Former Full Time Sissy Maid: Ask Me Anything!

[FormerSissyMaid]

Hello everybody,

As the title says, I am a former full time sissy maid for a beautiful kinky mistress. I finally made an account after approximately 6 years of lurking around (with breaks of course). Ask me anything you want to know: about the life of a sub, or just anything personal. I hope I can answer all of you questions and I hope I can paint a good image of what a sissy maid's life (at least mine) is about.

PS: You may call me Candi (which was my sissy maid name).

[beof95]

Were you shaved all the time?
How did you stop you skin form braking out, especialy the pubic area?
Were you in chastity 24/7?

[FormerSissyMaid]

Were you shaved all the time?

Yes. Technically I was waxed. Below the eyebrows, I was hairless.

How did you stop you skin form braking out, especialy the pubic area?

Personally, I didn't have too much trouble with it. I would just recommend to moisturize as much as possible. Try to find out what works for you and what doesn't. For example, I had this moisturizer that had a certain thing in there that I had a bad reaction to, so I did not use that one again. It is a bit of a trial and error, but just keep going through it. It will be worth it!

Were you in chastity 24/7?

Absolutely! Fun fact, I didn't even have a single orgasm in my servitude.

Thank you for the questions @beof95. If you have more, feel free to ask

[generaterox]

What do you do on an average day as a sissy maid? Can we have a timeline from when you wake up till you go to bed on a normal day?

[FormerSissyMaid]

Originally Posted by generaterox

What do you do on an average day as a sissy maid? Can we have a timeline from when you wake up till you go to bed on a normal day?

Of course you can! I will try to be as detailed as possible without it becoming a long boring read!:

6:00: I wake up. Immediately I would kneel in front of the mirror in my room and repeat my mantras for 5 minutes approximately. After this, I get ready for the day. Getting dressed up, making sure my asspussy is clean and plugged again, making sure there isn't a single hair on my body, making sure my make-up is perfect etc.

6:45: I start making breakfast for Mistress and serve it on her bed. Next I lay out her outfit for the day and leave. Next I make breakfast for myself.

7:15: I start with my chores and tasks for the day. These tasks and chores varied from cleaning the house to licking all her shoes clean. They varied from just normal things to absolutely humiliating and degrading things. I would do everything in the house from cooking to the laundry etc.

20:00: Every evening between 20:00 and 21:00 I got a 1 hour break. In this time, I could do what I want (with exceptions of course, like jerking off), but it was expected I did something to increase my devotion or becoming a better sissy. Think about researching new make-up routines or training my asspussy.

21:00: I would have to serve Mistress drinks as she watched TV. This was often the most boring part of the day as I would just wait for her to ask me for a drink or a snack and that was it. I wasn't allowed to watch TV with her and had to wait in the kitchen.

22:00: At 22:00 I was relieved of my duty and could get ready for bed. This usually took around 30 minutes.

This was basically my day. Thank you for asking. If you have more questions, feel free to ask!

[Clueless1]

Can I ask of this impacted your relationship with friends/family?
Do you miss being a fulltime maid?

[FormerSissyMaid]

Originally Posted by Clueless1

Can I ask of this impacted your relationship with friends/family?
Do you miss being a fulltime maid?

Can I ask of this impacted your relationship with friends/family?

Of course you can! On my friends it had quite a significant impact as I barely spoke with them anymore. I was just busy serving. But on the other hand, I made quite a few new friends through the kink. I now am in contact with some old friends again, but I don't think it will ever be the same again.

On my family it has less of an impact. I kept the lifestyle well hidden from them and still visited them the same amount as before. Maybe a bit less. However, to keep up appearances, my Mistress and I decided it would be best to introduce her as my 'girlfriend' (it still feels wrong). That was a bit of an issue though, as I was merely 20 when we started and she was well her in the higher and of her 30's. Little did they know that what was going on.

Do you miss being a fulltime maid?

Overall, I would say yes, I miss it. Don't get me wrong, I am happy that I am not at the moment, but I miss it quite a bit. I enjoy helping people and as a sissy maid it is what you do all day. I also miss the lack of worrying. We all worry quite a bit. What am I going to do? Am I gonna pass this test? Do I have enough money? Does this girl like me? Etc. As a sissy maid, I didn't had this. Everything was just decided for me. I just had to follow and as a sub that is very liberating. Of course, I would worry about things. For example going public as a sissy or being fucked for the first time. The thing is, it was all out of my control and that was liberating.

Thank you for the questions. If you have more, feel free to ask!

