self spanking

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 11:24 AM

is there any way to make self spanking actually hurt anywhere close to a real spanking? i have tried it but it doesnt really have any effect and never close enough to make me even close to crying. i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of how you could make it more painful?

Night-1991 · 05-20-2008, 11:52 AM

One thing, hair brush, those things hurt, trust me

SubMissChievous · 05-20-2008, 02:23 PM

Yes, indeed, hairbrushes can be painful. New unused ones are usually more effective. Kitchen wooden spoons can be quite snappy too

The most common item used for self-spanking are belts. I always had a bit of difficulty when using the ones I use as clothing accessories as they seemed to be a bit too long to use on myself. Recently I bought one designed for kids. It's made of leather & about 60 cm long (24 inch). I found that this one, folded in 2, works very well.

You may have to try to spank different "targets" too. How one reacts to different kinds & location for spanking is relatively variable from one person to another. You could maybe try your nipples & upper inner thighs. If you hit hard enough you should be able to feel it for a little while after that

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 03:00 PM

thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

Night-1991 · 05-20-2008, 03:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sl101

thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

My best bet is on the softest part of the ass, just constant fast spanking, 40 on each cheek.

SubMissChievous · 05-20-2008, 03:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sl101

thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

You're welcome

Yeah you're right. Self-spanking isn't quite as the same as if the hits are given by someone else. No matter how hard I hit it still feels different & I've never reached that point where I would get close to tears (although I've had a few minor sitting problems a couple times...

) Anyway I've reached that point where it was getting close to too much only one time in RL & ended up with my ass black & blue with "sitting-problems" that lasted for about 4-5 days afterwards...

Well... that's why I thought about suggesting different items & trying different targets so you can experiment if any works for you. So I hope you have lots of spanking fun

sl101 · 05-20-2008, 03:37 PM

well il try and have a few sitting problems hopefully. i would love to be spanked in real life but am nervous of the pain i think so would like to give myself as close to what a real spanking would be like. how were you spanked when you were beaten black and blue? would it be possible to adapt that to self spanking?

igorw · 03-23-2009, 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sl101

is there any way to make self spanking actually hurt anywhere close to a real spanking? i have tried it but it doesnt really have any effect and never close enough to make me even close to crying. i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of how you could make it more painful?

To get real pain (one good lash is enough), I am using rubber skip rope or rope on my right rib, waisting through the left rib and back. To make the lash more painful, I am pulling the rope when it reaches skin. One lash can leave good dark-blue trail.

medic3051 · 09-16-2009, 08:17 AM

Use some sand paper . Rub your but with sand paper for 20 to 30 seconds the leave for a few mins
Then continue with useing a wonden spoon you will feel the pain ' your but will be sore for hours after trust me it works
I tried it when I got told and dam it burns , can't even sit down without it hurting , had me near to tears

Hope this helps let me know how you get on !! Enjoy !

Tee · 02-12-2011, 08:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sl101

is there any way to make self spanking actually hurt anywhere close to a real spanking? i have tried it but it doesnt really have any effect and never close enough to make me even close to crying. i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of how you could make it more painful?

Several ways you can try, thou i would focus on this.

Before spanking buy a clean toilet brush one with bristles, use that on butt first, when butt is red, and that does not take long then use a

The pain is only as much as you can take, but the effect is enormous, a very red butt.

You can of course try using hair curling tongs first, do not allow it to get to hot, but hot enough to make skin go slightly red.

By the time you have finished, it will hurt to sit down.
Do not allow others to use curling tongs on you, as it hard for them to know when to stop. To much pain for most is no turn on.

Sneakerboy · 06-05-2013, 05:18 AM

I have several tools. A rubber paddle works well. The best tool that I have found that really gives it good is a barbeque steak flipper. I have a long heavy one with holes in the paddle end.

Its also not as noisy as a regular wood or rubber paddle or even a hairbrush. This is as close to a real spanking as I have come. My butt still has marks after 5 days.

