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12-13-2022, 07:30 AM | #1 |
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Sub qualities
I've seen people talking about Dom qualities, they need to be empathetic, patient, etc etc but what about Sub qualities ? What are traits and behaviors that make a good Sub, or that you personally (taste, subjective) appreciate in a Sub ?
I was thinking after pin pointing such qualities, I would make a thread asking if people could tell which ones they think they have and which they might be lacking. |
12-13-2022, 07:58 AM | #2 |
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Communicative
Open Self-respecting (e.g. will push back when limits are being broken / things aren't safe) Respectful
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12-13-2022, 02:31 PM | #3 |
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Either you haven't dealt with a brat before but a little shit or you have little to no experience with genuine brats or very few... I do not break being respectful and yet I am a brat. Please don't generalize. We get enough bad rep that we are bad submissives, disrespectful etc. Back on topic... Note: This is only what I personally look for in a sub (and I am not looking) Honesty Willing to communicate Willing to at least try things (Not limits obviously.) Humorous. Self aware Bratty (Not disobedient/disrespectful) Able to talk outside of kink Open to friendship first Submissive not a doormat Will say if there is an issue (Guess that falls under communication) Loyalty
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12-14-2022, 02:45 AM | #4 | |
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06-26-2023, 09:13 PM | #5 |
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I think it depends a lot on the kind of top you have. But for me empathy is very important for subs as well as doms. Being happy because your partner is happy makes everything click a lot faster. Also being comfortable in the role is huge. For me at least that's something I still struggle with. But not running away from how good it feels to be dominated is something I still try to get better at.
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07-07-2023, 09:50 AM | #6 |
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I'll echo others. Communication and clarity. I look for someone who has the same values as me. I think a sub should be learning about kinks as much as dom as well. It's very important to know the risks with different kinks in order to give informed consent
There's mostly just red flags that I have to weed out more than green flags tbh
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