Chastity cage problems: advice please!!

Asslamic · 04-13-2018, 03:22 AM

Hi everybody!
I've recently bought my first plastic chastity cage. And although I really enjoy using it, there are some moments where it feels really uncomfortable up to the point were it's almost unbearable to wear my chastity cage. For example, when I have morning wood, my testicles are in a lot of pain, and it is frustrating, for morning wood doesn't go away that easily. So I find myself struggling in the morning alot, and after 8 minutes or so I get sick of the pain and I just take it of. I find it weird, for the cage fits me well, and it really isn't uncomfortably tight anywhere. Maybe I'm doing something wrong? Or is it a normal thing and I just have to get used to the pain. Can anybody maybe give me some advice, because I would really like to wear my cage for loooong periods of time without taking it off too much.

Thank you for reading!

perkygirlie · 04-13-2018, 05:51 AM

It's going to/supposed to hurt if you get hard, that's part of the function of a cage. However, it could be the wrong fit. My best advice to you is:
Get a cage that bends the penis (which will limit blood flow/engorgement),

Make sure you have the right size ring around your balls; a larger ring may prevent it from pulling too hard on your testicles

Don't drink for an hour before bedtime, and pee immediately before you go to bed.

If none of that works, you might just have to take off the cage each night (sad, I know). Keep in mind that NPT ("morning wood") happens during REM sleep, and wearing a cage that hurts when erect can disrupt your sleep during this important phase.

Satoshi · 04-13-2018, 06:44 AM

I've bought several cages of different types and sizes and they all have one thing in common.. Morning wood hurts like hell. It's normal.

Whoever made us males somehow thought it'd be funny to make us get erect when we have to pee, which is the case in the case around the time you wake up.

There is absolutely no way to get out of that painful moment in the morning apart from trying to get used to it. I haven't done it myself, since I'm not into long term chastity, but I've read all over the internet that it tends to get better after 3-4 days.. Let your body get used to the cage and it'll adapt.
For the first days, try getting out of bed. Let some cool air touch your jewels and walk it off. Attempt to pee after ~10minutes and see if that works. If it's not gone after 20-ish minutes. Take off the cage, shower and put it back on. The Dominant needs to understand this. It's completely natural.

As Perky said, if none of all this seem to have effect. Take it off during the nights, I do it most of the time when I'm given chastity.

Scrap · 04-13-2018, 06:53 AM

I have found that "morning wood" is not actually from arousal, but is a "piss hard-on". If you don't get up to pee during the night, then your bladder needs some extra help keeping everything in. Try getting up a couple times to pee and see if that helps, or not drinking a lot of water just before bed.

I actually don't have much choice but to, because I get woken up numerous times while I'm sleeping (about every 2.5 hrs) with my cage trying to rip my cock and balls out by the root. I get up, waddle to the bathroom, sit down and let loose. By the time I'm done, I'm all comfy again and can go back to sleep.

perkygirlie · 04-13-2018, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Scrap

I have found that "morning wood" is not actually from arousal, but is a "piss hard-on". If you don't get up to pee during the night, then your bladder needs some extra help keeping everything in. Try getting up a couple times to pee and see if that helps, or not drinking a lot of water just before bed.

I actually don't have much choice but to, because I get woken up numerous times while I'm sleeping (about every 2.5 hrs) with my cage trying to rip my cock and balls out by the root. I get up, waddle to the bathroom, sit down and let loose. By the time I'm done, I'm all comfy again and can go back to sleep.

Yeah, there has been speculation for a long time that "morning wood" was primarily due to needing to pee. More recent research has discounted needing to pee as a reason (you'd be more likely to wet the bed than to get hard). Recent research indicates that nocturnal erections tend to occur a few times per night due to a drop in norepinephrine levels during REM sleep. That's probably why you wake up every 2.5 hours, which is close to timing of REM in the sleep cycle. You may also feel the need to pee, but that's not what made you hard. Just be careful, because long-term lack of REM and deep sleep (which occurs after REM in the sleep cycle) can seriously affect your health.

Asslamic · 04-14-2018, 04:18 AM

Thanks everyone for the replies, I really appreciate them! I'll try to keep these things In mind during my chastity "adventures"!

