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Male 31/male/master seeks 18-24/male/slave in any place (serious honest)

31/male/master seeks 18-24/male/slave in any place (serious honest)

Hello, thanks for reading my ad. It's a big post, but if you are interested, please read all of it and reply exactly as I asked. English is not my 1st language so I want to apologize for every mistake I make.

Introduction


Hello, my name is Chris. I'm 31 and I live in central Europe. My Timezone is CET+1. I'm bisexual and I live with my fiance (we were supposed to get married 2 weeks ago, but corona fucked up a lot of things).. She knows I'm kinky and bisexual but she has no idea that I do such things online and I want it to stay that way.

I am into kinks for many years now, First, I've been experimenting with my ex bf, (I was 17) and then I have had few hook ups, so I think I'm quite experienced. With my ex bf I used to switch, but at some point I decided to be only a master, but I understand how you might feel and think as a slave or sub. When it comes to kinks I'm only interested in guys, cause I want my fiance to be the only girl in my life.

Right now I work from home and my schedule is a bit different every day, but i still have lots of free time especially at night. I have some responsibilities, but I will be able to give you at least 10 hours a week, however, I have some personal issues and sometimes I will have to be alone for a few days, but I will be able to control you and to keep you busy with tasks, etc. It means that I will still keep an eye on you and make sure you follow rules, do tasks, etc. I understand that my disappearing like that for a few days might be a turn off, so please be sure if you are ok with that before you reply.

In my free time I love to hang out with my fiance, play video games, watch movie, tv series or twitch, go for a walk or just hang out with other friends. I 'am an introvert though, and sometimes it might take me a bit to open up to someone, something, but if you are respectful, honest then it will be much easier. I also love to own and train slaves and subs

Who am i looking for?
  • Male
  • 18-26yo ( noone younger or older, especially younger, its not important if you think that being 2 years younger or older is not that much, it is much for me. Dont try to cheat.
  • skinny, slim, average build. Few pounds too much is ok, but please don't reply if you are overweight or too muscular. ( I don't care how cute you are, just be the right age and not too muscular or overweight)
  • Single only. It means no relationships, no wife, girlfriends, boyfriends or whatever. I don't want to ruin your relationship. For example if i say you are not allowed to cum for a week, what would you do if your girlfriend wants to have some fun?


A bit more about you:

- Your location is not important as long as you can give me enough time to serve me.
- I don't care if you are straight, gay, bi or whatever. I want to obey me anyway, no matter your sexual orientation. If you can't stand being dominated by a guy, or if you don't take it serious cause I'm a guy then look elsewhere.
-only long term, at least few months, not 1 timers ,1 month etc.

About your personality:

Here i will describe a bit about characteristics i'm looking for.

Submissive: Yeah, the slave should be submissive. For me, it means you should feel urge to have someone be in charge of you (in that case me) . It also means that you should feel a need to please someone to feel better yourself, care a more about others than yourself, and you don't mind what it is, it just makes you feel good to obey others (I respect limits, of course and I play by the rules.) I mean you don't tell me what I can do what I should do etch. Of course I'm not selfish and you can always propose your ideas and stuff (and often I will gladly agree) but remember I'm in charge and I decide when we do something and what we do, so remember who's in charge. If you want to jerk off all the time or tell me what to then become a master or dom yourself. I am going to in charge and i decide when and how long you jerk off etc.

That's what in my opinion is the main characteristic of submissive slave. I am not looking for someone that need to be taught those things. It doesn't mean I want you to be blindly obedient. I want you to protect your limits, speak up when something is wrong, too painful, too difficult arts. but it doesn't mean you should be disobedient and you should not question everything I do when I follow rules, limits and what we agreed to.


Being able to speak up about his opinion, needs and total honesty.
First of all, I don't want you to lie, never ever lie. I don't care your reason, I would rather have you tell me the truth about the task, rule or whatever than lies just to make me feel good. If I ask you, what do you think about me as a master I want you to be honest, like about anything else. So often I heard yeah, I like this task I will do it tonight, then 2 days later I hear, sorry I can't do it, I'm not into that. So be honest or please look elsewhere.


