When did your kinks start?

andrew_b · 09-27-2017, 06:43 AM

I understand that people on here may only have one or two or many kinks but what age did you start getting them?

kurious kat · 09-27-2017, 07:05 AM

My first experience tying sexuality to kink came at age 18, when a boyfriend pinned me down during play-wrestling. I was unprepared for the strength of my response to it!

But as early as 8 or 10, there was evidence of internalized kink. At that age my fantasy world wasn't sexualized in the least, but I remember spending a lot of time pretending I'd been captured by bandits and forced to obey their devious commands.

andrew_b · 09-27-2017, 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by kurious kat

My first experience tying sexuality to kink came at age 18, when a boyfriend pinned me down during play-wrestling. I was unprepared for the strength of my response to it!

But as early as 8 or 10, there was evidence of internalized kink. At that age my fantasy world wasn't sexualized in the least, but I remember spending a lot of time pretending I'd been captured by bandits and forced to obey their devious commands.

I actually have a similar experience when I was younger too, when I was about the same age I used to imagine women were pinning me down.

It's amazing how early this stuff starts.

lill · 09-27-2017, 07:08 AM

probly around 8-10. i stared to fantizise about haveing women push things inside me, so i started to experiment with small objects until i moved to real toys when i could buy them.

andrew_b · 09-27-2017, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by lill

probly around 8-10. i stared to fantizise about haveing women push things inside me, so i started to experiment with small objects until i moved to real toys when i could buy them.

Wow and how young were you when you started trying?

lill · 09-27-2017, 07:20 AM

i was about 11 when i stared with small bottles.

andrew_b · 09-27-2017, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by lill

i was about 11 when i stared with small bottles.

That is damn young alright

TrisPrior · 09-27-2017, 01:41 PM

In third grade i think. Def by fourth.

Truckernaut42 · 09-29-2017, 07:46 PM

Pretty early in life. I was exposed to porn at a young age because my parents didn't know how to block things on the internet and I saw a few porn ads and it kind of sprouted me a bit early. Weirdly enough I used to have fantasies about dropping my pants for fun in kindergarden though, but it was more for humour than sexual but eventually it grew to the idea of "what would it be like to be naked outside?" and in junior high I started looking at videos and pictures of women doing that and it was amazing and it basically formed my exhibitionism to what it is today. Any other minor kinks I have I kind of got from girlfriends who were into weird stuff but nothing too notable. When I was pretty young, maybe 12, I was staying over at my grandparents in the winter and tried a few times to sneak outside naked but I was always too scared.

NinjaDog · 09-29-2017, 08:19 PM

I had an interest in submissive type things at a very young age. Sometime around early elementary. Probably 7 or 8 years old. Whenever my friends and I would play a game where someone was the weaker or captive party I would always try to make sure it was me.

When my friends and I would "wrestle?" I would always let myself lose so I could be the one being pinned down. Then whoever the winner was had to wedgie the loser and then we started over.

I loved hide and seek when there were small cramped places I could hide in and pretend to be held captive. I vividly remember playing cops and robbers (I was the robber) and I insisted that they put me in a close-able plastic tub that we had while someone sat on top so I could struggle to escape.

I always thought it was weird that I had an interest in these things. It wasn't until late high school that I discovered there were communities for things like this and that it was something that could be done in a sexual way. I never talked about it and just assumed it was something weird about me I was supposed to keep secret. It's always been fun to me to have someone else take charge or leave me in a predicament, in a controlled situation of course.

deliman · 09-30-2017, 04:29 AM

My Dad raped me on my 12th birthday. I came. What kind of whore cums from being raped by her Dad? That's when i realized that I AM a whore, a slut, a worthless fuck toy who's only purpose in life is to get that wet hole between her legs stuffed until she comes....and comes and comes and comes. Orgasms are the most important thing in life. So bad, so naughty....I'm so wet.

melbcuteboi · 10-02-2017, 10:47 AM

I would have found my first kink/fetish when I was 14 and my best friend at the time stayed over at mine. During a game of TorD he dared me to go through my sisters panty drawer and choose my favourite pair of panties then try them on a leave them on for the rest of the game. If it wasnt hot enough going through all the different types of panties already, once i had a foot through each opening on a pair i knew there was no going back and was extreamly turned on enjoying the lace against my skin as i pulled them up my legs.. Mmm...

TicklishGirlyArms · 03-03-2018, 04:40 AM

Most of mine started around 8 or 9.

Got a tickling fetish from my female babysitter at around 8, who used to tickle me mercilessly. Absolutely loved that.