04-13-2018, 03:22 AM	#1
Asslamic Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2017 Posts: 17	Chastity cage problems: advice please!! Hi everybody! I've recently bought my first plastic chastity cage. And although I really enjoy using it, there are some moments where it feels really uncomfortable up to the point were it's almost unbearable to wear my chastity cage. For example, when I have morning wood, my testicles are in a lot of pain, and it is frustrating, for morning wood doesn't go away that easily. So I find myself struggling in the morning alot, and after 8 minutes or so I get sick of the pain and I just take it of. I find it weird, for the cage fits me well, and it really isn't uncomfortably tight anywhere. Maybe I'm doing something wrong? Or is it a normal thing and I just have to get used to the pain. Can anybody maybe give me some advice, because I would really like to wear my cage for loooong periods of time without taking it off too much. Thank you for reading! __________________ 18/m/Belgium Likes: Orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, edging, chastity Debatable: public, light anal Limits: anything with human excrements, blood, excessive pain, excessive humiliation, blackmail, social suicide, feet, smell, food, anything illegal

04-13-2018, 05:51 AM	#2
perkygirlie Prodigy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: My Cage Posts: 4,649 Blog Entries: 25	It's going to/supposed to hurt if you get hard, that's part of the function of a cage. However, it could be the wrong fit. My best advice to you is: Get a cage that bends the penis (which will limit blood flow/engorgement), Make sure you have the right size ring around your balls; a larger ring may prevent it from pulling too hard on your testicles Don't drink for an hour before bedtime, and pee immediately before you go to bed. If none of that works, you might just have to take off the cage each night (sad, I know). Keep in mind that NPT ("morning wood") happens during REM sleep, and wearing a cage that hurts when erect can disrupt your sleep during this important phase. __________________ Spoiler: If you're in a denial thread, add 1 day of denial. :rolleyes: This spoiler only counts once per thread per day. 29 Modded f DemiOmniTriSexual / OmniPolyRomantic switchy slave Stats, likes, limits, toys, DISCLAIMER More information than you ever wanted to know about me

04-13-2018, 06:53 AM	#4
Scrap Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: US Posts: 725 Blog Entries: 34	I have found that "morning wood" is not actually from arousal, but is a "piss hard-on". If you don't get up to pee during the night, then your bladder needs some extra help keeping everything in. Try getting up a couple times to pee and see if that helps, or not drinking a lot of water just before bed. I actually don't have much choice but to, because I get woken up numerous times while I'm sleeping (about every 2.5 hrs) with my cage trying to rip my cock and balls out by the root. I get up, waddle to the bathroom, sit down and let loose. By the time I'm done, I'm all comfy again and can go back to sleep. __________________ Scrap D Flasher 49/gf(m)/US/pan/sub Likes: nudity, public, watersports, humiliation, cross dressing, bondage Limits: illegal, social suicide, scat, blood, young AMA: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=293024 kik: scrapdflasher snapchat: scrapdflasher

04-14-2018, 04:18 AM	#6
Asslamic Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2017 Posts: 17	Thanks everyone for the replies, I really appreciate them! I'll try to keep these things In mind during my chastity "adventures"! __________________ 18/m/Belgium Likes: Orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, edging, chastity Debatable: public, light anal Limits: anything with human excrements, blood, excessive pain, excessive humiliation, blackmail, social suicide, feet, smell, food, anything illegal

04-13-2018, 06:44 AM	#3
Satoshi Lola’s Sweet Little Lamb Join Date: Nov 2015 Posts: 210 Blog Entries: 12	I've bought several cages of different types and sizes and they all have one thing in common.. Morning wood hurts like hell. It's normal. Whoever made us males somehow thought it'd be funny to make us get erect when we have to pee, which is the case in the case around the time you wake up. There is absolutely no way to get out of that painful moment in the morning apart from trying to get used to it. I haven't done it myself, since I'm not into long term chastity, but I've read all over the internet that it tends to get better after 3-4 days.. Let your body get used to the cage and it'll adapt. For the first days, try getting out of bed. Let some cool air touch your jewels and walk it off. Attempt to pee after ~10minutes and see if that works. If it's not gone after 20-ish minutes. Take off the cage, shower and put it back on. The Dominant needs to understand this. It's completely natural. As Perky said, if none of all this seem to have effect. Take it off during the nights, I do it most of the time when I'm given chastity.