Discipline

fieldman · 11-06-2019, 10:31 AM

I'm looking to explore more discipline based kink. By this I mean punishment and correction for real life incidents. Maybe you didn't do the washing up, or failed an exam, or screwed up at work. Perhaps you feel like you need to atone for your sins in some way or to confess them and be chastised in a setting where it's not only about getting off but about helping you feel better about yourself as a result.

Think of it as less of a focus on orgasms and more of a focus on personal discipline and stability alone, instead of being a full on master/slave dynamic. I don't know if there's many looking for this kink on getdare but it's worth a try.

I am interested in talking to females only. No boys, no crossdressers. PM me for more information.

fieldman · 11-25-2019, 05:05 PM

I have had some high quality replies and stimulating conversations from people reading this post. If it intrigues you, send me a message or reply here.

fieldman · 12-29-2019, 10:59 AM

Over the past couple of months I've had some very interesting conversations and dynamics. Some based on discipline for not sticking to a set weekly budget, others for domestic situations, others again for pure kink like breaking orgasm control or whatever. It's a fascinating world to enter. If you're curious about trying it or even just talking about it, PM me.

fieldman · 07-27-2020, 04:56 AM

I'm looking to explore this kind of dynamic again. Here is a sample of some previous exchanges I have had with a willing submissive woman in need of some discipline.

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Originally Posted by (redacted)

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I don't have a full recollection but I texted my girlfriend and this is what we think happened.
We made margaritas while getting ready as pre-drinks. I think I had 4 shots of vodka through the night. Some champaign later which is when I got fucked up. We were supposed to eat at some point but we got distracted. I matched with the guy on tinder earlier that night and he superliked me. I don’t do this often in fact I have not been with anyone since moving here. But that night I liked the attention and I was wanting to have someone to kiss on midnight and I thought if we clicked I’d take him home. I could see he was very close so I texted him to come to where we were. I remember dancing like fools, making out on some couch and drinking champagne even before the countdown the rest is a blur. My friend told me the rest later. So yeah. Please punish me. Scold me. [redacted] and I need to be disciplined. Pain, shame anything.

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You were were drinking with a girl friend. Although you cannot remember how much you drank, you recall margaritas and multiple shots of vodka, at least 4 by your own admission. After that you moved onto champagne, though you dont say how much. I find that you must have had a minimum of half a bottle. During your alcohol binge you took no measures to ease the impact of your drinking on your body. You did not drink water to dilute it, nor did you eat a meal even though you had planned to do so.
This kind of behaviour is unacceptable. Good, well behaved, respectable women do not drink like dockyard labourers at the end of their shift. Your drinking behaviour was quite excessive that night and I find that you drank the equivalent of 6 standard shots of vodka, 3 shots of tequila in the margaritas and 6 glasses (a bottle) of champagne, based on your own confession to me. That is a total of 21 units in one night which is the entire weekly allowance for a woman in Britain. You were a disgraceful drunkard that night and that is before I turn to your sexual behaviour after you made yourself intoxicated.
Having become drunk to the point where you were struggling to remember events, you then took to Tinder. Doubtless with the drink stimulating your wanton thoughts, you matched with a nearby man. Fuelled by your whorish impulses you lured him to your location. You said you liked the attention from him and wanted someone to kiss at midnight. I reject your innocent explanation. I find that you deliberately made yourself drunk on high strength alcohols to build up the courage to seduce the first man who showed the slightest bit of interest in you. Your disgustingly slutty plan succeeded. He came to you, doubtless after you promised to perform vile and debasing acts for his pleasure. You danced with him and, in your own words, "making out on some couch... the rest is a blur". [redacted]
Your behaviour, both drinking and sexual, is totally out of place even for a worthless fuckhole like you. I must punish you to teach you a lesson and deter you from future excess drinking and slutty actions like this. To do so I need to consider how best to achieve that effect.
A slut who drinks too much and stops caring who sees her whore like behaviour or who she indulges in it with is a disgrace. You are a disgrace. You'll strip your panties off and give yourself two dozen spanks with a belt. Having done that, you'll then lie on your back and give your horny fuckhole another dozen directly. [redacted]
To curb your drinking we need a different kind of punishment. Immediately after those spanks, spread rice on a chair. Sit on it and write out 25 times "I must not be a drunken fuckhole". At the end, read each line out loud, checking carefully for any mistakes you made.

