30/female/dom seeks 30-40/male/sub in any place

[sexyred92]

30/female/dom seeks 30-40/male/sub in any place

Who am I as a dominant?

I can be strict when the situation truly requires it, but most of the time I'm not. I love giving teasing and pain tasks. (In addition to others, but those are my top two!) I'm not someone who is super strict, but i can try. I want to be your friend and not just someone telling you what to do.

I haven't been super active on this site in a long time. The last little bit I've been talking to a previous sub, who has now found a rl relationship. So back to being bored af and wanting that fun again

Why do I like being dominant?

I enjoy helping submissives explore their likes, etc. I like teasing you and making you want to be so lucky to cum.... and then most of the time saying no. Maybe once in awhile allowing it. Maybe.

What do I want in a submissive?

I want someone who has at least some experince and a lack of toys is absolutely no issue! As I said I want to be friends, so you should be able to hold a conversation. You should be willing to ask me questions. I'm dominant, I'm not some scary monster. I've met online submissives who have said other dominants do not like them asking questions. That's not me. If I don't want to answer a question I will tell you.

Things You Might Want To Know:

Age: 31 Years Old
Would I ever switch? Respectfully no. I have no interest in switching.
Experience: I have always been curious about being dominant and for the last several years, I have been an online domme. I've had multiple online submissives, although I've never played in real life due to my location.

What do I like giving for tasks?

I'm into giving a lot of pain, teasing and edging tasks mainly. A lot of denial for sure. I'm willing to play with subs who like being girly, but it is not 100 % something I want to do.

What kind of tasks am I hestiant on?

Public! Unsure why but it makes me uncomfortable slightly. If this a like of yours, seriously considering passing, with all respect. I have made one submissive edge at work but anything more crazy is a no go for me.

What will I absolutely never give you?

Blackmail, permanent injuries, bodily fluids (not cum )

I'm pretty flexible, although I will tell you if I'm not comfortable. With my tasks, I try to be pretty creative and detailed and I aim to make them fun if possible. I am willing to send photos after some time. Sometimes due to health problems I may not be able to send a lot of tasks

What do I like to do for fun?

Reading (way too much books, if there is such a thing), photography and snuggling animals! I can promise you will get photos of my baby, Otis (a rabbit).

Important

I also have health issues and there are a few bad days and I ask that you are patient. My memory is half shot right now and I love throwing random words where they don't belong or struggling with what I want to say. I didn't use to be like this! I'm gonna need some patience from you and you might need some luck in understanding me if I don't read what I'm typing first!

Your not healthy, why are you looking for a submissive?
I'm truly bored as fuck. I've been medically off for almost 5 years and unable to have a social life. I'm more than able to come up with tasks for you to do as I literally have nothing to do! I miss having that amazing connection with a submissive that I've had before. Since having my surgery two years ago, I feel a little bit better.

As a small request, if we do chat, please do not comment how nice it is to have nothing to do. It sucks.

What I'm Looking For:

☆ A male between 30 and 40 ish. I'm not interested in someone a lot older than me.
☆ If you wish to send photos and videos, you can; however, this is not a mandatory requirement. You do not have to Skype or webcam. Due to my living situation, this isn't an option for me unfortunately. I may send photos once I trust you, I used to love it.
☆ For your likes, at least not have my limits in them. Anything else I'm flexible with, aside from the notes mentioned above.
☆ I will give you tasks and I'm willing to make rules. I'm flexible to what you would be willing. I'm not demanding one type of relationship.
☆ Your time zone does not matter to me, I'm flexible. If you are in a North American time zone, I would love it! It would be nice to have someone on this side of the ocean.
☆ I prefer submissives with at least some experience.
☆ With my hobby of reading, I ask that you offer detailed reports with your best attempt at good grammar. I will understand though if English is not your first language.
☆ You must be willing to talk kink and to be friends. For the first few days, there will zero kink talk or anything. Just friends and building trust! I find this makes the connection so much better.
☆ We can discuss what chat method we will use, I have several.

Don't reply if you are:

-》If you can Never Chat - I want someone who I am able to talk to, which helps build a connection and trust. I do understand if you are busy, although never being able to talk is difficult for me. I'm close to the Eastern time zone. Not quite but close.
-》 If you are not okay with denial. I love denying guys.
-》Begging is perfectly fine. Being over dramatic isn't. There's a very fine line between the two.
-》If you are not okay with pain.
-》 If you do not have any experience.
-》 If you do not answer all the questions!

