Relationship Problems

slutpup · 04-20-2011, 08:07 PM

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me but I don't know how to ask him without him thinking I don't trust him. Advice anyone?

silverwall · 04-20-2011, 08:08 PM

That's a hard one. Why do you suspect that he is cheating on you?

slutpup · 04-20-2011, 08:11 PM

He's always hanging around with this other girl and never talks to me anymore.

silverwall · 04-20-2011, 08:18 PM

Good clue. To be honest I can only think of three ways to find out.
1. Ask mutual friends that you are closer too (than him).
2. Spy on him.
3. Directly ask him. I think that no mater how you phrase it or what he might think it may be something that must be asked. Becasue the longer this goes on the more it hurts you and that's not very fair. He may be hurt if you ask him directly, but if he really cares and you state your reasons why you think he may cheating he should address the issue. Just ask why he never hangs out with you anymore and if he gets really defesive or aggresive it's a good clue.
I'm no expert, but that's my scrambled advice.

slutpup · 04-21-2011, 03:29 PM

Thanks for the help. I hope its just a friend but if it's not then it's not the first time I got my heart broken by him.

nellybell · 04-24-2011, 04:18 PM

You really need to talk to him. Even if he isn't cheating on you, the not talking to you still hints at problems. They really aren't ones that are just going to go away, either. If this like this has happend before then maybe it might be time to move on if the talking it out doesn't work out?

Good luck hun.

04-20-2011, 08:07 PM	#1
slutpup Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: MN Posts: 703 Blog Entries: 8	Relationship Problems I think my boyfriend is cheating on me but I don't know how to ask him without him thinking I don't trust him. Advice anyone? __________________ PM me dares! I will try any dare that gets sent that *doesn't* have anything to do with *any* of my limits! I need help figuring out my likes, dislikes and some limits! Dare me! Likes: Mouth soaping, writing lines, spanking, anal, slight pain, certain public things Dislikes: ??? Limits: Certain public things, permanent, major pain, any type of sex, family, friends If you think I deserve a punishment for not updating my story, punish me.

04-20-2011, 08:11 PM	#3
slutpup Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: MN Posts: 703 Blog Entries: 8	He's always hanging around with this other girl and never talks to me anymore. __________________ PM me dares! I will try any dare that gets sent that *doesn't* have anything to do with *any* of my limits! I need help figuring out my likes, dislikes and some limits! Dare me! Likes: Mouth soaping, writing lines, spanking, anal, slight pain, certain public things Dislikes: ??? Limits: Certain public things, permanent, major pain, any type of sex, family, friends If you think I deserve a punishment for not updating my story, punish me.

04-21-2011, 03:29 PM	#5
slutpup Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: MN Posts: 703 Blog Entries: 8	Thanks for the help. I hope its just a friend but if it's not then it's not the first time I got my heart broken by him. __________________ PM me dares! I will try any dare that gets sent that *doesn't* have anything to do with *any* of my limits! I need help figuring out my likes, dislikes and some limits! Dare me! Likes: Mouth soaping, writing lines, spanking, anal, slight pain, certain public things Dislikes: ??? Limits: Certain public things, permanent, major pain, any type of sex, family, friends If you think I deserve a punishment for not updating my story, punish me.

04-24-2011, 04:18 PM	#6
nellybell Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: In front of the computer, staring vacantly. Posts: 2,812 Blog Entries: 14	You really need to talk to him. Even if he isn't cheating on you, the not talking to you still hints at problems. They really aren't ones that are just going to go away, either. If this like this has happend before then maybe it might be time to move on if the talking it out doesn't work out? Good luck hun. __________________ There was a nelly, a very smelly enchanted nelly sweet as vegemite could be ahaha just kidding, but still loved just the same <3

04-20-2011, 08:08 PM	#2
silverwall Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 134	That's a hard one. Why do you suspect that he is cheating on you?

04-20-2011, 08:18 PM	#4
silverwall Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 134	Good clue. To be honest I can only think of three ways to find out. 1. Ask mutual friends that you are closer too (than him). 2. Spy on him. 3. Directly ask him. I think that no mater how you phrase it or what he might think it may be something that must be asked. Becasue the longer this goes on the more it hurts you and that's not very fair. He may be hurt if you ask him directly, but if he really cares and you state your reasons why you think he may cheating he should address the issue. Just ask why he never hangs out with you anymore and if he gets really defesive or aggresive it's a good clue. I'm no expert, but that's my scrambled advice.