[frgla]

Loved to hear that you did not have a single orgasm during your service. Really enjoying your detailed answers, so I have quite a few questions:

What kind of cage did you wear?
Did it make your nub shrink over time?
How long did you stay without orgasm?
How often have you been having orgasms since the end of your service?
How many hours were you plugged for every day and how big was it / what was the biggest one after training that stayed in you throughout the day?
Can you list a few examples of everyday sort of things you had to ask permission for and how did this work while mistress was at work?
What were some of the most humiliating and degrading tasks you had to complete?

[FormerSissyMaid]

Originally Posted by frgla

Loved to hear that you did not have a single orgasm during your service. Really enjoying your detailed answers, so I have quite a few questions:

What kind of cage did you wear?
Did it make your nub shrink over time?
How long did you stay without orgasm?
How often have you been having orgasms since the end of your service?
How many hours were you plugged for every day and how big was it / what was the biggest one after training that stayed in you throughout the day?
Can you list a few examples of everyday sort of things you had to ask permission for and how did this work while mistress was at work?
What were some of the most humiliating and degrading tasks you had to complete?

Thank you for the compliment. I hope I can answer your questions just as well.

What kind of cage did you wear?

I wore the holytrainer. First I started with the normal size and then a size smaller. It was comfortable to wear and did what it had to do! Towards the end we were planning to go smaller, but that never materialized.

Did it make your nub shrink over time?

I could go into smaller chastity if that is what you mean, but it didn't permanently shrink it. To do that, you really need to be on hormones I think.

How long did you stay without orgasm?

We started in December 2018 and my service ended in October 2020. During that time I was locked without an orgasm. Of course, I got milked regularly (to keep my prostate healthy), but that wasn't pleasurable. That felt like being edged over and over again, but worse.

How often have you been having orgasms since the end of your service?

I don't know exactly. Probably like once a week now? And before once every two weeks? It still feels a bit wrong though.


How many hours were you plugged for every day and how big was it / what was the biggest one after training that stayed in you throughout the day?

From April 2019 to October 2020 I was plugged 24/7. Before, I was training to be able to wear it all the time. I always wore the metal plug with jewels and at the end I was wearing one of the biggest ones on the market. Thats also the biggest one that a wore 24 hours straight. I wore some bigger plugs though and some still scare me a bit, but that was for a few hours max. The goal of the plug also wasn't to ruined my asspussy but to keep me aware of the situation (which it did perfectly).

Can you list a few examples of everyday sort of things you had to ask permission for and how did this work while mistress was at work?

I actually never had to ask permission for things accept for extraordinary situations. I knew very well what was allowed and what wasn't, and if I asked it was mostly just a curtesy. For example, when servicing Mistress and I had to go to the bathroom, I had to ask. I knew she would never decline (and never did), but is was merely to inform her that I would leave for a bit. When she was at work, I just did my thing.

What were some of the most humiliating and degrading tasks you had to complete?

There are too many to choice from, but I'll give you a nice one:

One time, my Mistress hosted a small fetish party. She invited a hand full of other friends who also had subs (she was part of a community). I had to dress up in sexy lingerie and the other subs were allowed to fuck me. I was ridiculed all the time as they used me. Some of the subs came on my face and then the Mistresses decided I was dirty. They decided I had to get washed, but not in the normal way. The pushed me outside into the back garden while it was raining heavily. I felt so low as I was getting colder and colder. My Mistress payed a lot of attention to me and after a few minutes I was allowed back inside. But I was completely soaked and felt really humiliated. Especially as I had to thank the other Mistresses for the treatment.

If you have more questions, feel free to ask

[Elijiah]

Tell us a bit about how you got into sissy and at what age you moved up in terms of doing things(mention how you evolved) and what age were you full sissy maid and now what you're planning to do next

[FormerSissyMaid]

Originally Posted by Elijiah

Tell us a bit about how you got into sissy and at what age you moved up in terms of doing things(mention how you evolved) and what age were you full sissy maid and now what you're planning to do next

Happily! Around the age of 14 I started to get curious about things and decided to try on female underwear, which felt really really good. Of course, being 14 and a bit confused (wasn't it gay or something) I started to explore things and quickly got hooked on sissy porn etc. It gradually grew. I wore panties more often (bought some myself) and started to explore things. Till I left for university is stayed that way and got into contact with some kinky people in the area where I moved to. I started to get more and more interested in kink and my Mistress took a liking to me. We started to 'play' and things got more fun after that. I quit my study, because I really did not like it. I started to work and my Mistress and I played more and more. At some point, she mentioned she wouldn't mind having me around all the time and as the job I had did not pay well and the rent was quite high, I agreed. After all, I enjoyed being a sissy for her. I continued to work for quite some time while being a sissy in the free time. After a while Mistress suggested I quit as she earned more than enough money and she would take care of me financially if we ever decided we wouldn't continue (which she did). After thinking about it, I agreed. I was 20 when I became a full time sissy.