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Shit I do not know how to report on this. That's a scolding alright. I am still flustered and embarrassed after reading it a couple of times. I have not been told off in years. Never like this. Now I do not know if I should call you Sir but thank you. The belt was so fucking painful. And I deserved it. My pussy is bright red and swollen, caught my clit a few times too. Rice on chair part is genius. Takes post spanking discomfort and shame to next level. The hand written lines were embarrassing. I do not know what else to say. Thank you for putting in the time to discipline me. But I apologize I was not entirely truthful to you. God this is embarrassing. You are right I [redacted]. One other thing. Since my new year goal was to drink less, I hoped you would consider setting a number of days or weeks I am not allowed to drink, or some sort of long run rule or punishment ritual to discourage me from drinking. I am submitting to your discipline again for this and for consequences of the [redacted] I lied about

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I dont think you'll go cold Turkey. Everyone likes a drink after all. You will stay sober on Thursdays and keep below 25 units a week. Look up what that means and relate it to how much you're drinking now. Keep a log of what you drink for the next week and I'll review it at intervals.

Should you drink more than 5 units in one night you'll need to be disciplined for giving into your cravings. Report it to me immediately and I'll decide what to do. Taking the time zone difference into account, while you wait for my reply you'll go commando as a reminder that actions have consequences.

You have made a very late confession adding to your sexual misbehaviour. After your drunken antics it seems you [redacted] You chose to continue and double down. [redacted]Knowing what a needy whore you are, [redacted]

Again, you must be punished for this behaviour. I have already disciplined you for your drunkenness and the behaviour which led to this [redacted]. You failed to confess it at the first opportunity you had and you are now very embarrassed by having to admit this. [redacted]
For the failure to confess to [redacted], spank your tits 2 dozen times with the charger cord. For the [redacted], use a rubber band to snap your tongue six times. Each will remind you of the slitty purpose you used it for and why failing to tell me about that was a bad idea.

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Eh that is painful to read and do. 24 spanks with the cord left marks all over my tits. I thought this was harsh and considered asking for mercy then realized it was a punishment for lying to you and this is how you estimate its value. Rubber band snaps on my tongue were strangely painful too. My tongue is a little swollen. Yeah that will teach me a lesson. I have been feeling discombobulated since the new year ashamed of what I have done. Doing this is akin to being given a chance at penance. I am not like this normally I have never done such thing [redacted] Again I am at a loss of words. I will probably read the scolding a few more times. Thank you again for putting in the time to punish me. After getting chastised the way I asked I am wanting to have a sense of closure. Would you tell me something to that effect as in you are pardoned or whatever.

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Well done. You've now been punished fully for your behaviour over New Year and we don't hold grudges here. Consider yourself chastised and forgiven, you've paid your dues. [redacted]

writeformeslut · 08-17-2020, 02:16 AM

This looks intriguing lol

orangeclimber22 · 08-31-2020, 08:00 PM

I’m rather interested to learn more if this is something you’re still interested in engaging in.

Billi101 · 09-25-2021, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by fieldman

I'm looking to explore more discipline based kink. By this I mean punishment and correction for real life incidents. Maybe you didn't do the washing up, or failed an exam, or screwed up at work. Perhaps you feel like you need to atone for your sins in some way or to confess them and be chastised in a setting where it's not only about getting off but about helping you feel better about yourself as a result.

Think of it as less of a focus on orgasms and more of a focus on personal discipline and stability alone, instead of being a full on master/slave dynamic. I don't know if there's many looking for this kink on getdare but it's worth a try.

I am interested in talking to females only. No boys, no crossdressers. PM me for more information.

This is a kink I share. Not very interested in orgasm control but driven by real life discipline. I want to be punished for not going on daily walks, wasting time watching Netflix instead of focusing on my job.

starbaby13 · 09-25-2021, 01:01 PM

I think that is absolutely fantastic.