Questions

Basic Questions

When answering these, remember you want my reply, put the effort in.
1. Are you male? (Why I ask this, I'm unsure really mostly just to confirm that you are )
2. What is your age?
3. Tell me about yourself!
4. Relationship Status?
5. What are you looking for from me?

Kink Related Questions

1. Likes, Dislikes, Limits?
2. What toys do you have? (Don't just tell me household stuff, what are those items that you use. )
3. What experience do you have?
4. Why or what do you enjoy about being submissive?
5. Describe one of your biggest fantasies to me?
6. Here's a role-playing scenario. You choose how to respond to it. It's been 6 months since I've let you cum, how would you beg for me to let you cum OR to deny you further?

Final Questions

1. What is your preferred chat?

2. Any questions you have for me?

Thank you for replying, if your reply is interesting I'll message you!

And yes, I copy and pasted my previous ad since it worked so well and I had all the formatting saved!

[slavelexie]

Incredible Ad Miss Red, well thought out and compelling

[esmond]

Hello sexyred92. I'm a man aged 39 years with a submissive side that surfaces from time to time and draws me to this forum looking for the thrill of submission, either through play but most commonly just by reading and fantasizing. I think I would appreciate chatting and getting to know you. Wouldn't mind trying at least. So here are my answers to your questions:

Male? - yes

Age - 39

About me - Hmm, what to say?.... I would claim to be an intellectual who thrives in solitude except when going to parties to dance or similar.

Relationship status - Single since a few months ago when my gf left me.

What I am looking for from you - I'm mostly intrigued by the prospect of having a 30 /female/dom as one of my acquaintances. See where the chatting goes... But from time to time I am also horny af and would love to submit (of course)....

My likes dislikes and limits - I am masochistic and like to submit and be forced to do tasks without any regard for myself. I like to feel humiliated, degraded or abused. Pain can be a real turn on, especially nipple pain. I get really excited by the thought of blackmail and surrendering.
I dislike anal and other disgusting things. Also not into crossdressing, diapers or similar...
My limits are no permanent, no social suicide, no financial and no interference with my normal daily life and my other life goals.

Toys The toy I most commonly use are clothpins and sometimes some more painful clamps. I have also enjoyed dripping wax candles although that is a bit messy. I also have a thing give myself an enema by slowly filling my inside with quite a large and painful volume of water.

Experience Not too much I'm afraid. I've tried being a webcam slave a few times as well as submitting through kik, sending pictures etc. I've also tried some blackmail dice games but those rarely leads anywhere besides the thrill of giving up control. Noone ever uses the power given to them.

What I enjoy about being submissive - Good question, the thrill I guess and the freedom of not being the controller myself.

One of my biggest fantasies Being a slave IRL, molded into submission through cuffs, threats of pain or what not while being forced to do degrading things for others, such as sucking dick, licking the floor etc. (Dunno if this is my biggest fantasy, but quite big and the only thing I could come up with).

How I would want to cum after 6 months of denial Hmm in some humiliating way, like only through anal stimuli or only by spanking my cock.

preferred chat method, kik: pinkjojje. Skype is also an option

Questions for you My submissive a.k.a perverted side comes and goes from time to time. Sometimes I do not want to engage in any kind of sex. Would this be ok with you?

[camm.slutt]

I would very much love to be your online submissive Miss. Please see the following for your consideration.

1. Are you male? (Why I ask this, I'm unsure really mostly just to confirm that you are )

Yes, I am.

2. What is your age?

38

3. Tell me about yourself!

I’m 6 '1, 180lbs.
In my vanilla life I’m pretty much your average, somewhat nerdy guy. During the summers, I enjoy all things outdoors, especially hiking and camping. When the weather is not quite so consistent you’ll most likely find me on the couch, on my laptop.
I consider myself a gamer, but play drastically less than when I was younger. I enjoy TV and Movies, but a good TV series will always take priority.
I’m a techy, and love all things technical and love to try to figure things out.

4. Relationship Status?

Married with two kids. Very above board with this side of me, within my relationship. Would love for my wife to be my Domme, but she isn’t quite built that way, she’s more than happy to let someone else take that on. Before you ask, no she has no issue with me being denied as long as it doesn’t impact her own orgasms. (she is open to talking to you if there are any concerns here)

5. What are you looking for from me?

Someone to push my boundaries and challenge my limits. Someone to connect with and share the excitement and accomplishment of being able to go that little bit further.
Ultimately, in an online relationship, I am doing things to myself and yes, I could just do that. But it's not the same as when it is all being driven by someone else. I want to yearn to please and make you happy, I am hurting and denying myself for you.