Patience: I am patient and I will be patient with you. I won't get angry easily, even if you fail (unless you fail on purpose). I expect the same thing from you. I am not able to make every single day something new and exciting tasks. It's not possible. It's also impossible to teach you the rules, edging, anal, pain and humiliation in 2/3 weeks. It will take much more so be patient and follow my lead. I will teach you everything you desire, but slowly and on my own pace. Please also think about, what will happen if I show you everything too fast?? you will get bored in the future and you will leave.

The next thing you should be able to do is speaking about your opinion and feelings on your own. I will give an example. You screwed up and I tell you that as a punishment you won't cum for 3 weeks. and you agreed to that. In reality you only said it cause you are afraid of me giving you bigger punishment or you don't want to disappoint me. Then most likely you will just disappear, cause you can't take that punishment. I'm not a monster if you disagree with something and you are respectful I'm more than willing to discuss things, my word is final but it doesn't mean I am not willing to discuss issues. Hope you understand that. It's really important to communicate well

someone very kinky and into giving up a lot of control I am not looking for someone who will jerk off for me.It means you should have close to no limits, less the better. If you have lots of limits then please don't reply. If you are not sure about something we can test it, I will not break rules or limits, that's for sure, but the more you are willing to do the better it gets for both of us. I can give you more creative tasks, rules etc.
I am looking for someone who likes to be controlled (will explain below and during our conversation), and even micromanaged.I will not decide your diet (cause it might not be a healthy thing to do and I'm not a food specialist) but a bit of free time control, body hair, orgasm, routines like daily pain, daily fucking, etc. I would love to micromanage you or supervise you it means watch you take shower, dress up, etc. also would love to know where are when etc.The point is not to ruin your life or make your life miserable, but to make you feel like a slave, property. Also, it will not happen overnight it will take much more time and I won't force anything. hope it's clear.

Commitment: I am looking for someone serious and committed. I don't want it to be or look like a job for you etc , but serving "your master" will take a time. Remember that. I don't need it to be your priority, cause we all have lives, etc but it i want it to be important for you. If you get bored easilly, or you prefer to spend time playing video games or whatever. then we are not a good match. As i said i expect at least 10 hours a week, sometimes it will be less, but still if you don't feel comfortable with that , then we are not a good match. I Also want you to be serious. It means, if i tell you that i want to have session at night and you agreed, then you disappear , then we are not a good match. If you agree to follow the rules then follow them. If i see you are not interested, you don't take it seriously etc i will just quit.


Showing iniciative and being friendly: Being willing, friendly and showing you care: I'm ok if you want to keep it to master/slave stuff only and to not talk about normal stuff, etc. but if you want to talk about normal stuff too, become friends, etc. then you should show that you care sometimes, or ask for a task, or even start a normal conversation. It's not required if you want to keep it only to master, the slave thing only, but if your not then I want it to be also a kind of friendly, etc. then it should be both ways so I should not be the only person who starts to talk etc. It shows you care and it's really appreciated. Also, feel free to ask questions during our conversation about the details and later, for me it shows you care. Hope you understand what I want to say here.

Please dont reply if you are not / you don't:
- not totally honest
- not serious
- not commited to this kind of relationship or any relationship
- younger then 18 and older then 26
- overweight
- not willing to accept that i will not show myself on cam or send you picutures of myself
- you are not willing to show face after enough time build a trust (you will have 20 days to show face)
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it ( phone webcam doesnt count)
- you are not willing to send picture proofs from start or video proofs ( without face
- not looking for long term relationship
- want to just jerk off, or fuck your butt
- don't like pain or you are not willing to learn how to take it.
- don't have enough privacy or/and free time
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not able to tell me that you want to quit and give a reason



My likes and limits:


Control:It is a big turn on, I enjoy the feeling of owning my slave /subs and the knowledge that I have some influence on you. I'm able to control many aspects of your life, but it needs to be realistic and if you are not serious it will not work. It takes time to adapt to the rules and it takes some time to write short reports, do a daily/ weekly routines and to report them but this is the important part of the control. Without your time/these reports etc. it's just fake and having rules just for a sake of having them makes no sense. As i said i am prepered to control alot like when you jerk off/ watch porn, body hair shaving, what underwear do you wear, what do you wear while you sleep (if anything) and are you tied up while doing that and much more. I always tailor rules for slaves/subs needs, but many rules are similar, differing in just small details like numbers, etc. so you should not be worried about me forcing any kind of role. You need to accept them and agree, in another way, it will not work, but when you do agree I want you to stick to your word and follow them. Please remember that I'm not into any control that may disturb your life or have a bad influence like sleeping schedule, diet control, etc

