Ask Emmyred Anything!

[Emmyred]

So, I've seen several of these posted and have really enjoyed reading about different members on GD, so I figured it was about time that I set up my own "Ask Me Anything" thread. I'll respond as honestly and quickly as I can!

As an added bonus, because I just lost a Battleship bet with Inferiorwhiteboi, all posts on this thread before midnight on Tuesday (my birthday) will count as direct hits to my clit with a ruler.

[Wedgielover890]

Why is Anal a limit? Have you ever had a bad experience?

[inferiorwhiteboi]

When's the last time you took a bubblebath?

First name really Emmy?

Favorite HP character?

How long after clit torture do you feel the after effects?

Did you write your script yet for you-know-what?

Favorite color?

Favorite and least favorite parts of your body?

Favorite kinky toy?

Fill in the blank....Guys that swallow their own cum are __________?

What's your favorite thread on gD, excluding threads that you created?

A physical description of your ideal playmate's appearance...

Favorite music to dance to would be?

I'll ask more later. That should do for a start.

[LilMonki]

How many direct hits to the clit? (Ouch!)

What about pain turns do you like?

[Sinister]

1. Do your posts also count for hits?
2. How did you find GD?
3. Why did you decide to join?
4. If you could have any sex toy for free, right now, what would it be?
5. How and why did you choose your profile picture?
6. What's your number one fantasy, ignoring the limits of possibility, safety and sanity?
7. What's your number one fantasy that you might actually do one day?
8. How do you define 'excessive' edging for your limit?
9. If you could live in anywhere in the world, where would you be?
10. If 50% of the Earth's population had to die all at once, instantly, and you had to choose who lived and died, what rule would you use?

[sammyy2qt]

1. Favourite alcohol beverage?
2. Last book you read?
3. Last thing you ate?
4. How are you liking GD so far?
5. Have you been to a concert? If so, what one was your favourite?

[Emmyred]

Why is Anal a limit? Have you ever had a bad experience?
It kind of grosses me out. I tried once and bled a fair bit. It’s painful in a bad way and doesn’t do anything for me.

How many direct hits to the clit? (Ouch!)
One per post, including mine. I’m not (too) insane.

What about pain turns do you like?
Not sure what this means...

When's the last time you took a bubblebath?
Probably childhood. One every six months or so, I’ll buy a fancy bath ball or use some fancy oils. I don’t usually take baths, though, because I don’t like staring at my body in front of me. It isn’t exactly a flattering position to sit in.

First name really Emmy?
I was hoping no one would ask this. No. It isn’t. “Emmy” was a childhood nickname; “Red” is what most people call me now.

Favorite HP character?
Difficult question. I’m most similar to Hermione, but Luna is probably my favorite. And I think McGonagall is the most respectable.

How long after clit torture do you feel the after effects?
Depends on what you mean and what I’m using. Clothespins hurt right away, then the pain goes away after 2-3 minutes until I take it off, which is the worst part. Then it will burn and throb for awhile. Hitting it, it immediately feels like it’s going to explode, as if I almost popped it. But then, there’s an intense stinging that comes about 2 seconds later that will have me rolling around on my back with my legs squeezed together for awhile.

Did you write your script yet for you-know-what?
No, but I have some ideas. I have a feeling that even if I don’t write them, words like “holy fuck”, “jesus”, and “ARRGGGG” are going to interrupt my lines.

Favorite color?
Usually green, but I’ve been feeling a lot of blue lately.

Favorite and least favorite parts of your body?
I have really good hair, and I think I have pretty good tits. I’m not a fan of my stomach, thighs, or feet.

Favorite kinky toy?
The riding crop.

Fill in the blank....Guys that swallow their own cum are __________?
I don’t want to answer that either. But, I gagged a little bit thinking about it. “Vile” was the first word that came to mind…but that was describing the act of swallowing cum, not the people who do it. If it makes a person happy (or if they do it to make someone else happy), I would say they were brave. It takes some self-reflection and honesty to be willing to explore that as a potentially enjoyable action.

What's your favorite thread on gD, excluding threads that you created?
I like reading the AMAs and the Dice Dares…but you know I’ve had a lot of fun with RHL’s “make his ass red” thread. Oops.

A physical description of your ideal playmate's appearance…
I wrote a really long answer to this question before realizing it asks for my ideal playmate, and not my ideal woman.