Tahady · 11-09-2021, 11:04 PM

I am very interested. If you are still interested.
Feel free to DM me.
Likes: light to medium pain in sexual areas, orgasm/masturbation control.

Dislikes: pain in non-sexual areas, anal.

Limits: Public, blood, pee or poop, face pic, permanent damage or bruises.

Note: I don't live a lone so I might be limited on what I can do. I can't make noise.

fieldman · 11-18-2021, 05:17 AM

This has been going well. Should you wish to be dealt with for something you've done, PM or kik me.

I hope to post a punishment report here again soon. Many girls in need of discipline become very embarrassed when the idea of the reasons for their punishment and reaction to it being read by others is brought up.

Spankmehard1995 · 11-18-2021, 08:26 AM

this is something im interetsred in being in need and wanting a discipline based dynamic

fieldman · 03-28-2022, 03:49 PM

Reviving this for a while.

fieldman · 05-30-2022, 10:18 AM

Reviving again. See the previous page for examples of how I deal with sub standard behaviour by female submissives and address its root causes through stern and meaningful discipline.

DumbPissWhore · 05-09-2023, 07:41 PM

I would like discipline for ignoring my studies. It is quickly approaching finals. I have multiple semester projects to do in a few days and then 2 exams in a week. I have started no studying or projects yet.

fieldman · 12-20-2023, 02:59 AM

A punishment report written as part of a disciplinary process I administered a few weeks ago. I'm happy to say the bad behaviour ceased afterwards.

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I recently needed punishment because in the past six weeks I’ve spent $7,400. My spending has been dealt with before and has never been to this extreme before. First, my ability to touch was taken away and the next day a toilet schedule was put in place. I am permitted to use the bathroom five times per day and only for 3 minutes long each time. I also have to keep up my water intake to 8 cups a day, which I still haven’t met that goal yet but I am trying to drink more than usual. I know that when it’s reevaluated in 2 weeks that my chances of having it extended if I haven’t been keeping up my water intake are high so I’m motivated to drink at least something every single day.

On Tuesday night, we talked about how much I spent. I was in only a robe and panties. I had to add up everything I’d spent and also tell the ten most expensive items. Some of those consisted of candles, perfumes, shoes, and purses. I did need to use the bathroom badly, but it was outside of a scheduled time and I was told to stand in the shower until I finished calculating the total and the top 10 items. I wasn’t able to hold it until the end of our talk and so I had to pee in the shower. It was so humiliating and I didn’t admit to it on my own. I had to be asked as my messages weren’t so desperate anymore. One thing I’m still guilty for is that in my desperation I did type in all caps. I did receive nipple pinches for that after our talk was over.

My formal punishment happened on Saturday afternoon. The dread and anxiety leading up to that was agonizing. Especially on Saturday morning and early afternoon before the punishment was inflicted. I had to do spanks, lines, and corner time. I was a disappointment on quite a few occasions during the punishment which I am extremely embarrassed to admit. For the spanks, I did need to do 6 dozen on my bottom, 3 dozen on my tits, 3 dozen on my inner thighs, and 3 dozen on my pussy. I was mortified at first and I did have to try extremely hard to not complain or argue. I have a habit of letting my fear get the best of me and I just wanted to do perfect this time. I knew I’d have to write a public report and I didn’t want to write about any mistakes.

I can get overwhelmed fairly easily and so the spanks were administered in such a way to avoid that. I was given commands to give one set of dozen at a time. I almost did freeze up, but once I made it through that challenge I fully surrendered to each command. It felt freeing and different than what I’ve ever experienced before. When I expressed those feelings after the punishment, I was told that that’s what subspace is. I like it there and I’d love to go back again. Maybe not during a punishment because those should be avoided at all costs; however, when playing I’d love to visit subspace again.

The lines were brutal. 60 lines of “I must keep my spending under control and stop myself from buying things I don’t need and can’t afford.” Not to mention, during the lines I was sitting on rice. Once I finally thought I was finished I was allowed to stand up while my lines were checked. Unfortunately for me I got several words mixed up as I wrote. I swapped buying and spending, I wrote control at the end instead of afford. I was mad at first. My arm and bottom were in such pain from the lines and the spanking. I did say it wasn’t fair and try to argue my case. I shouldn’t have done that, I regret it. I asked for forgiveness but I was told forgiveness won’t be given until the end of the punishment.

