Questions for those who love sex and have it regularly

[Jaro]

Here are some questions for those of you who love sex and have it (very) often. By "sex" I mean any act that involves physical arousal caused by physical sexual contact with a real life partner. Masturbation, kissing, simple cuddling and online/virtual sex do not count.

Please, only vote in the poll if you intend to answer the other questions here as well.

• First, please vote in the poll which label you identify with. Please explain your choice and - if you chose 'other' - which other label you identify with and why. (note that you can interpret the labels any way works for you. You don't have to take them literally)
• Now, how often, on average, do you have sex?
• How many different partners have you had sex with in your life 'till now?
• Do you think is is enough? If not, how often would you ideally have sex? How many partners?
• Are love and sex linked for you? Or do you view them as (very) seperate? Please explain.
• How easily do you have sex with somebody new? How 'picky' are you?
• Do you (sometimes) feel ashamed about your sex life? Why?
• Could you/would you make sex your profession, e.g. be a prostitute or porn star? Why?

[Jaro]

So I guess most here don't have sex regularly.
I do find it a bit upsetting that I still got votes of people without them answering the questions.

[Jaro]

One more try ....

[anal_dyke]

Why not...

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First, please vote in the poll which label you identify with. Please explain your choice and - if you chose 'other' - which other label you identify with and why. (note that you can interpret the labels any way works for you. You don't have to take them literally)

I’m choosing other. I like being called slut or whore, but I can’t really say I would consider myself either of those. I’m also not addicted to sex, I don’t think I’m a pervert, and I tend to be submissive but I wouldn’t say I’ve ever been anyone’s slave...maybe I’d consider myself an enthusiast lol

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[*]Now, how often, on average, do you have sex?

3-4 times each week probably. I live with my girlfriend, we both have pretty high sex drives.

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[*]How many different partners have you had sex with in your life 'till now?

I don’t know exactly, maybe around 20-25 or so?

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[*]Do you think is is enough? If not, how often would you ideally have sex? How many partners?

I think it’s enough, it wasn’t ever a game for me where I felt like I needed to add to my score or collect more orgasms. I guess even though I’m not poly, I would probably have sex with more people just for new experiences if that wouldn’t harm my relationship, I just don’t feel any special desire to.

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[*]Are love and sex linked for you? Or do you view them as (very) seperate? Please explain.

No, they’re separate things. I’ve fucked lots of people I didn’t love, but love does make it better IMO

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[*]How easily do you have sex with somebody new? How 'picky' are you?

Pretty easily. I wouldn’t sleep with just anyone, but I did have a phase in college where I had a series of hookups and figured out what I was actually looking for.

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[*]Do you (sometimes) feel ashamed about your sex life? Why?

No.

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[*]Could you/would you make sex your profession, e.g. be a prostitute or porn star? Why?

I would have probably liked the option to at one point in my life, but I have a really good career now and I wouldn’t want to change that. Toward the end of college I would have considered it as a kinda fun way to pay the bills maybe, but I don’t think I would have really gone through with it.

[LingerieAnal]

First, please vote in the poll which label you identify with. Please explain your choice and why.
I voted for these labels: Slut, Whore, Pervert & Sex Addict. I am really addicted to sex and like being a slut or whore as I am pretty perverted in my opinion.

Now, how often, on average, do you have sex?
On average twice a week with a fuck buddy.

How many different partners have you had sex with in your life 'till now?
13 (10 male, 1 female, 2 shemale)

Do you think it is enough? If not, how often would you ideally have sex? How many partners?
I'd like to have sex every day, that would be wonderful, but I'm also fine with twice a week. As I'm still young I hope many partners will be added to the list.

Are love and sex linked for you? Or do you view them as (very) separate?
They do not have to be linked, but can be. So in a great relationship love can be an important part of sex but it works just as good without.

How easily do you have sex with somebody new? How 'picky' are you?
It depends hardly on my mood, sometimes I can be really picky and other times I'm pretty easy.

Do you (sometimes) feel ashamed about your sex life? Why?
Sometimes a bit because of my perverted mind, but I guess I also like it a lot

Could you/would you make sex your profession, e.g. be a prostitute or porn star? Why?
No. In a fantasy, it might be super hot and all, but in reality being a prostitute is a really hard job. A porn star would be too public, I'd rather enjoy myself without millions watching me online.