06-07-2011, 07:26 AM | #16 |
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I guess as far as the so called "mod clique" goes, I guess I have to respond. First off, I agree with Rachie 100%. I also rarely talk to mods outside of getDare, mainly because unlike most of the mods, I am in the country that website is based out of . The mods don't look down upon good users or just users in general. We look down upon people who take away the fun from other people by being rude or mean.
Finally, like Rachie said, as long as you put in a decent effort into spelling and what not, no one will care. The long post you did was well thought out. What I hate is people who give no effort and use text speak. That will drive me crazy. And if you ever have any questions or complaints, make sure you make us aware. We want to make this as good as a website as we possibly can.
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06-07-2011, 03:40 PM | #17 |
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You must realize that when ever there are large numbers of people, cliques happen. It isn't a bad thing, its just people talking to people they like and get along with. They only have "power" if you imagine them to have it. In chat, people don't always answer eveybody and they don't always say hi to everyone who comes in. You can't expect it all the time, I'm a regular in chat, and just like sweetsong, I've gone unanswered as well. It's just what happenes, people aren't required to answer other people or they may be involved in a conversation already and may not wish to get off topic.
When it comes to being friends with mods, you have to realize that mods are people too. They all started out as regular users on here before they became mods and they, like everyone else, gained friends during this time. You can't expect them to just get rid of everyone because of their new position. Their friends aren't royalty, they're like every other user. You also mentioned not wanting to be grouped with the rest of the public because no one cares about them. That's all there is though, the mods and the rest of the users (There are also admin of you want to get technical). The whole reasons mods are mods is to care about the site and the users. There are also users caring about users. Ones that have been around for a while are probably quite willing to help anyone who asks nicely for it, and there are threads and even a section for helping people. So, obviously people care, you just have to use it. I think, sometimes, people look down on what mods do so much because they often only see the bad side of them, when they have to deal with the rule breakers and people who are just making stuff less fun. They aren't evil creatures though (waits for smartass comment), they are just regular users that got a lot of responsiblity put on their shoulders. Considering the large amount of stupid that comes on here sometimes, you can't blame them for being less than polite. Like it has been said before, got to cut them a little slack, they're only human. But, in the end, you just gotta take a step back from here sometimes, and realize it is nothing more than a site. If you take everything personally you're not going to be very happy anywhere, not just on this site. This is how people are, for better or for worse. On some sites though, the little minor things that might make this place a little less than ideal, are a hundred times worse. So, be glad that the mods don't just go around endlessly banning people simply because they don't like them, it could be a lot worse.
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"You don't invite the police to your birthday parties, graduation parties, baby showers, or any kind of good event. You call them when you need them, and you call them only when something bad happens. You don't dial 911 to ask the operator how their day is going or how their wife and kids are doing; you dial 911 because someone is hurt, dying, or in danger. They're there to keep the peace, and be the face of justice, and that's all you see of them." It's similar in this situation. All the public sees of moderators is banning certain users and trashing certain posts. Then again, it's their job, it's their responsibility; and just like police officers, they deal with a lot of shit as Nelly more politely stated. I know it seems stupid comparing police officers to the moderators of GetDare; Moderators carry banhammers, police carry firearms. It doesn't really compare... but the principle is the same. Respect them, don't piss them off, and they should respect you too.
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06-08-2011, 07:47 AM | #20 |
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I'm only commenting to say I agree completely with nellybell.
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06-12-2011, 07:14 AM | #21 |
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I know what you mean OP. I suggest just being yourself and telling everyone else to suck your schlong. There's some really stuck up members, hate on those, mods are pretty chill. (Most mods.)
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06-12-2011, 11:29 AM | #22 |
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I'd like to point out that when I joined GD back in december of 2010 I felt pretty much the same about it as you in terms of the groups of friends etcetera. I think you're taking it a bit far when you say everyone's high and mighty over everyone else because that's definately not how anyone feels. As I was in chat more frequently, I gradually started to get to know a few people and made friends. And as you said to start with it's hard because the 'high and mighty people', who I see as 'regulars' know eachother well and talk between themselves. But if you were in chat more often you'd gradually get included in conversation etc.
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06-12-2011, 05:59 PM | #23 | |
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Oh my replies are in the quote box .__.
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06-13-2011, 01:19 AM | #25 |
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thanks everyone for the advice. I've changed my views on many of these things so I decided to ask Rachie to close the thread. But the comments are appreciated! :P
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