04-17-2014, 12:46 PM | #32 | |
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I don’t think there is any way to generalize. Some men take forever to get their shit together, if they ever do. Others are capable of starting and supporting a family from a very young age. I guess it depends on the decisions that they make. In my mind, a boy becomes a man when he steps up and takes responsibilities for his actions. I think the expectation to stay married is generational to some extent. My parents are still married, but there were large periods of time where they would have both been happier apart. As a kids growing up, that was hard to witness. Now that they are older, I’m glad that they have each other. Unfortunately, you mature every time life deals you another blow. Loved ones get sick and die. Accidents happen. There are a few times I remember distinctly that the people around me were treating me differently. One was at my cousin’s wedding. I think I was 12 or 13 at the time and at least two different relatives volunteered to take me to get birth control prior to the event. I didn’t understand what was happening until my cousin showed up at the very lavish and expensive event eight months pregnant. I also remember setting up for a family reunion and having my mother spill all the family secrets. The most outrageous one was my grandmother’s little brother married her youngest daughter. I had never questioned why they had the same last name or why their kids had so many mental and health problems. I also learned that one of my very proper and religious aunts and ran off with a cousin’s husband and that’s why they don’t speak. If this is what is means to be a grown up, I’m not sure I want to be one. None although I have been involved with someone 20 years my senior. I think younger lovers have more interest in and energy for sex. Everything is exciting (and sometimes terrible) when you try something for the first time. You have less “firsts” as you get older which is why the BDSM lifestyle is so appealing. It does seem slightly unfair that women reach their sexual peak much later than a man, but an older man has an inner strength that can only come with time. My ranking would be: intelligence, age/maturity, experience, and physical condition. Intelligence is by far the most important trait. Everything else is secondary in my mind. |
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have you ever done anything kinky with your monthly blood?
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04-17-2014, 04:45 PM | #34 | |
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The hardest dare was to edge at work. I ended up doing it in the shower at our gym. I tried to time it so no one else was in the shower at the time but there were other people in the changing room. The easiest was to wear crotchless panties to work. I thought it was going to be a lot worse than it was but they were hardly noticeable until I would go to the bathroom and see the big gaping hole. Yes, my finger nails are painted a opalescent purple. I've been paying a lot more attention to my appearance since Dark. He makes me feel better about myself. Dark challenged shilohs_candy and me to an orgasm race using only our thumb and one finger. The loser had orgasm denial for a week. No limits were set on visual stimulation so I watched a video about a human blow job machine. I went home to visit my family before Christmas. I went to lunch with one of my best friends I've had for 30 years. We don't get to see each other often but we just pick up where we left off. |
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04-17-2014, 05:04 PM | #35 | |
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Anything remotely public is hard for me but I don't think I can count that as a limit any more. As I've detailed elsewhere, I've been busted by the department secretary and edged at work. I've also gone shopping without panties. Photos/videos would be the second one. Dark has seen everything there is to see and been happy with the experience. Candy has seen a nipple shot I use for my Kik profile. It is actually kind of fun to tease each other about it. One of my fantasies revolves around hucow milking. It embarrasses me every time he hints at something in the chat room or in private. I don't think I could ever get to the point of actual lactation because it is: a) massively time consuming; and b) impossible to hide. I would be willing to explore other alternatives if Dark asked. |
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I have masturbated while on my period. It just takes a little extra clean up so it's not that big a deal. Probably the kinkiest thing I have done was masturbate in front of a full length mirror. I didn't have a tampon in and a big blob of menstrual blood and tissue fell onto the carpet. I felt very embarrassed trying to clean it all up.
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04-17-2014, 05:17 PM | #38 |
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Aren´t you scared about Blackmailing?
Ever lied to DarkController? Ever regretted to started it with him? Do you think there is an end of the universe? What was first egg or chicken? |
04-17-2014, 08:06 PM | #39 | |
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I was going to say no but I think I have tried to be polite when in actuality I was upset. Whenever that happens, I take a step back and explain my feelings to him. He is very good at getting in my head so he usually knows what I'm thinking before I do. I've been scared since this relationship started but never regretted a second. Scientists have measured the end of the universe so the answer is yes. From an evolutionary perspective, the egg came first. The first animal we would recognize as a chicken had to be born from an egg. It couldn't have been born one species and then evolved into a chicken during its lifetime. You probably wanted a simpler answer. |
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04-17-2014, 08:11 PM | #40 |
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Since Scientists have discovered the end of the universe , what do you think is behind it? or just a wall? whats behind the wall?
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04-18-2014, 04:54 AM | #41 |
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Thanks for excellent reports for all the questions asked of you from all participants.