I’m actually really confused about my ideal playmate. Play for me has never involved sex, so my ideal playmate is more about an attitude than an appearance.

Favorite music to dance to would be?
To write? Instrumentals like Jamin Winans or interesting singer/songwriter music. I like to play with pulse, so your standard steady beat isn’t really my thing. Although, I just wrote a piece of an instrumental cover of “Work Song” that was pretty fun to write.
To improv- Instrumentals with a clear pulse, some alternative or lyrical.
To go out dancing? Top 40.

[Emmyred]

Sinister-
1. Do your posts also count for hits?
Yes.

2. How did you find GD?
I have absolutely no idea.

3. Why did you decide to join?
I lurked for a long time, and I decided I wanted to post in threads. Turns out, this place is both addictive and fun.

4. If you could have any sex toy for free, right now, what would it be?
I actually have a decent collection, and I ordered a new vibe this morning. I’m excited for it to come in. But I would also like a cordless, remote control egg.

5. How and why did you choose your profile picture?
We have similar features. Red hair, relatively pale (I have more freckles), similar face shapes.

6. What's your number one fantasy, ignoring the limits of possibility, safety and sanity?
I am really interested in being chained to the ceiling, and then alternately teased and whipped with a number of implements.

7. What's your number one fantasy that you might actually do one day?
I mean, I’ll do that if I have the opportunity...

8. How do you define 'excessive' edging for your limit?
I haven’t set a limit, but more than like 8 in a day or longterm denial. Edging is hard for me. My body literally convulses with desire. It takes awhile for what looks like a seizure of desperation to die down, and it fucks with my head.

9. If you could live in anywhere in the world, where would you be?
Spain. Probably Toledo or Granada.

10. If 50% of the Earth's population had to die all at once, instantly, and you had to choose who lived and died, what rule would you use?
I have to? Survival of the fittest. Start by eliminating anyone with hereditary illnesses, or a family history of such (I would die). That’s probably at least half, but if not, shave off the rest by IQ.

Sammy-
1. Favourite alcohol beverage?
Beer. All kinds of beer.

2. Last book you read?
Last book I finished was a piece of trash Kathy Reich’s novel I read on vacation. I don’t even remember what it was called. I’m currently reading a few things:
a- Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Luis Zafron
b- Perv- The Sexual Deviant in All of Us
c- To Kill A Mockingbird- Harper Lee. I read it every summer, and Harper Lee’s second book comes out ON MY BIRTHDAY! (Yes, I preordered and read the first chapter)

3. Last thing you ate?
You just made me realize I haven’t eaten today. I had an Applebee’s Apple Chicken with Quinoa thing last night.

4. How are you liking GD so far?
It’s phenomenal. I’ve met people who have helped me through a tough time and made me see things a little more clearly. I honestly believe I am making friends here, even if I will never meet them.

5. Have you been to a concert? If so, what one was your favourite?
The only traditional “concert” I’ve been to was N*sync in fourth grade. But, I was a music major for awhile, and went to MANY symphonies, vocal, and band concerts.

[inferiorwhiteboi]

What lower body exercises do you do?

Do you have a favorite freckle?

What's your opinion of your ass?

In your own words, describe your legs....

If you had to give up a sextoy for a month, which one would you deprive yourself of?

The nicest compliment that you've ever received was ____________?

Do you have nicknames for any of your sextoys?

Since you already had a long answer planned but it wasn't the question that was asked, describe your ideal woman...

What's the silliest thing that a guy has said in a pm to you on here?

[Fade]

What kind of sex do you like?

What is your favourite position?

What kind of a person are you at parties?

What does role play mean to you?

What are your favourite roles to play?

What do you feel when you are told what to do?

What do you feel when your being physically stimulated?

How do you feel about doing tasks for the enjoyment of another person?

What does the thought of being owned by another person do with you?

What is the best thing a DOM can tell you?

What is your favourite fantasy?

What happens when a DOM tells you not to orgasm for a week?

If you had to give up 1 thing in your sexlife what would it be?

[Emmyred]

What lower body exercises do you do?
I still teach dance, so I teach and am the example for many different barre exercises, plus across the floors, leaps, and writing dance. And I practice yoga. I don’t do much running or weight lifting anymore.