Orgasm/edging control/porn - My goal here is to teach you to masturbate and have an orgasm or watch porn only when I want or you deserve it but I know it's very difficult so it will be done slowly. I will also use that to make and keep you horny by edging, etc. It may be turned off for you, but it's the most basic and simple thing and if you are not ok with such thing then we are probably not a good match.

Your underwear/clothes, body hair - i can decide what do you wear for bed, choose your clothes , underwear , socks etc. I'm going to keep it serious and real though, so don't expect tasks like go naked to a mall or crossdress for your work etc. I also like my slaves smooth from the nose down, but for some people it might be a turn off, or not possible to shave some part of the body, I totally understand and won't make you shave if it's not possible.

Your free time: It's difficult and might be a turn off for some people. For example, I might dictate you how long can you play video games daily, watch tv, etc. I also might make you get tied up for 30 minutes instead of playing video games, etc. Such rules have to be discussed a lot before we do such things, cause I want you to be happy and able to follow those rules too.

Sleeping: Again , i want it to be realistic and i don't want to disturb your life so i will not give you sleeping time schedule but i can decide if you sleep naked or not or what clothes do you wear for bed and if you should sleep tied up etc. ( don't worry again, it will be rather simple bondage) routines: I can give you routines like weekly body shaving, daily spanking, bondage routines, anal routine and much more. There are a lot of opportunities here.

Pain: I like pain for many reasons. First of all, pain gives you so many options and there is so many things you can do about it, from slapping balls, to putting pegs on nipples to spanking, etc. I'm sure that it will be not boring for you for a long time. The second reason is more about you, it shows how much are you willing to give to your master/done and if you are ready to suffer a little bit for your masters pleasure it means a lot for many Doms. Many people are scared of pain, but I'm not that sadistic and your health and safety is very important to me. That means there is no blood, no injuries, etc. I play safe, but please remember that everyone has different pain tolerance level and also it's kind of difficult to control how much pain you feel while I'm sitting infornt of my monitor, etc. so communication is a key here but it's enough to just tell me it's a little bit too much and we will change task. and of course I'm sorry if that happens (although it happens like 2/3 times only).

Bondage - many different types and ways, I like to keep slaves tied for some time during the day, or to make them sleep tied up, etc. It may sound boring for some of you so I always try to make it interesting and add something to that like edging while being tied up etc but it's not possible to make it entertaining all the time.

Pet play- dog/cat plays-
not everyone favorite thing to do and it's ok if you don't like it and decide to put it into the limits.
It can walk on a leash, barking, drinking from a bowl, walks, fetching and more. Also, it can be boring after some time, so if we decide to do it and you are not a puppy/kitten person then we will do it from time to time.

Anal- again, it's something that can be fun or something that you will hate. I can teach you many things in this area if you decide to do it. My goal here is to make you like it and to take more up your butt, but again, nothing too big or dangerous and we will take small steps. It's surpassed to be a fun and not something bad for your health.

Humiliation- everyone is different, so it's difficult to humiliate someone for some people acting like a girl is humiliating for some people not so I will need to learn about you to humiliate you, but I always try not to go too far. It's really confusing for me sometimes when first you tell me that such humiliation is ok and after 3rd try you decide it's too much etc. So I will ask you a lot of questions about that and I will not do it often.

gaming tasks video game task/ dice task and a lot more - for example, you play counter strike and your results will be decide your fate, etc.. I think it 's really fun thing to do and I want to do it often. I'm a gamer, so it would be awesome if we can play video games together or against each other (depends) and then depending on your performance you get a reward or punishment also a little bit of roleplay can be used in games as well.
another important thing is that I will not play a game that I don't like or I don't want to play, for example, I'm not a fan of fork knife (fortnite) or some mmorpg games. I will not make you to play games as well, but I would like to at least try. I will also not make you buy any game, if you don't want to spend your money, it's fine there is a lot of games on the browser or free games etc. I can give you a list of my games during a private conversation. It will not only be video games, but also quizes, card games on cam or dice tasks, etc. I'm really creative with that so in my opinion it will not be boring for some time. I like much more than what's mentioned above, but to make this ad shorter we can talk more about that in private conversation.


full list of likes and limits:


Likes and limits:


Our likes should be as similar as possible. If more than 3 likes from my list are your limits then we are not a good match, sorry.

