Do You Like Receiving PM Dares?

[Sola the Ichinensei]

Just a simple question I'd love to hear your honest thoughts about. To elaborate more perhaps:

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
2. Do you like your own PM dares?
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?

For any of these questions, rather than just yes/no answers, I'd be grateful if you could elaborate.

Thank you for your time and attention.

[wolf82]

I don't have PM dares any more, as I came to realize they weren't my cup of tea.

But, to answer this from the perspective of the (brief) period of having PM dares ....

1. I did. It was exciting as I waited for the site to load as I wondered whether or not I'd have one awaiting me. The aspect of seeing who it was from was interesting too. Some of them were from users I only knew since we'd posted in the same thread(s).

2. I did like them, but like I mentioned earlier I came to find I really wasn't turned on by doing dares. I mean, I knew for awhile I was a dom and just wanted to test the waters to see what'd it be like to do small, simple PM dares.

3. No, I believe in being completely honest. Some of the dares (ie, wedgies) were uncomfortable especially when the dare involved the maximum allotment I allowed. In those instances, I noted that it was uncomfortable but nonetheless was still glad that person took the time to send me something.

[Thifr]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Yes I like. It's one of the reasons why I did a pm list :-)
Finally, it's the goal of this site, playing and doing dares.

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yes I like them. Maybe a bit annoyed sometimes by the "adding one", sometimes, the dare sended doesn't match my likes or what I expect in a kinky dare, but I like to discover new things...

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
Actually, when I do a dare, I write report at the moment more or less. It's always honest so the sender can read what I think of the dare. How I feel about it. So, no I don't try to be polite, just because it's more polite ^^ I prefer honesty finally.

[HairbrushMe]

Just a simple question I'd love to hear your honest thoughts about. To elaborate more perhaps:

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue? Sure. It is always a little tingling feeling when you see the PM window pop up.
2. Do you like your own PM dares? Doing them? Well, they are fine and I don’t mind getting those PM assignments and seeing which ones get picked. It’s always interesting when someone takes a moment to add to or elaborate on a PM. Like “here is how I want you to to XXX”
3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite? I don’t think I would lie about liking doing a dare, but I would still try to be polite if it wasn’t my cup of tea. Different types of tea is part of the fun.

For any of these questions, rather than just yes/no answers, I'd be grateful if you could elaborate.

Thank you for your time and attention.

[leadbet]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?

Yes-unexpected interactions with people are my favorite!

2. Do you like your own PM dares?

Most yes....not a big fan of spanks but was told to put them there

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?

No-but just because i don't like it doesn't mean i won't do it.

[Yourchoice]

Yes, as long as they are simple and quick and by a female. It’s fun to be told to do something by a random female, even if it’s simple. I’ve received quite a few over time.

[b7302]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
This is the most exciting thing about GD - a clear yes

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yes my PM dares mostly reflect my likes, some are pushing the limits a little... and usually if you find someone really interested in giving you dares they'll start pushing our limits soon anyways

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
I'll thank them for making the effort to send me dares - but I'll tell them also if I didn't enjoy the dare itself, hoping they are not being cruel and use this as an incentive to give me the same dare again

[Ponies]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?


Yes, and I also like sending them to others out of the blue as well.

2. Do you like your own PM dares?

Some more then others... I tend to modify my list of PM Dares quite often and weed out the ones I don't like or receive too often. It's also interesting that while my list is rather big and changes a lot, there are some that have never even been used after months, and a few that are used all the time.

Some dares I don't really enjoy the task, but I do enjoy the potential humiliation from it (like mail time)

I also have some that I really don't like doing (like butt paste), but at the same time love the idea of being forced to do them.

Some dares I may not enjoy alone, but I like when asked to send proof (like bully cut/buzz, sparkles or collar)


3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?


No, I am pretty honest about ones I don't like to do when I have the opportunity to talk to the giver about it. (Mouth soaping comes quickly to mind)

Also in some cases (partly may fault for posting way too often in the pm thread) I may have 2 of the same dare given but with different which can cause issues. (Such as overlapping nail polish dares)



I think a big part of why I enjoy and keep an up to dare list of PM Dares is that it is not only mostly things I enjoy but I see it as an extension of my likes/dislikes that people can use when making other dares.

At the end of the day my list changes with my mood as you may see some major categories have come and gone and come back again over the years but I do not see myself stopping PM dares anytime soon. Mostly I do prefer trying to be creative or different with some of them, rather then having all of them being a basic task.

[LilyInDenial]

1
Dares out of the blue. Yes.
I like the randomness of unexpected contact like that.

2
I don't send dares, so, NA.

3
No.
I try to be clear in what I'm looking for. If a dare isn't my kinda thing I say so. I don't view that as any kind of put down, that it
is a bad dare. Just that is not something that I'm into.

[Emalice9]

I don’t have pm dares but I do like recieving random ones that are fun, I’ve told people no to stupid or just plain boring ones before, we all on here to have fun so no use pretending to be polite but maybe provide a reason i always try to

[drwarschauu]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Definitely yes. I especially like getting them on kik, so I get surprised and immediately have to do them, no matter what I was doing.

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yes, I do. I think there's a good variety.

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
I wouldn't, but I do usually like doing stuff I didn't like, just because I was made to do it.

[Humantoilet28]

Yes I do pm me all

[Dice7]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
As in new rules to add to the PM dare? Not out of the blue, maybe with some discussion. Do I like it when people randomly PM me about my current PM dare? Yes its exciting

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yes its fun not knowing what I might be doing at any given moment

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
No, I wouldn't be rude about it (unless they were pushing it too much) but I would be honest and say it doesn't do anything for me

[sm_limb]

Just a simple question I'd love to hear your honest thoughts about. To elaborate more perhaps:

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?
Yes i do if they are within my limits

2. Do you like your own PM dares?
Yes i do

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?
If i dont like it i tell them

For any of these questions, rather than just yes/no answers, I'd be grateful if you could elaborate.

Thank you for your time and attention.

[RinOkumura]

1. Do you like it when people send you PM dares out of the blue?

kitten loves when people send her pm dares it give her something to do when she gets bored

2. Do you like your own PM dares?

Yup kitten loves her pm dares there mostly kitten play related and they make her feel like a cute little kitty while doing them

3. Would you tell people you liked doing a dare even if you actually didn't, just to be polite?

That kinda depends if kitten just found it boring than she just probably won’t reply but if she didn’t like doing it in a dislike punishment kind of way she will really tell them how much she didn’t like doing it