What do girls want to see?

MikeDyson · 01-05-2014, 06:10 PM

The albums on here and KinkTalk are full of cocks and cross dressing, but most girls seem dissinterested in those albums. So a question for the girls. . . what would you like to see guys doing in their pics?

minimarshmellow · 01-05-2014, 07:48 PM

I would most like a head-shot of a man with prominent features, with a beard. Not one of those "I think birds live in there" but one of those beards that is only about 1/2 inch long. I know that is probably not what you are looking for, but it's what I like.

MikeDyson · 01-06-2014, 02:25 AM

Not at all, I'm interested in hearing whatever you'd want to see (though I'll admit I wasn't expecting anyone to reply asking for a photo of something 1/2 inch long). My ability to give you that album may be limitted by my lack of beard & features, sadly.

Red · 01-06-2014, 03:07 AM

I would like to see pictures of them having fun with friends (but not with a bunch of alcohol or smoking, just not into that), or out at the beach (or somewhere else) just enjoying themselves.

I don't understand why guys think that we want to see their cocks.

Sjak · 01-06-2014, 04:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redhead18

I would like to see pictures of them having fun with friends (but not with a bunch of alcohol or smoking, just not into that), or out at the beach (or somewhere else) just enjoying themselves.

I don't understand why guys think that we want to see their cocks.

Exactly, if we wanted to see that we would most likely ask for it just like guys keep begging sometimes for pictures...

Pictures with people enjoying themselves/daily activities are much more interesting in my opinion

switch-dude · 01-06-2014, 04:15 AM

Oh my GOOOOOD! I would never dream that girl who are into BDSM would like to see guys enjoying themselfs.
I would expect something more fetish,I don't understand girl at all!
Do you masturbate to a pic of a guy walking his dog????
Or some BDSM fetish pics????

minimarshmellow · 01-06-2014, 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by switch-dude

Oh my GOOOOOD! I would never dream that girl who are into BDSM would like to see guys enjoying themselfs.
I would expect something more fetish,I don't understand girl at all!
Do you masturbate to a pic of a guy walking his dog????
Or some BDSM fetish pics????

No one said this was a "what do you fap to" picture. He simply asked what we want to see. We want to see more bearded men enjoying time with their friends.

MikeDyson · 01-06-2014, 12:49 PM

Thanks for your answers, really interesting.

I'm with @switch-dude in surprise that you'd want that on GetDare, rather than using Facebook for your fix of holiday snaps...

But thinking about it, it does make sense; when I PM people on here I try to get to know them, since there's an intimacy in that / that's what makes GetDare more interesting than some generic porn site (if we were only here for pics, there are better places on the net, apparantly); you're talking with real people, so pics from their life satisfies your curiousity around anonymous strangers.
I definitely prefer pictures where I can see the other person's face and something to show it's them and not a random pic from the internet; and that's more exciting than whatever flesh may be on show; but if it's just a facebook photo I can see that sort of thing anywhere, so would want something more on this site.

Is it about intimacy/a connection with a stranger? If not, how come you're interested in seeing those pics on here* when similar stuff's available elsewhere?

[* whilst my question wasn't "what do you fap to", I was thinking of this site when asking; though didn't make that clear originally].

switch-dude · 01-06-2014, 01:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by minimarshmellow

No one said this was a "what do you fap to" picture. He simply asked what we want to see. We want to see more bearded men enjoying time with their friends.

Oh you mean non-sexual ,oh ok that's good I understand now,thank you!

Happy Me · 01-08-2014, 05:54 PM

I really don't care for dick-pics, or half-naked selfies taken in bathroom mirrors. In fact they quite turn me off when it is a random stranger. Now, once I am playing with someone and enjoying it, and ask for it, whole different thing.
Pictures here to me are about a connection with other people. I don't come here for pictures to fap to, I come here for stories to fap to, or people to talk to that I can fap with. If I wanted pictures to fap to, I would go somewhere else.

And yes, someone outside (or inside I guess) doing something fun with their friends. Something that shows a bit of personality. That would be what I want to see.

subgirlx · 01-08-2014, 06:25 PM

While I'll agree with everyone in saying that something that shows more of who you are is always fun, I'm always up for a nice topless pic of a fit guy...

SaraMueller · 01-08-2014, 06:46 PM

Yeah but abs though.

Happy Me · 01-08-2014, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SaraMueller

Yeah but abs though.

LOL. ^ you are awesome. Abs are nice too. Just not some creepy half-naked selfie in the bathroom mirror.

Esp. not those ones were you can see the cord from the phone.

SlutGirl76 · 01-08-2014, 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SaraMueller

Yeah but abs though.

