Favourite site to meet kinky people

andrew_b · 08-16-2020, 02:55 PM

What is your favourite site to go to meet kinky people?

poetrylover828 · 08-17-2020, 09:38 AM

I didn't get a chance to actually go to any but Fetlife makes it super easy to find munches/events. I am not comfortable with meeting someone alone (even within a public space it makes me super nervous) so I was working up to getting myself to a munch before the lockdown. Once everything has calmed down a little more and I move I plan to get to a munch or two.

zephyrnem · 08-17-2020, 01:00 PM

I have been pissed since Craigslist went down. Nothing seems right for me. Fetlife and sometimes even getdare are loaded up with cliques or groups that say they are open, but wind up being puritanical just not about sex.

If anyone knows of a simple site with a lot of participation and few rules...would love to hear of it.

Kisune Karnon · 08-26-2020, 03:15 PM

I used to meet people on kink.com in the chat rooms, however I no longer go there as the platform has changed for the worse. I would go onto myfreecams or any of those other types, but again it's no longer an option. The only places are here, kinktalk or the faproulette shared chat.

NoWayOut · 09-05-2020, 12:31 PM

Faproulette shared chat, that one has actually changed for the better since Anons can’t type anymore^^

amethyst353 · 09-10-2020, 10:40 PM

Discord - I am always on discord so it's easier to keep up with. I even run a server as part of my job, so being able to just switch over to my folder of adult servers is something I can do even while at work which is something I wouldn't do on something like gd

Switch528 · 09-11-2020, 11:01 AM

I would have to vote for Fetlife as well. Collarme used to be good too then it went through some changes and it doesn't seem to be the same.

Scrap · 09-11-2020, 01:42 PM

I use FetLife to find events, munches, and venues to go to in order to meet people IN PERSON (oh, the humanity!!!). SLS and AFF are other sites I have heard used, and xHamster has a "dating" section that at least lets you know who MIGHT be in the area.

08-16-2020, 02:55 PM	#1
andrew_b getDare Cultist (Outer Circle) Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 11,063 Blog Entries: 20	Favourite site to meet kinky people What is your favourite site to go to meet kinky people? __________________ *Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017* My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s)

08-17-2020, 09:38 AM	#2
poetrylover828 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: US Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 4	I didn't get a chance to actually go to any but Fetlife makes it super easy to find munches/events. I am not comfortable with meeting someone alone (even within a public space it makes me super nervous) so I was working up to getting myself to a munch before the lockdown. Once everything has calmed down a little more and I move I plan to get to a munch or two. __________________ Likes: rope play, spanking and other forms of light impact play Limits: anal, piss, scat, video, pics, permanent damage Don’t send me messages asking to help with your dare or help you shop. If I want to take parts in dares I will. If you need someone to pick out the things you are buying then you don’t need to being doing dares. I'm not looking for a partner.

08-17-2020, 01:00 PM	#3
zephyrnem getDare Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Iowa / Illinois Posts: 2,072 Blog Entries: 35	I have been pissed since Craigslist went down. Nothing seems right for me. Fetlife and sometimes even getdare are loaded up with cliques or groups that say they are open, but wind up being puritanical just not about sex. If anyone knows of a simple site with a lot of participation and few rules...would love to hear of it. __________________ PM Dares Likes: exhibitionism, forced stripping, feet, humiliation, piss, mild to moderate pain, light xdress, tickling, mud, food, messy, dunking of all kinds, bondage, oral, anal, part time slavery Limits: scat, hard pain, blood, family, obvious/stupid public. Toys: Ball gag, plug, clothespins Clothes: Fishnet body suit, swimsuit (women’s), thong, leotard. Currently seeking Master or exhibitionist female to serve.

08-26-2020, 03:15 PM	#4
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,192 Blog Entries: 7	I used to meet people on kink.com in the chat rooms, however I no longer go there as the platform has changed for the worse. I would go onto myfreecams or any of those other types, but again it's no longer an option. The only places are here, kinktalk or the faproulette shared chat. __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.

09-05-2020, 12:31 PM	#5
NoWayOut Distinguished Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: Germany Posts: 864 Blog Entries: 9	Faproulette shared chat, that one has actually changed for the better since Anons can’t type anymore^^ __________________ Lightze's PM dares are open again! M/24/straight/Germany Kik: Pm me My Toys / PM Dares Likes, Dislikes, Limits and ❤ Poodle Adventures, a gamebook style dare

09-10-2020, 10:40 PM	#6
amethyst353 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2016 Posts: 498 Blog Entries: 16	Discord - I am always on discord so it's easier to keep up with. I even run a server as part of my job, so being able to just switch over to my folder of adult servers is something I can do even while at work which is something I wouldn't do on something like gd __________________ 32\|bi(prefers women)\|trans woman\|sub-leaning switch formerly known as marissa353 loves: humiliation, gags, bodywriting, bondage, games limits: pics with face, messing with sleep, public, heavy blackmail, videos, permanent, scat, extreme pain Note: I transitioned years ago - wearing women's clothes isn't a dare. If you give me a sissy-themed dare, I will ignore you. Full likes/limits \| Toys/Items I Own \| PM Dares (friends only for a bit) \| My current rules

09-11-2020, 11:01 AM	#7
Switch528 Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: PA Posts: 538 Blog Entries: 6	I would have to vote for Fetlife as well. Collarme used to be good too then it went through some changes and it doesn't seem to be the same. __________________ Likes/Limits/Rules Full PM Dare List Vote on my punishment https://writeforme.org/task/5fed361f07432e0c54e10af6

09-11-2020, 01:42 PM	#8
Scrap Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: US Posts: 725 Blog Entries: 34	I use FetLife to find events, munches, and venues to go to in order to meet people IN PERSON (oh, the humanity!!!). SLS and AFF are other sites I have heard used, and xHamster has a "dating" section that at least lets you know who MIGHT be in the area. __________________ Scrap D Flasher 49/gf(m)/US/pan/sub Likes: nudity, public, watersports, humiliation, cross dressing, bondage Limits: illegal, social suicide, scat, blood, young AMA: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=293024 kik: scrapdflasher snapchat: scrapdflasher