I had to write lines 11, 13, 14, 16, 18, 19, 21-45, and 50 all over again. I know it’s important that I’m held to the highest standards and I still do feel guilty for arguing against having to rewrite them. I am thankful to be held to that high standard. The fact that I am shows that the way I do things matters to him. It might not make me the happiest when I have to rewrite over half my punishment lines, but I do know that those careless mistakes aren’t acceptable and I should have paid closer attention. The rewrites were my fault and I have no one to blame for that other than myself.

It did take me so long to finish the lines that I wasn’t able to receive the last part of my punishment (corner time) right away. After an hour I laid in my bed and waited, agonizing over the mistakes I made in my punishment and the mistake I made spending so much money. Finally, he woke up sometime through the night (we are on different time zones) and he gave me 7 minutes of corner time. He shortened it from his original plan of 12 minutes which I was thankful for. I really struggle standing still for a long time and I move around sometimes when I’m not supposed to. I did get fidgety twice, which I admitted to and was able to be forgiven for that. I also was told that I was forgiven for the mistake I had to cross out in my rewritten punishment lines. I’m so thankful for that.

We were able to talk afterwards which I’m thankful that he takes the time to talk to me. I won’t make this mistake for a long time and I learned my lesson. I beg of you, please don’t say anything cruel in the comments. Thank you for reading.

If you have read this and wish to discuss being disciplined or held to account for something you have or haven't done, PM me. I'm as happy to chat about the dynamics and process as I am to administer whatever is required.

11-06-2019, 10:31 AM	#1
fieldman Senior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: London Posts: 212 Blog Entries: 4	Discipline I'm looking to explore more discipline based kink. By this I mean punishment and correction for real life incidents. Maybe you didn't do the washing up, or failed an exam, or screwed up at work. Perhaps you feel like you need to atone for your sins in some way or to confess them and be chastised in a setting where it's not only about getting off but about helping you feel better about yourself as a result. Think of it as less of a focus on orgasms and more of a focus on personal discipline and stability alone, instead of being a full on master/slave dynamic. I don't know if there's many looking for this kink on getdare but it's worth a try. I am interested in talking to females only. No boys, no crossdressers. PM me for more information. __________________ M, 34, UK. Experienced disciplinarian. I like submissive women. Likes to give: spanking, discipline, humiliation, bathroom use control, orgasm control, light bondage and denial. I enjoy power and control. Limits: the normal sane ones includig blood, knives, needles etc. Kik: fieldman5073

11-25-2019, 05:05 PM	#2
fieldman Senior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: London Posts: 212 Blog Entries: 4	I have had some high quality replies and stimulating conversations from people reading this post. If it intrigues you, send me a message or reply here. __________________ M, 34, UK. Experienced disciplinarian. I like submissive women. Likes to give: spanking, discipline, humiliation, bathroom use control, orgasm control, light bondage and denial. I enjoy power and control. Limits: the normal sane ones includig blood, knives, needles etc. Kik: fieldman5073

12-29-2019, 10:59 AM	#3
fieldman Senior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: London Posts: 212 Blog Entries: 4	Over the past couple of months I've had some very interesting conversations and dynamics. Some based on discipline for not sticking to a set weekly budget, others for domestic situations, others again for pure kink like breaking orgasm control or whatever. It's a fascinating world to enter. If you're curious about trying it or even just talking about it, PM me. __________________ M, 34, UK. Experienced disciplinarian. I like submissive women. Likes to give: spanking, discipline, humiliation, bathroom use control, orgasm control, light bondage and denial. I enjoy power and control. Limits: the normal sane ones includig blood, knives, needles etc. Kik: fieldman5073

08-17-2020, 02:16 AM	#5
writeformeslut Member Join Date: Apr 2018 Posts: 40	This looks intriguing lol __________________ Likes - Nipple Torture, Spanking, Writing Lines, Bladder Control/Desperation, Humiliation, Degradation, Anal Dislikes - Corner Time, Kneeling, Stress Positions Limits - Orgasm Control for extended time, Anything Pee - beyond holding - no wetting, drinking, etc ... No Blood, No Public, No Vaginal Insertions, Nothing with Food/Chemical Play, NO photos