Yes, I like to see fit men with abs, i dont care for pictures of peoples dicks but i wouldnt mind it with they were fit and all but i shouldnt be talking since i wont even take a picture of myself. I still want to take down my avatar pic but i have receive some compliments that made me keep it. I also agree with everyone else though because i would love to see picture of men just enjoying themselves

slimjack69 · 01-20-2014, 09:39 PM

the same as i want to see
Cock dicks penis naked guys

01-05-2014, 06:10 PM	#1
MikeDyson Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 2	What do girls want to see? The albums on here and KinkTalk are full of cocks and cross dressing, but most girls seem dissinterested in those albums. So a question for the girls. . . what would you like to see guys doing in their pics? __________________ 28 / m / straight / uk More PM me TEA and I'll have a cup of tea. Random PMs welcome.

01-05-2014, 07:48 PM	#2
minimarshmellow Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: USA Posts: 773 Blog Entries: 26	I would most like a head-shot of a man with prominent features, with a beard. Not one of those "I think birds live in there" but one of those beards that is only about 1/2 inch long. I know that is probably not what you are looking for, but it's what I like. __________________ [COLOR="Blue"] Mini. 30. She/Her. Married. Asexual. Certified Professional Hypnotist. Wholesomely Evil. Neurodivergent. Official Snack Professional. Ask me all of your hypnosis questions HERE!

01-06-2014, 02:25 AM	#3
MikeDyson Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 2	Not at all, I'm interested in hearing whatever you'd want to see (though I'll admit I wasn't expecting anyone to reply asking for a photo of something 1/2 inch long). My ability to give you that album may be limitted by my lack of beard & features, sadly. __________________ 28 / m / straight / uk More PM me TEA and I'll have a cup of tea. Random PMs welcome.

01-06-2014, 04:15 AM	#6
switch-dude Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Serbia Posts: 193	Oh my GOOOOOD! I would never dream that girl who are into BDSM would like to see guys enjoying themselfs. I would expect something more fetish,I don't understand girl at all! Do you masturbate to a pic of a guy walking his dog???? Or some BDSM fetish pics???? __________________ Hey I'm a switch PM me self-bondage I will send reports and pics. Likes\| bondage,CBT,nipple torture,orgasm control,humiliation,JOI,semi-public Dislikes\| time out,lines,ice Limits\| poop family public enema Like to try" soap,pee KINK EVER ON!!!!

01-06-2014, 12:49 PM	#8
MikeDyson Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 168 Blog Entries: 2	Thanks for your answers, really interesting. I'm with @switch-dude in surprise that you'd want that on GetDare, rather than using Facebook for your fix of holiday snaps... But thinking about it, it does make sense; when I PM people on here I try to get to know them, since there's an intimacy in that / that's what makes GetDare more interesting than some generic porn site (if we were only here for pics, there are better places on the net, apparantly); you're talking with real people, so pics from their life satisfies your curiousity around anonymous strangers. I definitely prefer pictures where I can see the other person's face and something to show it's them and not a random pic from the internet; and that's more exciting than whatever flesh may be on show; but if it's just a facebook photo I can see that sort of thing anywhere, so would want something more on this site. Is it about intimacy/a connection with a stranger? If not, how come you're interested in seeing those pics on here* when similar stuff's available elsewhere? [* whilst my question wasn't "what do you fap to", I was thinking of this site when asking; though didn't make that clear originally]. __________________ 28 / m / straight / uk More PM me TEA and I'll have a cup of tea. Random PMs welcome.

01-06-2014, 03:07 AM	#4
Red Sona Forever Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 2,146	I would like to see pictures of them having fun with friends (but not with a bunch of alcohol or smoking, just not into that), or out at the beach (or somewhere else) just enjoying themselves. I don't understand why guys think that we want to see their cocks.

01-08-2014, 05:54 PM	#10
Happy Me Moderator Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 2,092 Blog Entries: 15	I really don't care for dick-pics, or half-naked selfies taken in bathroom mirrors. In fact they quite turn me off when it is a random stranger. Now, once I am playing with someone and enjoying it, and ask for it, whole different thing. Pictures here to me are about a connection with other people. I don't come here for pictures to fap to, I come here for stories to fap to, or people to talk to that I can fap with. If I wanted pictures to fap to, I would go somewhere else. And yes, someone outside (or inside I guess) doing something fun with their friends. Something that shows a bit of personality. That would be what I want to see. __________________ What a beautiful thought it is that some of the best days of our lives haven't happened yet. I’m sick, please be nice.

01-08-2014, 06:25 PM	#11
subgirlx Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: EST, usa Posts: 106 Blog Entries: 4	While I'll agree with everyone in saying that something that shows more of who you are is always fun, I'm always up for a nice topless pic of a fit guy... __________________ My kinktalk profile. NOT LOOKING FOR A MASTER/MISTRESS nor to be one, don't ask!

01-08-2014, 06:46 PM	#12
SaraMueller Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: On top of a bundle of my own desires. Posts: 52 Blog Entries: 2	Yeah but abs though. __________________ "Serenity and Scope." One day when you open your mail, You shall find a shiny collar made of leather. At that day you will know, That you are truly mine And no one else's. -Sara

01-20-2014, 09:39 PM	#15
slimjack69 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: PERTH WA Posts: 4	the same as i want to see Cock dicks penis naked guys