Kink Related Questions
1. Likes, Dislikes, Limits?

Anal - can take fairly large toys and loves to be pushed to take more.
Oral - Not good at deepthroating, but willing to push myself
Bondage - Kinda goes with loss of control.
Torture - including moderate pain. The more I push this, the more I find myself being more of a masochist.
Cbt - have recently developed more of an interest in torturing myself this way.
Sounding - very new to this but the idea of it is a turn on, do have a few instruments
Food Play - Find myself more intrigued with this, especially inserting various things inside myself.
Denial - own a few chastity devices but find them hard to wear long term without developing sores. My preference is denial and to be locked up during play/tasks.
Humiliation - I like to include crossdressing as part of humiliation as I like to be dressed up for the humiliating aspect of it. I also enjoy body writing.
Hidden Public - especially humiliating things like wearing panties or butt plugs under my clothes
Loss of control - somewhat all encompassing but I like to not be in control of what happens to me. This works best with restraints, but I understand that is hard to pull off remotely.
Outdoors - a turn on, but hard to pull off safely.
Games and Chance
I’m very kinky in general and willing to try most things. Really the more “out there” it is, the more the thought of trying it turns me on.

2. What toys do you have? (Don't just tell me household stuff, what are those items that you use. )

I have quite the extensive collection of toys and have picture collages that you can use to pick which ones you would like me to use at any given time. To give you an idea though:
Dildoes - various sizes (including quite large)
Butt Plugs - various sizes (including quite large)
Lovense toys - 5 of them, including the fucking machine
Restraints
Whip
Crop
Cane
Gags
Chastity devices
Sounds
Clamps/Clothspins/Binder Clips
Ball crushers

3. What experience do you have?

I have been serving online Masters and Mistresses online for most of my adult life, plus maybe a bit earlier as well .
Within the past year I have also had a RL Mistress, however we decided to go separate ways earlier this year.

4. Why or what do you enjoy about being submissive?

More than anything, loss of control. I’m very kinky and willing to try most things, but I don’t want to do them for me, I want to do them for you! I get far more enjoyment out of anything I do if I am being told to do it.

5. Describe one of your biggest fantasies to me?

Being pushed to do things that I don’t think I can. Being praised as I try to do it and being praised if I’m able to complete it. I know this is generic, but it can be applied to anything from butt plug sizes, to pain tolerance. I just love to be driven to do more and being praised as I do it, just adds that little bit more.

6. Here's a role-playing scenario. You choose how to respond to it. It's been 6 months since I've let you cum, how would you beg for me to let you cum OR to deny you further?

After 6 months of denial, I imagine cumming would seem more like a pipe dream than an actual real possibility. If you were to present me with the opportunity to cum, there is nothing I wouldn’t do to please you enough to allow it to become a reality. I’d be down on my knees asking you, offering to take mountains of pain for the small possibility of maybe being allowed to orgasm. Despite the effort that I would put in, in the back of my mind I would be thinking that it is too good to be true and there would be no way you would let me. Still, I would do everything I could to try.

Final Questions
1. What is your preferred chat?

I’m open to any, but generally Discord or Kik.

2. Any questions you have for me?

Nothing as it stands Miss, but I’m sure when we are getting to know each other some will come out!

[Balls Slut]

Amazing ad and glad to see you back. Hope you find someone, unfortunately I am a bit younger to apply 😞.

[72alanb]

I sent you a pm as well, but realized you asked not to have pms in your profile so here is what I sent.

Hi, let me just first say that was maybe the best ad I have seen- so well thought out and specific but also not too many unnecessary details. Also, from your ad you seem to be the kind of person I, personally, look for in a dom. To put it plainly, you just seem to be a reasonable person not just obsessively looking for someone to own and use but looking for relationship. I appreciate that.

Now, I’m sure you have probably found someone if not multiple subs by now, but just in case there’s still a chance I will answer your questions.