Sneakerboy · 06-05-2013, 01:16 PM

Trying to submit a picture of my spanking tools.

Not sure how to use the forum yet.

Billyboy - Tried to reply but message got deleted.

SB

dareisgood4u · 06-05-2013, 01:36 PM

Ping pong bats, belt, and even own hands can hurt if you really commit to the stroke. One that hurt most without full force was the belt to my lower and upper back, stung real bad (though, it's not spanking). Also, even when self spanking can be enjoyable at times, enough strokes on one day can make you want to sleep on your stomach and not sit down the next day.

05-20-2008, 11:24 AM	#1
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	self spanking is there any way to make self spanking actually hurt anywhere close to a real spanking? i have tried it but it doesnt really have any effect and never close enough to make me even close to crying. i was just wondering if anyone had any tips of how you could make it more painful?

06-05-2013, 05:18 AM	#11
Sneakerboy Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 2	Hard Quiet Self Spanking I have several tools. A rubber paddle works well. The best tool that I have found that really gives it good is a barbeque steak flipper. I have a long heavy one with holes in the paddle end. Its also not as noisy as a regular wood or rubber paddle or even a hairbrush. This is as close to a real spanking as I have come. My butt still has marks after 5 days.

06-05-2013, 01:16 PM	#12
Sneakerboy Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 2	Self Spanking Trying to submit a picture of my spanking tools. Not sure how to use the forum yet. Billyboy - Tried to reply but message got deleted. SB

06-05-2013, 01:36 PM	#13
dareisgood4u Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 601	Ping pong bats, belt, and even own hands can hurt if you really commit to the stroke. One that hurt most without full force was the belt to my lower and upper back, stung real bad (though, it's not spanking). Also, even when self spanking can be enjoyable at times, enough strokes on one day can make you want to sleep on your stomach and not sit down the next day. __________________ Athletic Male / Likes nudity, piss desperation

05-20-2008, 11:52 AM	#2
Night-1991 Account Banned Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1,216 Blog Entries: 86	One thing, hair brush, those things hurt, trust me

05-20-2008, 02:23 PM	#3
SubMissChievous Prodigy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 4,466	Yes, indeed, hairbrushes can be painful. New unused ones are usually more effective. Kitchen wooden spoons can be quite snappy too The most common item used for self-spanking are belts. I always had a bit of difficulty when using the ones I use as clothing accessories as they seemed to be a bit too long to use on myself. Recently I bought one designed for kids. It's made of leather & about 60 cm long (24 inch). I found that this one, folded in 2, works very well. You may have to try to spank different "targets" too. How one reacts to different kinds & location for spanking is relatively variable from one person to another. You could maybe try your nipples & upper inner thighs. If you hit hard enough you should be able to feel it for a little while after that

05-20-2008, 03:00 PM	#4
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	thanks Chloe. i was just wondering if there were any specific techniques, i am quite strong but i can never feel it after i finish, like a real life spanking. i will try spanking in different places like the nipples or inner thigh but was hoping id be able to give myself a bare bottom spanking that would hurt enough to atleast make me close to tears and so it was painful to sit down for quite a little while after.

05-20-2008, 03:37 PM	#7
sl101 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 5	well il try and have a few sitting problems hopefully. i would love to be spanked in real life but am nervous of the pain i think so would like to give myself as close to what a real spanking would be like. how were you spanked when you were beaten black and blue? would it be possible to adapt that to self spanking?

09-16-2009, 08:17 AM	#9
medic3051 Baby Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Use some sand paper . Rub your but with sand paper for 20 to 30 seconds the leave for a few mins Then continue with useing a wonden spoon you will feel the pain ' your but will be sore for hours after trust me it works I tried it when I got told and dam it burns , can't even sit down without it hurting , had me near to tears Hope this helps let me know how you get on !! Enjoy !