Describe 3 experiences in your life (sexual experiences of course) that happened to you that you did or participated in that embarrassed or humiliated you - that if you could you would change. How and why? Describe 2 events/experiences (sexual of course) that occurred in your past that knowing the things you know now about yourself, that if you could do again, you would have not pulled away from or would have gone much further than you did. Explain the experience and what would would do now. If Dark asked you to seduce and give yourself sexually to one of your female friends, coworkers, or anyone else you personally know, for him (no, I'm not asking for her first and last name) who would you choose and why? Imagine and describe the seduction. Imagine you are indeed submissive to her, but instruction from Dark says to beg her to use you in every kink she wishes, what will you beg of her? Last edited by thewilds; 04-18-2014 at 05:18 AM. |
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Very interesting questions thewild!!
I have simpler ones just to lighten it up: What was your first car? What is your current vehicle? What is the oldest form of music 'player' other than a radio that you have owned? Have you gotten many traffic tickets in your life? Would you please describe how your first dildo purchase went? |
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I have had times when I thought this was strangely familiar. The most vivid memory was when I was really young (5-6) and I went to the planetarium. There was a show about Indians of Central and South America. I still remember crying when they talked about the conquistadors burning the Mayan codices. Besides Dark, the second person on GD I trust the most is Candy. I think the only time I have been jealous is when I read his blog post of the spanking challenge I developed. His postings are much more interesting than mine. |
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04-18-2014, 01:54 PM | #44 | |
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Guess I'll take them in order. When I finally decided that I needed to take a chance if I ever wanted to experience life, I agreed to meet a man I met through a vanilla chat room. We developed a long distance relationship but I would visit on weekends when I could. At the time I was on a medication that warned you strongly not to get pregnant so we always used condoms. After I went off the medication, he wanted to rely on birth control because he hated to wear condoms. After we broke up, my next pap smear came back positive for HPV. It was humiliating that I was that stupid but also that I had to go to a specialist for some very painful tests. Luckily, I have been clear for almost a decade. If I could change it I never would have had sex without a condom. The second was my first forays into anal sex. We didn't have any proper toys so my boyfriend slowly inserted a can of body spray I had. I jumped when he finally got the blunt end in my ass and he got upset because that is a good way to get hurt. The next time we used a proper butt plug I bought off the internet but it was a medium size. When I bought it I thought there is no way that can fit inside. It hurt like hell but it did. If I had to do it again, I would do a lot more research and do it right the first time. I had completely blocked out a related embarrassing story so I apologize for my earlier answer about farting during sex. We didn't have proper lube either so he used a lavender bath oil I had. It worked great for making things slippery but it made me gassy afterwards. He thought it was hilarious but I was mortified. If I could go back in time I would avoid using household items all together. I would change the first time I experienced a sexual punishment and prevented myself from being so stubborn. I don't even remember the details but I distinctly remember fighting not to cum because that would give him power over me. I guess the other would be not to lie about having an orgasm. I think our sex life would have been a lot better for both of us if I had just been honest with what worked and what didn't instead of trying to shelter his feelings. I've been thinking about this question since I read your post several hours ago and I'm stuck. I could think of at least one person I've met on GD but don't know her personally. I also thought about the big boss where I work but she's like 70. I am going to go with one of my co-workers that changes next to me at the gym. She is super sweet and friendly but you can tell she has hidden depths. She is soft rather than muscular but is impressive when lifting weights. She also has a cool tattoo that doesn't really fit her personality and rides a motorcycle. She has invited me several times to attend a crossfit class but I've been worried that I wouldn't be able to keep up. I don't even know where I would start with a seduction except for leaving notes in her locker but that sounds so high school. I could always ask her to give me private lessons so I'm not embarrassed in front of the class. I would also try to convince her that I'm most motivated by punishment and really need to lose weight. The more creative she can be in her punishments, the more help she will be to me. I'm afraid it isn't what you are probably looking for but I really struggled with this one. |
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04-18-2014, 03:41 PM | #45 |
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You have done an incredible and well thought out reply. I love that you are being honest. You don't have to guess as to what I want you to say. I would be disappointed in anything beyond your honest answer. Yes, in truth I was attemping to draw out more of the 'act' on the final question, however I like the one you gave me. I will let it simmer in thought a little longer before I have you go beyond the getting her alone (which is a very realistic scenario) and then describing the 'acts' that you would imagine - especially the begging of 'kinky' sexual acts. Enjoy simmering. Take your time, I'll be around.
Btw thanks Candy for your encouragement! Last edited by thewilds; 04-18-2014 at 03:53 PM. |
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