…I want to feel it. I love to be degraded and despised.

Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?

Very few names work. Mostly, I want to feel like useless, ugly, disgusting, flesh.

What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?

Degradation can be used for humiliation. To be treated like you are useless scum. Humiliation may include that, but there are many ways to humiliate someone…degradation is one.

Do you prefer one over the other?

I love being humiliated. If it involves degradation…great…but a good master can humiliate me with the smallest things. Making me go barefoot. Taking underwear away. Making me go shirtles. If they are good at it, I will feel it with the smallest acts. Not that being peed on in the mud isn’t fun.

What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?

I like it when I am just being used and get no to little pleasure from it. This has happened a couple of times. There is a sex shop I like where I have become just a bit of flesh. The first time I had anal…I hated it and felt miserable. Which made me so horny in my mind. I get off to it so much, now.

What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?

When I am naked and feel like I am bored and being used. I feel gross and yet someone else is getting off on me. Totally used and without control. Love it.

What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?

I can embarrass myself, usually. It is the other person’s attitude that is important…more than mine.

What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?

Simply having me have basic sex with you. Guys promise all sorts of things, and then just want me to suck dick. That bores me and not in a good way.

What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?

People who say they will do all sorts of miserable, horrible things, and then just get off fast in a basic way. People who say they will use and abuse me, and then do the smallest things or, worse, want me to abuse them. I need a great, abusive personality. Otherwise, I can humiliate myself.

[nifoc_uk]

What are some names you enjoy being called? Nifoc, Boy, Bitch, Slave, Sir, Master
Why? To escape daily realities
Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why? Slut and I’m not sure but don’t think it fits me
What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation? I guess the former is more lasting than the latter
Do you prefer one over the other? Humiliation I guess
What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink? Being shaved
What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others? A reminder when not in the mood or the moment
What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you? Not sure
What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you? Not sure
What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you? Trying to take me beyond my limits or to do things that it’s clear I have stated I won’t

[sm_limb]

1. What are some names you enjoy being called?
   Slut, whore, dumb, bitch, bimbo, andso on
   
2. Why?
   I love to be made an airhead to humiliate me
   
3. Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
   Not so far
   
4. What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
   Degrading lasts longer for me.
   
5. Do you prefer one over the other?
   I love to undergo both
   
6. What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?
   Got a dare to wear a micro slingshot bathinsuit to swimplace in the area barely covering nips and pussy. But with swimming andso it would shift and expose me fully and i only notice it being shifted by the looks i got
   
7. What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
   There were people i know also at the swimmingplace (large beach type of thing on river)
   
8. What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
   Nothing so far. I am easyly embarrassed
   
9. What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
   Dont know yet
   
10. What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?
    Trying to get me take pictures or videos as proof. I end up doing so but in the end wont send over the internet. I have used it as background on phone for certain time or printed them out

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[sissybill]

What are some names you enjoy being called?
faggot/bitch/sissy/hor/
Why?
the feeling of being all thise things
Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
no
What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
humiliation is instant
Do you prefer one over the other?
humiliation
What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?
wen my e wife came home n caught me in her pantys n bra jerkingoff on my face
What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
my wife catching with cum all over my face
What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
none sofar
What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
dont no yet
What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?
that it doesnt last longer

[Hwrd]

What are some names you enjoy being called?

I love being called a wedgie slut!

Why?

It's degrading without being cruel. It also suggests that I get a lot of wedgies, which is very embarrassing for me (in a good way!)

Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?

Not that I can think of. I prefer names that focus on a particular kink rather than me as a person though.

What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?

When I think of degradation, I tend to think that I'm meant to feel inferior than the person who is doing the degrading. Humiliation feels more temporary, and may refer to a particular incident or characteristic rather than the whole person.

Do you prefer one over the other?

No, both can be fun!

What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?

I'm incredibly humiliated every time I need to ask for more of something that is ostensibly bad or unpleasant. Like getting a 20 swat spanking and being made to ask for 20 more. I can always feel my face getting warm and red haha.



What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?

I think there are two parts to it. One is that I'm going to be kept in the unpleasant or compromising situation for even longer, which prolongs my initial embarrassment. The second is that I'm in such a subservient position, I have no choice but to ask for more of that treatment. It's really wonderful though haha.

What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?

I don't feel any embarrassment if no one else is involved. For me, it's really important for someone else to control my embarrassment and to know that it's happening.

What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?

When people are cruel in a mean way instead of a kinky way. No thanks.

What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?

Probably that I love writing reports and will sometimes end up writing an entire novel length post about it haha


Fun, thought provoking questions! I enjoyed writing this out!

[VeronikaAnalSubSlut]

What are some names you enjoy being called?
The normal ones, though I like being referenced with them. For example Slut, Whore, Cow

Why?
It reminds me of what I am or secretly want to be. At least the horny kinky me.

Are there any similar names in tone that don't work for you? And why?
An easy one would be Pig.
I connect ugly, fat and unclean with the name.
All things I am not. For something to humiliate me it needs a connection with me. Some truth. And this has none. It's even a turn off most of the time as it sent me the signal someone doesn't understand me well enough.

What's the difference to you between degradation and humiliation?
Degredation is the fall from a higher social standing to a lower for me. Humiliation is just a tool thst can be used to achieve degredation. And degredation can be humiliating.

Do you prefer one over the other?
Usually I want both. But sometimes I want one more than the other.

What's a time you were extremely humiliated by a kink?
First or I don't think having any kink should me humiliating. Just the act of doing it is. Even if it's just in your fantasy. So I also can't just name a kink which makes me feel the most humiliated as those situations are a combination of various kinks. If one is just the position your in which makes it special.
So jsut to name an example: walking back home with cum running down my leg.

What specifically about that instance stood out to you as making it more humiliating than others?
There is nothing which makes it very special besides it being kinda public and low key which is something that doesn't happen top often.

What are things that you've tried for humiliation that didn't actually embarrass you?
I don't know anything out of my head rn

What's a way that will definitely not humiliate you?
To humiliate me it needs a connection with me. Some truth. Or something. This is mostly important if you want to humiliate me without me doing something as that automatically has a connection with me. For example name calling or talking about some of my fantasies. I'd that connection is missing It's just like nothing to me, might even lead to me thinking your stupid.

What's a common pitfall when it comes to humiliating you?
I'm quite average I guess what humiliation goes so there mostly aren't any pitfalls als I match what most people expect. Just the missing connection sometimes.