Valentine's Day Date

sweetsong · 02-08-2011, 10:48 AM

So there's this guy who really likes me and we've been kind of casually dating. Well, I consider it casually dating. I guess I should make sure things are clear between us at some point.

Anyways, he wants to do something for Valentine's Day. I'm kind of like, "Uhhh. It's weird because everyone will be all lovey and I just think you're a cool person" but I hate rejecting too.

So go out and hope it's not awkward or suggest something else? What could I suggest?

sir_snake1134 · 02-08-2011, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetsong

So there's this guy who really likes me and we've been kind of casually dating. Well, I consider it casually dating. I guess I should make sure things are clear between us at some point.

Anyways, he wants to do something for Valentine's Day. I'm kind of like, "Uhhh. It's weird because everyone will be all lovey and I just think you're a cool person" but I hate rejecting too.

So go out and hope it's not awkward or suggest something else? What could I suggest?

Go on the date, but be in control of the date do the "friend" date (Ie go to a pool hall rather then a movie. Go to a diner rather then a fancy restaurant)

mistress ct · 02-09-2011, 11:17 AM

Invite other people along so it's clear that it's just a night out with friends and not a date

or simply mention that you might invite friends along so he understands that you see it as a friends night out

02-08-2011, 10:48 AM	#1
sweetsong getDare Succubus Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: ♥ In your dreams ♥ Posts: 1,733 Blog Entries: 98	Valentine's Day Date So there's this guy who really likes me and we've been kind of casually dating. Well, I consider it casually dating. I guess I should make sure things are clear between us at some point. Anyways, he wants to do something for Valentine's Day. I'm kind of like, "Uhhh. It's weird because everyone will be all lovey and I just think you're a cool person" but I hate rejecting too. So go out and hope it's not awkward or suggest something else? What could I suggest? __________________ . siggy made by stellz [03:54:06 PM] jamness: ‹@G.J.› She... kisses and stuff... shes weird. [03:54:39 PM] G.J.: ‹@jamness› That seems like normal Sweets to me XD

02-09-2011, 11:17 AM	#3
mistress ct Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 122	Invite other people along so it's clear that it's just a night out with friends and not a date or simply mention that you might invite friends along so he understands that you see it as a friends night out