08-31-2020, 08:00 PM	#6
orangeclimber22 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2020 Location: Central U.S. Posts: 14	I’m rather interested to learn more if this is something you’re still interested in engaging in. __________________ 23, female, submissive. New to this site but not to this world. Likes: orgasms (duh), moderate pain, bondage, humiliation, discipline, hidden public, butt plugs, sensory deprivation... will update as time goes on. Limits: public, photos/videos, anything permanent, extreme pain, messy tasks. Interested in exploring: Bladder control, forced orgasms/denial, rules, predicaments. Being in a pandemic gives me lots of free time so help me occupy my days with fun tasks!

09-25-2021, 01:01 PM	#8
starbaby13 Member Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: Planet Earth Posts: 82 Blog Entries: 5	I think that is absolutely fantastic. __________________ "..I'm who I are, a trail of stardust leading to the superstar" You can call me Captain

11-09-2021, 11:04 PM	#9
Tahady Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2021 Location: United States Posts: 13	I am very interested. If you are still interested. Feel free to DM me. Likes: light to medium pain in sexual areas, orgasm/masturbation control. Dislikes: pain in non-sexual areas, anal. Limits: Public, blood, pee or poop, face pic, permanent damage or bruises. Note: I don't live a lone so I might be limited on what I can do. I can't make noise.

11-18-2021, 05:17 AM	#10
fieldman Senior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: London Posts: 212 Blog Entries: 4	This has been going well. Should you wish to be dealt with for something you've done, PM or kik me. I hope to post a punishment report here again soon. Many girls in need of discipline become very embarrassed when the idea of the reasons for their punishment and reaction to it being read by others is brought up. __________________ M, 34, UK. Experienced disciplinarian. I like submissive women. Likes to give: spanking, discipline, humiliation, bathroom use control, orgasm control, light bondage and denial. I enjoy power and control. Limits: the normal sane ones includig blood, knives, needles etc. Kik: fieldman5073

11-18-2021, 08:26 AM	#11
Spankmehard1995 Member Join Date: Jan 2020 Posts: 79	this is something im interetsred in being in need and wanting a discipline based dynamic __________________ Implements: phone cable, strap, bath brush, small wooden spoon, big wooden spoon, small hairbrush, thin long paddle, big hairbrush, belt, crop, thin small paddle, table tennis bat, rubber, paddle with holes, large paddle, large paddle with holes, cane, large paddle and larger paddle spiked bra and knicker liners, nipple clamps, butt plugs, rope, cuffs, heat cream, chilli cream, tiger balm and a 4 point bed restraint. Limits: no public no toileting no permanent harm no Degrading

03-28-2022, 03:49 PM	#12
fieldman Senior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: London Posts: 212 Blog Entries: 4	Reviving this for a while. __________________ M, 34, UK. Experienced disciplinarian. I like submissive women. Likes to give: spanking, discipline, humiliation, bathroom use control, orgasm control, light bondage and denial. I enjoy power and control. Limits: the normal sane ones includig blood, knives, needles etc. Kik: fieldman5073

05-30-2022, 10:18 AM	#13
fieldman Senior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: London Posts: 212 Blog Entries: 4	Reviving again. See the previous page for examples of how I deal with sub standard behaviour by female submissives and address its root causes through stern and meaningful discipline. __________________ M, 34, UK. Experienced disciplinarian. I like submissive women. Likes to give: spanking, discipline, humiliation, bathroom use control, orgasm control, light bondage and denial. I enjoy power and control. Limits: the normal sane ones includig blood, knives, needles etc. Kik: fieldman5073

05-09-2023, 07:41 PM	#14
DumbPissWhore Member Join Date: May 2023 Posts: 38	I would like discipline for ignoring my studies. It is quickly approaching finals. I have multiple semester projects to do in a few days and then 2 exams in a week. I have started no studying or projects yet. __________________ Likes: hidden public, bladder control, petplay, degradation, humiliation Limits: family, friends, pics, drinking piss, scat, ageplay, diapers, insertions (mouth, pussy, ass)