NB femme switch - first AMA - bored and lonely.

[I Obey]

Heyo - This is my first AMA. I am a non binary femme queer switch. Finding myself with weird gaps of time on my hands and it feels lonely. Let's entertain each other AMA.

Check out my profile for random snippets of who I am and have been. Ask me questions to really get to know me.

[Wam_Switch]

What’s been your most memorable dare/experience you’ve gotten or given during all your time on the site?

[Makak]

How big are you tits?

[I Obey]

Originally Posted by Wam_Switch

What’s been your most memorable dare/experience you’ve gotten or given during all your time on the site?

Oh that is diffcult I have been on this site since I was 18
I have been extremely lucky to meet a few folks in person off here. I also had been in a long term TPE for 6 years - some wild and amazing firsts were explored.

What's coming to mind is doing an intense interrogation scene. It started the night before with some light sleep deprivation. By the time I got to the scene I was in a great state of mind. I had to not reveal a password to them and they made it impossible not too. Lots of stress positions, impact play and a level of intensity I had never experienced. I was a happy floaty mess by the end of it all.

[I Obey]

Originally Posted by Makak

How big are you tits?

Huge . 38H - More than a handful I've been told.

[Makak]

Originally Posted by I Obey

Huge . 38H - More than a handful I've been told.

Wau, really big and really nice.

[shorttermslav]

Originally Posted by I Obey

Huge . 38H - More than a handful I've been told.

That seems accurate from the photo. When (if ever) do you wish they were smaller?

[Michaela-Is-Sweet]

Hi, I jus wanted to say I am excited to see all of your answers! I love AMA's!

Here are some of mine.

1. How did you first become interested in kink?
2. What are your top three kinks or fetishes?
3. How do you define 'kink' in your own terms?
4. What was your first kinky experience like?
5. How do you negotiate consent and boundaries?
6. Can you share a particularly memorable kinky experience?
7. What misconceptions about kink would you like to clear up?
8. How do you balance your kinky life with other aspects of your life?
9. What's your favorite piece of kinky gear or toy?
10. How has your approach to kink evolved over time?

[I Obey]

Originally Posted by shorttermslav

That seems accurate from the photo. When (if ever) do you wish they were smaller?

Haha yeah the photo is good for that. I have wanted them smaller every time I had too run somewhere. I spent alot of school age years hating them. Then realized I loved them well I realized boys loved them.

I still sometimes want top surgery.

[I Obey]

Originally Posted by Michaela-Is-Sweet

Hi, I jus wanted to say I am excited to see all of your answers! I love AMA's!

Here are some of mine.

1. How did you first become interested in kink?
2. What are your top three kinks or fetishes?
3. How do you define 'kink' in your own terms?
4. What was your first kinky experience like?
5. How do you negotiate consent and boundaries?
6. Can you share a particularly memorable kinky experience?
7. What misconceptions about kink would you like to clear up?
8. How do you balance your kinky life with other aspects of your life?
9. What's your favorite piece of kinky gear or toy?
10. How has your approach to kink evolved over time?

1. I feel like I was into kink once I started masturbating growing up so 15 ish? I didn't have the words at first but I grew up with a laptop alone in my bedroom. I found the words quickly. I had a lot of fantasies around hazing and being bossed around.
2. High Protocol, Cuckolding, Impact play (hit me hard please). I'm also bootblack I love leather.
3. Kink to me is the fun flavours in our sexual sundae. It's hot chocolate fudge, cherries and all the good things.
4. First one that comes to mind is very positive I had a highschool boyfriend who was also kinky - us slowly trying to explore that without revealing to much to each other was fun. He would pull my hair, I'd moan and squirm. He slapped my ass once and I reacted very positively. Slowly we put the pieces together.
5. Consent is mandatory and fucking sexy. I use to teach a 30 min intro to consent and kink for a few year before kink events. I love all things consent, open communication and neogiation. Personally I like to neogiate over writing I feel like it's easier to refer back too. But I have also neogiated a scene in person vs like a tpe dynamic. There are handy lists out there to reference and make sure you've covered all the bases.
6. I got to ride a Symbian for a few hours as a way to fundraise money for a local kink club. People paided to keep me on it, to adjust the settings. To cum or to stop me from getting to cum. It was an amazing night.
7. Hmmm I'm not sure - kink is complicated and does have risks - we need to practice safely.
8. I have had kink as part of my day to day for a long time. I find kink makes my day to day easier and better. I like the structure kink brings to my life. I have learned to make sure I have the a good amount of time to recover from scenes before expecting to much from myself.
9. I have too many toys to pick! I just got a new leather harness that I deeply love. I have a great leather strap on as well it has a corset back and is so nice. I also love my tentacle dildo!
10. I am more cautious now - kink has hurt me sadly. I am picky about who I play with vs when I started I'd play with almost anyone.

Thsbk you for the questions