help me cum

CombedThunderclap · 01-25-2024, 02:19 AM

I think that if somebody struggles to orgasm, putting on more effort to "reach the goal at all cost" usually brings to the opposite effects: the more you try to cum, the less you relax and actually enjoy what's happening "here and now", the more orgasms (and even edges) may become elusive...

So, i'd suggest that you take, as counterintuitive as it may seem, the opposite route. At least for now...

It could work like that: from now on, and until further notice (or if you prefer, setting an end date in advance, so we can make a debrief on the overall experience) you're denied to cum.

(I know, I know: what's the point of forbidding something that you can't do, even if you'd want? The point is that it takes away any pressure and/or performance anxiety, and it leaves only the pleasure of exploration)

If you agree, you could then come back to the generous community of GD, asking for masturbation tasks/dares/challenges involving your likes (or things you may want to explore), so that you can have some fun, maybe discover something new about yourself and your body, and hopefully reconnect with your "pleasure muscles"...

What do you think of it?

01-25-2024, 02:19 AM	#3
CombedThunderclap getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2023 Location: Northern Italy Posts: 404	I think that if somebody struggles to orgasm, putting on more effort to "reach the goal at all cost" usually brings to the opposite effects: the more you try to cum, the less you relax and actually enjoy what's happening "here and now", the more orgasms (and even edges) may become elusive... So, i'd suggest that you take, as counterintuitive as it may seem, the opposite route. At least for now... It could work like that: from now on, and until further notice (or if you prefer, setting an end date in advance, so we can make a debrief on the overall experience) you're denied to cum. (I know, I know: what's the point of forbidding something that you can't do, even if you'd want? The point is that it takes away any pressure and/or performance anxiety, and it leaves only the pleasure of exploration) If you agree, you could then come back to the generous community of GD, asking for masturbation tasks/dares/challenges involving your likes (or things you may want to explore), so that you can have some fun, maybe discover something new about yourself and your body, and hopefully reconnect with your "pleasure muscles"... What do you think of it? __________________ Polimorphous perverse. Loves: kinky girls who love to put themselves in embararssing situations for my (and their) amusement, and are willing to write about it; masturbation; orgasm denial; ruined orgasms; enf; watersports; feet; grool; spanking; hidden public; unusual pussy insertions; anal stretching; mild (or not so mild) torture; nipple play; humiliation; and so on... (You may send me a PM, if you wish so. I may not read and/or answer, tho)