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Old 08-09-2021, 06:06 AM   #1
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Default F/20 bondage lover and kink curious

Hi there.

I'm a 20 year old woman from Europe and have recently joined Getdare to get inspired and discover new kinks. I'm somewhat experienced with bondage, and this is also my main focus - as you may have guessed from my user name. You can call me Cass or Cassandra, but that's only an alias, not my real name.

Feel free to ask me anything, including personal and embarrassing questions. However, I won't give detailed information about my place of living, and where I work, nor answer questions about my identity (real name, e-mail, birthday, etc).
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Old 08-09-2021, 06:53 AM   #2
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Welcome! How much of your bondage experience has been solo and how much has been with a partner?
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Old 08-09-2021, 07:37 AM   #3
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Welcome! How much of your bondage experience has been solo and how much has been with a partner?
Thank you. I've had bondage sessions with a few different people and we've tried a number of positions and scenarios. Classics like the hogtie, frogtie, etc. I was tied to a chair and later spread-eagled onto a bed during an interrogation role play and we did mummifcation several times. I was tied up outdoors too but on private ground where nobody could look.

However, despite a lot of sessions with partners, I've begun with self-bondage very early, and although I didn't do it frequently, those experiments kindled the fascination for bondage more and more over time, and also taught me what my body can endure and what can go wrong.

In conclusion, I'd say I've learned much when doing self-bondage and discovered more aspects as I started to do it with partners. Self-bondage is a lot more technical and logical because I am myself responsible for making it safe and enjoyable and have to plan everything. With a partner, every emotion is intensified and I can enjoy it more.
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Old 08-09-2021, 08:13 AM   #4
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Welcome.
Do you have any specific kinks in mind when you say you want to explore?
Do you have any bad/ panicking experiences with self-bondage?

Do you prefer winter or summer?
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Old 08-09-2021, 08:21 AM   #5
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I also have a lot of experience with self bondage, and you are correct safety and planning is key!

What is your go to method for release while self bondage?
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Old 08-09-2021, 09:01 AM   #6
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HiCassandra, welcome!

What is you favorite self bondage position / scenario?
What humiliation do you like?

What is your favorite book?
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Old 08-09-2021, 10:28 AM   #7
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I also have a lot of experience with self bondage, and you are correct safety and planning is key!

What is your go to method for release while self bondage?
My main methods are freezing a key in ice or solving a combination lock blindly. But more than half of the time I just keep the keys within reach of my hands and free myself when I want to and it's still great.
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Old 08-09-2021, 10:21 AM   #8
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Welcome.
Do you have any specific kinks in mind when you say you want to explore?
Do you have any bad/ panicking experiences with self-bondage?

Do you prefer winter or summer?
Thank you. I'll probably try most things that seem sane to me, I haven't anything particular in mind yet. I might have a chance soon to try electro stimulation/torture with someone. This will be new for me.

I've never felt panic during selfbondage. But there was some little accident. I had my hands tied with zip ties (wrists were padded for protection) whereas my legs were bound with ropes and I was gagged. It started all good and I tried to squirm and wriggled around until... I fell out of bed. At the same time the zip ties also ripped apart and I was free. All in all, I was lucky to remain uninjured. A year later I had bought a much wider bed, problem solved

I like winter more because I love the feeling of being in the cold outside and return to a cosy home, drink hot tea and wrap myself in a blanket. And I love snow.
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