09-18-2016, 10:02 AM | #1 |
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41/female/sub seeks 21+/any sex/dom in any location
Note: this ad is closed.
Hello everyone! I haven’t been around here much lately, but I’m looking again. (: I always get so nervous/shy about this! If you are…
If you want…
If you will spend time with me to...
Things I don’t really care about: Experience level, age (over 20), gender/sex, appearance, mild-extreme kink levels. *Note about happy: I need for you to be a reasonably happy person. I have a very strong drive to make my dommy happy. If they are not a happy person in general I feel like Sisyphus trying to make someone happy that can not be made happy. It is okay to be down every now and then, but domming me should be an outlet, not an obligation, it should be fun for both of us. Particularly if I am doing something that is very hard for me (like denial) and I don't feel like it is appreciated, arousing, or making my Dom happy I start to get resentful. This also means that not only should you get excited and be happy about it, but be very good at expressing that! Experience Level: I have a lot of experience, in online and offline play. I really don’t care how much experience you have though. What I do care about is that you are engaged enough to do research on new ideas, wanting to learn with me, and that you are creative enough to make that fun. I really really enjoy how kink and d/s is a brand new adventure every time, because the dynamic and experiences are so different depending on the two people involved, so I don’t go into any of these thinking I know what is going to happen, and I find that really enjoyable! Kink Compatibility Check Loves Giving up control. I would describe this as my primary kink. I’m very happy when I’m asking for permission. Something about giving up control, in all the gazillion ways it can happen, is very arousing to me. It is also calming, and relieves stress, and makes me feel happy! Experiencing discomfort for the joy/arousal of my dom/me. I am a mild masochist. Mild pain or discomfort really gets me leaking and throbby! Trying and experiencing new things. This is less of a arousal thing, and more of a life joy thing. I love being surprised, and overcoming doubts when trying new things. Mild/hidden public. Again more of a joy thing. I have done a lot of this and always do it with child-like glee! Teasing. Unnnnggg. My longest ongoing kink. I love being in the middle of a session (or task) and being teased and teased, and having no idea if/when I will get to cum. I love getting to that point of desperation where I’m almost in tears and being out of control of the outcome. Nipple play/Nipple pain. Yummmmyyyyy, also one of my most longest, strongest kinks. My nipples are super sexual for me. Spanking. I think this explains itself, and I have a good collection of implements. Little Girl Play. I don’t really actually regress (I basically am always kind of silly and playful and child-like), but I love child-like tasks, and being talked to as if I’m too little to know better. I have called several past dommies “daddy” at this point too, and I like it! I don’t like this in an “incest” context (I didn’t call my own father “daddy”), I like it in a control context, and in a lot of ways this kind of play makes me feel very calm and subby and cared for. Likes (this is just examples, not an exhaustive list, I am super open to lots of things, just ask me if I've missed something important to you):
Dislikes (punishments): cold, crawling/kneeling (longer than like 30 minutes), toothpaste, writing lines, extreme pain, long (over an hour or two) vaginal insertions, long butt plug wearing, messy Limits: normal stuff + blackmail, poo, and sleeping on the floor. Possibly high heels. Pictures and cam are in my limits until I say they are not (I have ended up sharing pictures with almost every one of my play partners, it just has to happen on my terms). Things that just won’t work: 24/7 or total control. Intense clothing control, shaving my hair, and anyone with a very focused single-minded fetish. Other little details:
Interested? Please don't be shy about sending a message! If you are interested, please send me a good PM explaining our compatibilities/incompatibilities, a bit about you, and what you are looking for. My mom is in town right now, so I don’t have a lot of time, but it usually takes a while to get good responses after posting an ad anyway. My plan is to read through responses (and hopefully reply) Thursday after work and Friday (or maybe next weekend?) Thank you so much for reading my long ad, I hope you enjoyed it, even if I’m not what you’re looking for. (I’m also really hoping to find someone awesome!) Last edited by Happy Me; 11-25-2016 at 09:12 PM. |
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09-18-2016, 02:03 PM | #2 |
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Great ad... It's not a surprise it's in the top advertisements section.
Ah, too bad I have a boyfriend. He doesn't want to be involved, and he is monogamous with me (and vanilla). He has given me permission to be in a relationship with a woman, not men. And he doesn't want to know the details. He knows I am faithful and trustworthy. I understand that is your requirement and I respect that. Honestly, I would be scared that I wouldn't be enough for you, or just what you need, even though I know how nurturing, understanding, and wonderful you are from your ad. I want to encourage those who are wonderful as well to respond at once. No second guessing here folks. You don't want it to be someone else when it could be you. Don't rely on next time. This time could last a lifetime. Respectfully, Joanna Last edited by Joan Sky; 09-18-2016 at 02:05 PM. |
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09-18-2016, 02:36 PM | #4 |
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Such a beautiful and detailed ad. I do hope you find the person you are looking for.
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You don't have to be mad, but sometimes it helps. Looking for an on line partner for interesting games and disgusting conversations. Limits: Cbt, Anal. Pain. Poo. Family. Pics for the right person. |
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