How do you handle denial?

[degrademeplease]

Sir and I have done much longer denial periods before for up to 3 weeks, but we took a long break from doing denial. I'm currently being denied for 10 days, but it is not something I find easy.

Because of past experiences, it's something that I have negative associations with and I find it tough. Sir loves me being denied for him and we are trying to switch my mindset so that I can enjoy it instead of struggling.

I would love any tips please

[GivingWantingDares]

I love the idea of someone controlling me and my orgasms, but I'm really bad at staying on edge without cumming (I managed to edge twice and not cum today, a success, for now ) But I don't think I've ever had such a long period of denial.

[degrademeplease]

Originally Posted by GivingWantingDares

I love the idea of someone controlling me and my orgasms, but I'm really bad at staying on edge without cumming (I managed to edge twice and not cum today, a success, for now ) But I don't think I've ever had such a long period of denial.

Staying on edge without cumming is hard, well done. I can do it, but it is quite intense and it can mess with my emotions to edge and tease so much when I am being denied.

How long is your longest denial period?

[CuriousOlderMale]

i have a chastity cage. The cage can't be worn for long periods, as it causes some physical issues. i've found that i can sleep without the cage and the need to cum is not so great overnight. i put on the cage first thing, just after i wake. i take it off as I'm leaving for work.

Being denied makes me so horny that it's hard to concentrate on work and other matters, so the desire to cum just to help my concentration is great. My longest period of denial was 28 days and there were a few stages i went through. The longer i was denied, the more i wanted to be denied. i started to see myself as having a penis that could only pee and never have sexual relief. i can certainly imagine being permanently unable to wank or cum. However, during the first few days, i just want to look at porn and get relief.

What else would you like to know? You're welcome to kik me.

[GivingWantingDares]

Originally Posted by degrademeplease

How long is your longest denial period?

Mmm I have never kept track, because I never tried to deny myself for a long period... Should I try?

[Strangest]

I was in a dynamic awhile back where my orgasms were controlled for a little over a year. During that time it was uncommon for me to cum more than once a week and I think the longest period was about three weeks. For me it made thinking about sex and my partner a much bigger part of my day. I might suggest trying to find pleasure in knowing that your partner is enjoying your sexual frustration. And I would definitely practice edging. You will have accidents for sure, but tell your partner and I'm sure they will enjoy punishing you for them.

[degrademeplease]

Originally Posted by CuriousOlderMale

i have a chastity cage. The cage can't be worn for long periods, as it causes some physical issues. i've found that i can sleep without the cage and the need to cum is not so great overnight. i put on the cage first thing, just after i wake. i take it off as I'm leaving for work.

Being denied makes me so horny that it's hard to concentrate on work and other matters, so the desire to cum just to help my concentration is great. My longest period of denial was 28 days and there were a few stages i went through. The longer i was denied, the more i wanted to be denied. i started to see myself as having a penis that could only pee and never have sexual relief. i can certainly imagine being permanently unable to wank or cum. However, during the first few days, i just want to look at porn and get relief.

What else would you like to know? You're welcome to kik me.

This is interesting to read. Thank you for sharing.

The longest I've gone is three weeks and during that time, there were times I wanted to go longer to please Sir. The ultimate goal was one month, but in the end it was too difficult for me.

[degrademeplease]

Originally Posted by GivingWantingDares

Mmm I have never kept track, because I never tried to deny myself for a long period... Should I try?

That's up to you

[degrademeplease]

Originally Posted by Strangest

I was in a dynamic awhile back where my orgasms were controlled for a little over a year. During that time it was uncommon for me to cum more than once a week and I think the longest period was about three weeks. For me it made thinking about sex and my partner a much bigger part of my day. I might suggest trying to find pleasure in knowing that your partner is enjoying your sexual frustration. And I would definitely practice edging. You will have accidents for sure, but tell your partner and I'm sure they will enjoy punishing you for them.

I can relate to this a lot. I find I want a lot of attention from Sir when I am being denied. It does make me happy that Sir is getting pleasure from my frustration.

I do sometimes edge and tease myself during denial but I often do this in the earlier stages. After a while, it gets too hard to do that and stay denied. I would prefer not to have accidents because punishments make me sad. I want to be a good obedient girl