Likes: enslavement, honest people, spank, bondage, anal, nipple torture, cbt, messy, games, video games, orgasm control, edging, wedgies, piss play, rules, corner time, dice tasks, and much more

Limits: Blood, scat, to painfull, dangerous, full public, permanent, family, friends, animals, under 18 etc

All limits will be respected



How it will be and what kind training do i offer


This time i'm looking for something very specific. During our first
conversations you will choose your role or we will choose it together. It can be a slut, a sissy, a dog, a slave or whatever. Then you will learn how to behave , act, talk depending on your role. We will also choose 2/3 kinks to start with. Those and kinks related to your role will be the most important at first.

You will also have routines, like shaving , pain routine , anal routine etc ( just examples). Control with training to your role will be the most important. I will slowly take more and more control over you. You will have to keep in touch and send messeges or pictures often.( i will even install app that will make it easier for you like kik ( which i have never done before.

then i'm satisfied about your progress with your new role and you following rules and orders, i will slowly take more and more control. i will try to even micromange you or watch you often, ( for example watch you shower , put clothes on etc) It will be a slow process so dont panic but, as i said before, i'm looking for someone brave enough to give up as much control as possible.

i want to make it clear, it's not only about control, i want you also to perform during cam sessions, when you can show how obedient you are, you can show how well you take pain , and it also will be used to supervise you

Your role: your role could be any of those
slave
slut
dog
kitty
kid ( roleplay)
teen ( roleplay)
sissy

i will discuss each role with each candidate cause we might have different visions and i dont want to make this long post even longer.


How to apply:



Now here is the important part. All I need to do is to answer questions. Please don't tell me that question about age or limits etc. are difficult or confusing. I know my English can be an issue, but I'm pretty sure that you can understand these questions. Also, please don't post here, I will only accept application via private message.Another thing you need to remember is I don't want you to describe me every part of your life, we will have enough time to talk about such things later, but first I need to see that you can follow simple orders and answer questions... how do you want to be a slave if you can't follow the simplest instructions that you will receive?

The way of application: It's very simple. First, you need to pm me, in the subject put "own me". Then you need to answer all questions below. If you don't put on me in the subject of the your application I will not accept it.

After your application has been accepted i will send you a list of possible kinks , tasks ,etc I will not accept you if you have too many limits , so please be honest. Then when i know what you like we will talk about details over skype /kik. Please dont skip any questions and be honest


1name:
2.age:
3.location/time zone:
4.sexual orientation:
5.relationship status:
6.weigth/height:
7.how many doms/masters/owners have you had?
8.how much time can you / do you want to give me?
9. why do you want to serve me?
10.likes?
11.dislikes?
12.limits?
13. expectations?
14.tell me why do you want to be my slave/ you think we are good match?( i'm asking what makes us a good match not if you are submissive, or young enough or if you want to serve me)
15.tell me something about yourself
16.Have you read entire ad and you understood it?
17.Is there anything that was mentioned in my advert that you disliked?
18.Do you have your own room?
19.Do you have a basic webcam?
20. which option of training do you choose?
21. Any questions/ anything to say?

looking forward to hearings from you
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Old 11-22-2020, 08:01 AM   #2
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Old 11-27-2020, 10:37 AM   #3
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He's a really great master who can adapt to the sub's needs. You'll have a really nice time serving him!
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  • Likes: Bondage, Chastity, Bodywriting, JOIs, Light-Moderate Pain & CBT, Anal, Ice Play, Clothespins, Omorashi, Spankings, Edging, Giving up Control
  • Dislikes: Cum-eating, Pee-drinking, Writing Lines, Corner Time, Hard spanks to the balls
  • Limits: Illegal, Scat, Blood, Needles, Sounding, Extreme Pain, Family/Friends, Public, Animals, Blackmail, Permanent Exposure

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