Do you have a favorite freckle?
This is going to sound crazy, but I have scars all over my thighs. One of my scars has a freckle in it that is shaped like a chevron, which was the symbol for a company I toured with for awhile.

What's your opinion of your ass?
I’ve been told I have a nice ass. My last girlfriend was almost obsessed with it. I, personally, am not a fan.

In your own words, describe your legs….
I don’t like this question either. My legs are strong for a woman. I have thick calves and thighs. My legs are heavily freckled except for the spots right under my knees, and I have scars over my thighs.

If you had to give up a sextoy for a month, which one would you deprive yourself of?
My smallest vibe.

The nicest compliment that you've ever received was ____________?
I mean, I think today is the most positive feedback I’ve ever received about my legs…
But when I was on tour, I had one of our techs tell me that she was inspired by my work, and when I moved, she was mesmerized. That’s hard to do for someone who teaches dance for a living.

Do you have nicknames for any of your sextoys?
No.

Since you already had a long answer planned but it wasn't the question that was asked, describe your ideal woman…
I should have seen that coming. I didn’t want to answer that question either, because people are going to hate my answer. So, before I say anything, I want to make it very clear that I’m far more interested in a person’s intellect and humor than her body. That being said…

I like bones. My ideal body (not woman, just body) is a medium to tall woman with pale skin and dark hair. She has intense cheekbones and a jawline. I am highly attracted to defined hip bones and rib cages. I know it’s not your standard ideal, but I like bones. And small boobs…like 32A…B tops.

What's the silliest thing that a guy has said in a pm to you on here?
There was one message that started with “I know you say you’re gay, but…” I wish I would have saved it.

[Emmyred]

What kind of sex do you like?
I like sex with women…especially with toys.

What is your favourite position?
I don’t know that women have a lot of options...

What kind of a person are you at parties?
Wallflower OR dance party starter. Depends on the night.

What does role play mean to you?
I haven’t tried any, like, standard roleplaying like the teacher scenes or anything like that. It’s sort of odd to consider.

What are your favourite roles to play?
I’m a sub.

What do you feel when you are told what to do?
I feel sort of empowered, Like I have a choice whether I follow orders or not.

What do you feel when your being physically stimulated?
What does anyone feel? Stimulation?

How do you feel about doing tasks for the enjoyment of another person?
If I care for and respect that person, even tasks I don’t want to do can be enjoyable.

What does the thought of being owned by another person do with you?
I don’t like the term owned. I’m not property, even if I’m submissive.

What is the best thing a DOM can tell you?
Good girl always sounds good to me.

What happens when a DOM tells you not to orgasm for a week?
I go insane. I’ll do it, but I’m like a bitch in heat. I get hotheaded and insanely desperate.

If you had to give up 1 thing in your sexlife what would it be?
Right now, there isn’t a lot going on.

[Fade]

How can you be 90% gay and what is the 10% (please don't say toys in the shape of a penis, sincerely hope for a interesting answer).

[Emmyred]

Originally Posted by Fade

How can you be 90% gay and what is the 10% (please don't say toys in the shape of a penis, sincerely hope for a interesting answer).

Well, this is a complicated question. I said earlier that I was more attracted to intellect and humor than bodies. That is extremely true. There have been 2 men (out of all of the men I have ever met) that I have been so attracted to their insides that I legitimately didn't mind the idea of sleeping with them. One of them, I legitimately wanted inside me. It didn't happen, but I wanted it to.

So, I stick with 90%. I also think its a bad idea to define oneself as 100% anything. When you label yourself, you limit yourself. What if my soulmate is a man, but I say I'm 100% gay, and therefore never give him a chance.

[Fade]

Originally Posted by Emmyred

Well, this is a complicated question. I said earlier that I was more attracted to intellect and humor than bodies. That is extremely true. There have been 2 men (out of all of the men I have ever met) that I have been so attracted to their insides that I legitimately didn't mind the idea of sleeping with them. One of them, I legitimately wanted inside me. It didn't happen, but I wanted it to.

So, I stick with 90%. I also think its a bad idea to define oneself as 100% anything. When you label yourself, you limit yourself. What if my soulmate is a man, but I say I'm 100% gay, and therefore never give him a chance.

Great answer you have given me insight and a good story. I am enriched by this candour.