38/male/sub seeks any age/female/dom in UK

[sparkie]

38/male/sub seeks any age/female/dom in UK

I am 38 m uk, submissive looking for a mistress, preferably UK based to own and control me as much as possible. I am based in Herts/London but looking predominantly for online at least at the outset.

It is important to mention up front that I am married and she doesn't know (that I am here, or that I am submissive). I appreciate this isn't for everyone. She is completely vanilla and cannot give me the ownership and control I desire. Someone that is willing and able to work with this and take ownership still is ideal

I am incredibly open minded with few limits (no permanent marking, nothing illegal, and nothing that affects my family). Otherwise I am willing to obey instructions and orders, although appreciation of any limits I discover would be good

I have tried this before and learnt that I am a nervous learner so someone willing to be patient and help me explore my submissiveness would be ideal, as would someone happy to progress slowly with me.

I use kik or skype to communicate, and will show pictures / video / camera on these platforms. I would be willing to meet in person if we get to that stage of relationship.

in terms of what I am looking for, I am open minded. a mistress that understands my situation and can work with it would be ideal, although I am happy to be as flexible as possible and work with her to ensure I give her appropriate service and dedication. I am happy to abide by her interests and do what I am told to do, but would appreciate her considering and respecting my limits.

If anyone is interested in discussing further, I am happy to answer any and all questions. My kik and skype name is sparkie_23