For the future, I really don't know. For now, I am studying something new and really enjoy it. I still entertain the thought of being a sissy maid again, but I don't know how things will develop. I guess only time will tell. For now, I am happy where I am.

If you want to know more, feel free to ask!

[FormerSissyMaid]

Anybody who still have questions?

[Beginnersh]

Lovely responses so far. Some stuff I'm curious about:

What kind of outfits did you wear?
Did you always wear the same outfit when performing maid duties, or did it vary?

How did you end up meeting your mistress and other kinky people?
Why did you stop being a maid?

Are there any rules from being a maid that you still follow without noticing/realising?

[CutieGurlTaylor]

You lived the dream of so many people, I love hearing all your answers.

What did your daily mantras include?

Did your Mistress peg you often or just milk you?

If your Mistress had sex with another guy were you made to watch or clean up after them?

Did you ever have to listen to any hypnosis files to train your mind?

[FormerSissyMaid]

Originally Posted by Beginnersh

Lovely responses so far. Some stuff I'm curious about:

What kind of outfits did you wear?
Did you always wear the same outfit when performing maid duties, or did it vary?

How did you end up meeting your mistress and other kinky people?
Why did you stop being a maid?

Are there any rules from being a maid that you still follow without noticing/realising?

Thank you for the questions. I hope I can answer them well.

What kind of outfits did you wear?

The sissy dresses. I believe the were from thesissystore, not certain about it.

Did you always wear the same outfit when performing maid duties, or did it vary?

In the end I had I think 8 different dresses. Some were quite modest, some quite long and some quite revealing. Two of them were PVC and the others where satin. I would rotate wearing them.

How did you end up meeting your mistress and other kinky people?

In the new city I moved to there was a bar which once in a while had meetings for kinky people. This wasn't like you expect though. It was really relaxed and you could just talk to each other. This was not a place to express kink but to talk about it. My Mistress saw I was a bit unsure and started talking to me and things grew from there. All the other kinky people I met, I met through her. She would introduce me to new people.

Why did you stop being a maid?

The main reason is that I am still young. I did not experience a lot in life yet and had different dreams as well. I knew I wanted to give university another try and knew that if I didn't do it now, I wouldn't do it anymore. I discussed this with my Mistress as well and she urged me to do it as well, as she wants the best for me.

Are there any rules from being a maid that you still follow without noticing/realising?

Probably. I don't pay attention to it, but I probably am a lot more submissive then before. Agree much quicker etc. But the thing is, the large majority of the rules in that relationship shouldn't be applied in life in general. Sure the rhythm part is really good and I still have that, but many aspects do not benefit you, so I tried to cut that out. Things like, not speaking unless spoken too etc.

Originally Posted by kg69

You lived the dream of so many people, I love hearing all your answers.

What did your daily mantras include?

Did your Mistress peg you often or just milk you?

If your Mistress had sex with another guy were you made to watch or clean up after them?

Did you ever have to listen to any hypnosis files to train your mind?

I probably lived their dream, but for 99% of the people that dream about it, it would be a nightmare. It isn't as glamorous as you think. It is hard work and most of the time not as pleasing as you think. You really need to enjoy servitude to do this.

What did your daily mantras include?

Everyday I repeated the following mantra for 5 minutes (aprox.) (translated of course :P)

I am a sissy maid and my job is to serve. I will not complain, I will not slack, I will not waste Mistress (name) time. My goal is to make Mistress' life easy and will try to do my best to achieve this. I will do what Mistress says, when she says it, who she says it, and where she says it. I will happily humiliate and degrade myself. I will work hard and will be the perfect sissy maid. All that matters is what Mistress (name) wants.

(I left the name of my mistress out, because I don't know if she would like if I said her name).

Did your Mistress peg you often or just milk you?

Pegging was a huge reward. It did not happen often at all! I honestly think I have been fucked more often than I was pegged. I was milked every 1,5-2 weeks dependent on Mistress' mood.

If your Mistress had sex with another guy were you made to watch or clean up after them?

Never. I have never seen Mistress naked, nor did I ever watch or cleaned up. The nudest I ever say Mistress was in a bikini. The closest I got to that, was cleaning Mistress' room after she had a man over :P.

Did you ever have to listen to any hypnosis files to train your mind?

Not really. Mistress wasn't really into it and neither was I. It didn't help either (not that I needed it). We decided that we could spent time better then that. An hour more cleaning per day had a bigger impact that the hypnosis ever would.

Thank you both for the questions and if you have more, feel free to ask!