Questions 1-5
I am a 27 year old submissive, straight male who is single and has been for some time (haha). And yes I noticed I am outside of your listed age range, so I understand if that doesn’t work for you. I have a pretty ordinary life working a 9-5 job. I enjoy being outdoors often in my free time, and I especially enjoy photography (among other hobbies), though I have only acquired a more professional camera within the last year (so I have much to learn). I will say IRL I am a somewhat of a shy, pretty quiet kind of person till you get to know me well; but I think you would find this not to be the case as much online. I’ve really been looking for someone who I can have just an online relationship with but still be friends (like you mentioned)- more than just sub/dom talk. That being said, I am a horny boy who needs his masturbation habits (as well as other things) to be controlled. I consider myself to be a responsible person, but I would hope that you would not just control my orgasms but also punish me when needed to help me be more obedient and just more responsible in life.



Kink Related Questions (it seems our interests don’t perfectly align but you mentioned you are flexible and so am I which I think is perfect so long as we respect each others limits)
1. Likes:
Cum control, edging, spanking, rules, mild humiliation, bondage, pain, pee control (you mentioned bodily fluids as a limit so I understand if that includes this), limited public (such as in a public bathroom stall or not wearing undies in public etc. but nothing obvious in public), I also love games that involve teasing/potential punishments if I win/lose etc.

Dislikes
Most anal (some gentle teasing I do enjoy)
Cum eating (the idea turns me on right up till the act)

Limits?
Nothing directly public (as previously mentioned)
Blood
Permanent damage
Sounding
Family
Findom

2. What toys do you have? (Don't just tell me household stuff, what are those items that you use. )
I have no real toys. What I do use are belts (bondage, spanking), wooden spoons, clothespins, and an electric toothbrush that oddly teases me better than the vibe I previously had.

3. What experience do you have?
I’ve had several short term online experiences as a sub but never lasted more than a few weeks or so. I’m new to actually using getdare but have read for years, but elsewhere doms have always turned out to just want a full time slave to own which is just not what I am looking for. Since you are so into denial it is probably worth mentioning that I am currently used to cumming regularly, but that is part of why I wish to be controlled. My record for denial was about three and a half months last year.

4. Why or what do you enjoy about being submissive?
Just the concept of an act that I do or takes place on my body not fully being my decision but someone else’s (particularly sexually speaking of course) just turns me on! It has ever since I figured out sex and masturbation. Somewhere along the way that spilled over into some other areas not directly related to explicitly sexual acts.

5. Describe one of your biggest fantasies to me?
I’ll try to keep it short because I could write a short story…or a bunch of them haha!
I would have a trusted dom with established relationship and such who would instruct me to show up at a rental vacation home somewhere. I would a list of specific instructions to prepare both myself and the house within an hour or so before she would be arriving as well. I would be required to kneel, naked and bound in front of the door awaiting her arrival at which point she would show me affection but also demand my attention in whatever way brings her pleasure until she is satisfied. Then she would spend hours teasing me, leaving me wondering if I would get to cum or not. She would leave opportunities for me to disobey her. Such as telling me not to move or make a sound while being teased to the edge. Then she would soundly spank me for doing so. Maybe she would let me cum that day or maybe not. Of course I would have arrived already denied for at least a couple weeks. I could go on but I’m sure you get the general idea!

6. Here's a role-playing scenario. You choose how to respond to it. It's been 6 months since I've let you cum, how would you beg for me to let you cum OR to deny you further?
Please I just need to cum so bad! My balls are aching! Is there anything I can do to earn an orgasm? If I need to be punished to be able to cum I’ll understand. Even if you have to punish me all week, but may I please cum soon!?!? Of course my orgasm is up to you though.

Final Questions
1. What is your preferred chat?
Kik (open to something different just not IG or SC)

2. Any questions you have for me?
Do you have a preferred title for yourself or for your subs? Do you want to be called mistress or anything specific or just by your name?

I look forward to hearing from you even if you don’t accept me as your sub; you just seem like the kind of kinky person (if you will) that I would want to talk to/have a relationship with! If you are interested in me as a sub then feel free to ask me any further questions!

[Buttaholic]

It’s good to see you are still active here, Sexyred!
I hope all is good and good luck with your search, you deserve all the good subs ��♥️

[toto75]

What a great ad !
Even though I am mostly a Dom, I loved reading you till the end. It can be easily understood who you are looking for, and I am sure your future sub will have great fun !
I wish you a lot of luck in your search, and a lot of pleasure as a Domme !

[hellotheeeere]

Hello, im 32 And i loved everything you wrote, So i would like to chat with you