Is it safe?

[nellybell]

So you find yourself in the mood to be on the receiving end of some dares. You come to this lovely site and make a thread in the TORD Online section. Some of the answers you get are great, well thought out, detailed and exactly what you asked for. Most impartanly they take into account your personal safety. Kudos to the smart darer.

However you also receive some dares that aren't so good and you aren't so sure if they are as safe as the others. You're newer on the site, no one to really ask and afraid to say anything on the thread because the darer might be mad or insulted.

The TORD Online section isn't scrutinized as much as the dare section is, there are just so many dares being posted in different threads at once. There isn't a high chance that someone will step in and point out the safety issue. So what can you do?

This thread is for just this problem. Feel free to post here asking questions about dares you have received that might be a little less than safe or if you're unsure about something. If you don't feel comfortable posting out here in the open, you are more than welcome to shoot me a PM and I'll be sure to get back to you. If I don't know the answer I'll find someone who does. :3

*Please also remeber that you are always free to refuse a dare that you are not comfortable with or one that asks you for pictures or cam. Requesting pictures/cam is against the site rules and can be reported by clicking on the little red triangle below the avatar picture. Please don't ever be afraid to report something.*

[nellybell]

So, along with this being open for questions of safety I figured I would also add in little issues that I see pop up in dares. Here is the latest one.


So I came across this link while I was looking through some of the adds. I believe it was darkwater that posted it in response to a dare involving trying to keep soap in someone's vigina for some period of time. (thanks so much for the link :3) I saw a similar dare somewhere recently but I can't remeber quite where it is. If someone comes across it please link this on there too.

http://www.helpingteens.org/articles...-a-friend.html

This link gives good avice on general vaginal health and risks associated with using certain cleaning products. These are things that I don't think many women are aware of and could be benifical just in general not just for dares involving things.

[Darkwater]

Yeah, i posted twice about it in response to someone daring it (i think it was the same person in both threads actually). Can't even remember where i learned about it, but it's definitely a good thing to add to a list like this.

There is also this Dare PSA posted in the dare section a few days ago, contains some good and relevant information too

[nellybell]

Originally Posted by Darkwater

Yeah, i posted twice about it in response to someone daring it (i think it was the same person in both threads actually). Can't even remember where i learned about it, but it's definitely a good thing to add to a list like this.

There is also this Dare PSA posted in the dare section a few days ago, contains some good and relevant information too

Oh thank goodness. I was kicking myself because I couldn't remeber where it was and I had had doubts about it but was a little too tired to go looking x.x

You beat me to posting that on here I was going to post that next just didn't quite hop on it tonight.

But yeah, the above link also has good practical information about somethings people just might forget about or over look when thinking of a dare.

[Darkwater]

Originally Posted by nellybell

Oh thank goodness. I was kicking myself because I couldn't remeber where it was and I had had doubts about it but was a little too tired to go looking x.x

Haha, no problem. I thought about posting it in the Dare PSA topic but i hadn't come around to it. So i was pleasantly surprised when i saw your post

Relayer makes a good point too. Above all make sure you feel good about a dare before doing it, there is absolutely no obligation to do something you don't feel good about (even if it falls within you likes!)

[Relayer]

I would hope that people realise that this is, after all, just a website.

You're under no obligation to ever do any dares - even if you say you'll do anything. Nobody will come round your house and shoot your dog if you don't.

So, apply common sense. If you do something stupid because someone dared you to, and it kills you or otherwise causes you harm, then frankly you've nobody but yourself to blame. Common sense people. Don't be an idiot.

[nellybell]

Well, the point of this thread is sort of to advise on things that aren't quite common knowledge. Things that don't sound particularly dangerous but you still have some doubts about.

What it seems to sort of be turning to is also to give some common sense to people who are very new to this and don't know. A lot of the stuff on here isn't common knowledge outside of your little world so newer members could fall victim to stupid dares that they don't know could be dangerous. People can be blind to things sometimes.

[Relayer]

Originally Posted by nellybell

Well, the point of this thread is sort of to advise on things that aren't quite common knowledge. Things that don't sound particularly dangerous but you still have some doubts about.

What it seems to sort of be turning to is also to give some common sense to people who are very new to this and don't know. A lot of the stuff on here isn't common knowledge outside of your little world so newer members could fall victim to stupid dares that they don't know could be dangerous. People can be blind to things sometimes.

I wasn't at all suggesting that this thread was pointless - to the contrary I feel it's a good idea to have a thread where people can go "Uhh, is this safe?" I just felt it necessary to point out that you're never obligated to do anything, and that you are responsible for your own safety. People can sometimes have the mentality of "Well, I was dared to, so I have to do it now."

[NesseTheToker]

I saw this pic of a woman in self bondage who was soaking wet and had a fan blowing on her, so that she was cold and there was nothing she could do about it.

Is that safe? Because I'd love to incorporate that into my scenarios.

[sm_limb]

Originally Posted by NesseTheToker

I saw this pic of a woman in self bondage who was soaking wet and had a fan blowing on her, so that she was cold and there was nothing she could do about it.

Is that safe? Because I'd love to incorporate that into my scenarios.

This prob not safe. As the wind helps evaporate the water and that will use heat from your body. Same thing as on hot day you get out of pool and a wind blows you get cold. But if you do that too long you may have a change of getting too cold and bodythemp drops too far

[jacobgreene]

Hey I thought I'd ask this. How safe is it to put ice cubes in your butt? I know a lot of them at the same time could reduce body temperature, but I'm guessing only a couple is okay?

Also, how safe is ass-to-mouth? I'm not talking about eating poop, more like sucking on a finger after it's been in there, and apart from getting an STD, 'cause I don't have any.

Thanks!

[nellybell]

For the ice cubes, as long as you aren't constantly replacing them for long periods of time, you should be fine. It really shouldn't be enough to reduce your core temperature to dangerous levels. If you start to shiver when you are usually warm then it may be close to stopping time.

One thing though, when putting in ice cubes be sure that there aren't any sharp corners on them and they aren't straight out of the freezer. Sharp edges and anal do not mix. Also fresh out of the freezer ice cubes tend to stick to warm/wet skin and ripping it off of the skin could cause damage especially around the anus where skin is fragile.

As for anal to mouth, just don't. All kinds of bacteria and other things of ick are found in it and could possibly make you ill. Scat is the bodies waste, it is leaving the body for a reason.

[jacobgreene]

Thanks for the answer, nelly.

[JaysonClaims]

I think this is perfectly safe and will probably sound dumb asking, but I have to do a dare that requires me to save up my cum for about a week then eat it.

Obviously it's safe to eat cum during a one time dare, or during sex, but is it like food going bad if you save it?

Thanks!

[revealed]

Is giving yourself an enema with a shower head removed safe... Just wondering because of the force of the water that comes out, knowing when to stop etc