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Male 27/male/sissy seeks any age/any sex/master in any place

27/male/sissy seeks any age/any sex/master in any place

Hiya! I’m Emmy, a 27 year old femboy/sissy who lives on the east coast of the US. I’m currently looking for a new long term dominant play partner. I’ve played with a bunch of different partners in the past, and the ones I’ve connected with I’ve served for months, and even years in some cases. Now that I am single once again, I am seeking a dominant interested in AB/DL and feminization. My hope is to find someone who will control my daily routine by giving me tasks and rules to change my appearance, routine, and mentality, and make my lifestyle into one befitting a pathetic baby girl.

About Me
To tell you a bit about myself, I am a 5’11” man with brown hair and brown eyes. I weigh about 170 pounds, and with the right makeup and a wig, I’ve been told that I can pass for a woman. That said, I almost always wear men’s clothes in public, though often dress pretty androgynously.

Outside of kink, you should know that I live alone in a large apartment. I’m a young professional with a career that is important to me, which means I’ll be busy working weekdays, but I am usually free after 5:00. Also I usually work from home, so aside from 1-2 days in the office per week and the occasional video call from home, I work totally alone from my apartment. My main interests are board and video games, cooking, anime, and hiking. I also have a pretty active social life, and will often spend most of my weekends hanging out with my friends, and sometimes travel with them. In the end, I’d like to make sure that I am able to balance a serious kink relationship by serving you in a way that does not seriously impact my ability to be successful at my job or spend time with my friends. Obviously, I’m willing to bend things around in order to serve you, but respecting my life outside of kink is very important to me!

Finally, speaking of kink, I have been doing this sort of thing for nearly 10 years! As a result I have a pretty big wardrobe of dresses, skirts, onesies, and other girly clothes, not to mention a decent amount of sex toys. As well, I obviously have a bunch of diapers in my closet, as well and bottles, pacifiers, stuffies, and other babyish things. That said, if you decide there are clothes or toys that I am lacking, I’m happy to purchase new things as needed, up to a reasonable point.

What am I looking for?
Over the years, I’ve served a variety of different masters and mistresses. I’ve learned I am pretty flexible as far as physical characteristics go for a play partner. Age, sex, and appearance do not particularly matter to me. If you are an experienced dom and a good communicator who is interested in forming a real bond with me beyond just a one off kinky fling, then we’ll do well together. The three most important traits I am looking for are the ability to communicate, creativity, and respect for myself, my limits, and my life outside of kink.

Beyond personality traits, I’m also looking for someone who is ideally located in an American time zone, but if you’re otherwise a good fit and we can figure out a schedule that works I’ll also consider you. You should also be fluent in English and have good grammar! Finally, having a connection outside of kink is important to me. Developing a close friendship and conversing about more that just the scene at hand goes a long way toward building trust and a long term dynamic. I’d love to meet someone I remain connected with for a very long time!

As far as the structure of our relationship, I’d like something primarily text based, since I have a hectic work and social schedule. I envision things happening mostly asynchronously via text with pictures/videos as requested, and many written reports. Also, while I'm interested in tasks and rules, I'm not looking for someone to micromanage every aspect of my life. I’m flexible how things end up structured, as long as we communicate at least weekly, and I am not devoting every single moment of my free time to you.

Kinks
Getting into the core of this post, there’s three main kinks I’d like to explore in this D/s relationship. As I said above, my desire is to be molded and shaped by you to become more and more of a helpless sissy princess. Therefore, all three of the below kinks are essential to any play we’d do, but I’m also open to try new things as long as they’re not limits and fall within the general theme of things below:
  • Diapers: As you’d expect I’m looking for diapers to take a central role in a potential D/s relationship. Messing is kind of a soft limit for me, in that I don’t like doing it regularly, (see below for details) but I am totally fine with wetting. In fact, the idea of someone controlling my potty training is a massive turn on to me, and the idea someone of gradually making me diaper dependent, and especially conditioning me to become a bedwetter is very hot. Ideally I’d want to be made to wear as close to 24/7 as possible, and since I work mostly remotely I should be able to be kept in diapers at least a majority of the time. The only times I would not be comfortable being in diapers would be when I’m hanging out for extended periods with friends or at the office. Even then I’d be fine with being subjected to other kinds of underwear control during the times I can’t be padded: pull ups and adorable training panties do exist, after all.
  • Forced Regression: In addition to controlling my underwear, I’d also like you to mold and shape my mind and behavior to regress me into a baby girl. Define my daily routines, rewrite my interests and hobbies, and make me behave so childishly that no one could mistake me for a grown adult. This could probably veer into TPE territory if you desire. Control my clothing, my diet, what media I consume, whatever you want, as long as it is done with the purpose of infantilizing me. So long as this doesn’t seriously affect my job, or how I interact with family/friends, I will give you free rein here and encourage you to be as creative as you want.
  • Feminization: Finally, feminization has always been a massive kink for me. I love being turned into a cute girly girl. In the past this has always meant becoming a super slutty bimbo, but now I’d like to go in the opposite direction. Any partner I play with should be interested in not just infantilizing me, but doing so in a way that makes me the cutest baby girl possible. Physically, that could look like wearing plenty of frilly dresses around the house with adorable makeup, and mentally, making sure there’s tons of unicorns, princesses, and pink in my life.


Other likes I have: Humiliation, hypnosis/conditioning, writing tasks, emasculation, butt plugs, porn control/orgasm denial, prejac/quickshot training

There’s also a few limits, or at least things I’m iffy about:
  • Messing: As said above, right now messing in diapers is a bit of a limit for me. I just find it annoying to clean up, smelly and not particularly fun. That said, I am willing to be forced to mess myself as a punishment for breaking rules. So while I would like to use my diapers primarily for wetting at this time, I’m not totally opposed to messing, and could be willing to explore and slowly work up to doing it more if we really hit things off.
  • Public: While I’m fine doing semi public play like wearing diapers under normal clothes, or exposing myself in a secluded area where no one else is, I do not want to subject non-consenting bystanders to my kink. As a result, any kind of play involving blatantly exposing myself to the general public is off limits. Likewise, I will not intentionally expose myself to family or friends.
  • Face pics: This is mostly related to trust, and only a just at first. I am more than willing to share pics and videos but to start I will not show my face, at least until I feel that we’ve built up sufficient connection and trust. In previous relationships, this has meant about a month or two of play together before I show my face to you, and after that I’ll show as much or as little as you want.

Other additional limits: Repeated/Forced Orgasms, Sounding, Pee/poop eating, CBT, WAM, blood, vomit, blackmail

Say hi to me!
If you’ve made it this far and like what you’ve read, shoot me a DM! I am hoping I’ll find someone that’s a good fit and I am excited to hear from you all. We’ll start by PM’ing a bit on GD but if we hit it off, I have both a Kik and Discord that I can share and that we’ll talk way more on!
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