Got a cold fetish when I was 6, when I wore shorts and it was snowing, and the cold wind felt thrilling on my bare thighs.

Got a leg fetish at 13, when I saw my crush in a little pleated skirt.

Got an arm fetish at about the same time as well when all the other boys got big muscley arms and they all teased me about my skinny little arms.

Got a fetish for being chased and caught when I was about 9, watching Cheetara racing Liono in Thundercats, and he just caught her at the end.

Asteroth · 03-03-2018, 06:02 AM

Hard to tell exactly, but I think somewhere in primary school. maybe at the age of 8? I fantasized about being tied and made to sweat I often tied my legs when alone, nothing really serious. Later I felt a desire of watching girls being abused and forced to do things. One of my earliest fantasies was to see a girl strapped to a fucking machine and forced to orgasm until she passes out.

Fun fact - it was long before I had internet so the idea of forced orgasms and fucking machines somehow appeared in my mind without external inspiration

stageek · 03-03-2018, 06:13 AM

For me it started at age 8, I played this Pokemon Mystery Dungeon at that time, and I found the idea of transforming into something else than human to be incrediblyv interesting.
I was really anchored in my fantasy world as a kid and I would build my fantasies around cthe transformation fetish (even though it wasn't really sexual at the time, just exciting)

Also got the fetish of being chased and caught with my sister as we used to play as kids, it wasn't sexual at the time either and it was around age 9.

When I was age 9-10 I had an accident where I fell from my scooter while racing to get to school, I flew and crashed myself on the ground, I was rather well injured and lost most of my skin on my face, on the back of my hands, knees and such...
We rushed to the hospital and I was healed there, but my face was covered in bandages, and now that I think about it today, it might have a rather big impact on my life, much more than I thought at that time. I stayed at home for a month just to be healed enough to have a an okay face. And I'll always remember when the doctor was mistaking me for a girl, and told me everything was going to be alright (at that time I had long hair, and my face was so damaged I could have been mistaken for both genders) and I think it flipped the switch for me to get more into my feminine feelings and such. (Do not worry most of the injuries where healed and I could go on about my life)

I also got a hint of an abdl fetish which came around age 11, I would dream of being swallowed by some giant or monster and I would land in a world of diapers (what went so wrong in my life ?!). Note that the last time I've worn diapers for actually peeing my bed was around age 12-13, funnily enough I didn't get a vore fetish from this weird fantasy.

Around age 14 I discovered masturbation as I was fantasizing about women applying make up on me, and that was the start for every single fetish I had: discovered hentai first, the feminization fetish, then the TG/TF fetish, and so on.

Got around hypnosis at age 15, and made my first hypnosis file at age 16 (at the time I was visiting warp my mind alot)

I've also gotten into crossdressing at age 15-16 or so...

Discovered anal and oral through faproulettes, back at the time when the site had less than 200 roulettes (it's such a big site now!)

Then I got into videos and pictures when I had a hypno Master who would hypnotize me into sending him videos, pictures, hypnotizing into living all sorts of fantasies and it went as far as me giving him my full name (so yes he has full potential of blackmailing me and I have completely lost contact with him &#128514

but I trust him to do the right things.

Aaaand that's pretty much it, I might have forgotten stuff here and there, but I think I got the most important stuff out.

09-27-2017, 07:08 AM	#4
lill getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2017 Location: Under your boot(y) Posts: 393 Blog Entries: 4	probly around 8-10. i stared to fantizise about haveing women push things inside me, so i started to experiment with small objects until i moved to real toys when i could buy them. __________________ hi im lillian, i like lill, or duchess. . I'm 24 yo, gender fluid. send me your dick pics, i cant get enough,im a cock whore. kik: justmethistime12 im 6' 170lbs slim and semi fit likes and limits http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=82917 PM Dares http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?u=151102 i am a disgusting bitch on the male farm

09-27-2017, 07:20 AM	#6
lill getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2017 Location: Under your boot(y) Posts: 393 Blog Entries: 4	i was about 11 when i stared with small bottles. __________________ hi im lillian, i like lill, or duchess. . I'm 24 yo, gender fluid. send me your dick pics, i cant get enough,im a cock whore. kik: justmethistime12 im 6' 170lbs slim and semi fit likes and limits http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=82917 PM Dares http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?u=151102 i am a disgusting bitch on the male farm

09-27-2017, 01:41 PM	#8
TrisPrior Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: USA Posts: 129 Blog Entries: 1	In third grade i think. Def by fourth. __________________ 30 something, female, sub, in denial Each day I must edge once for every visitor message I have gotten so far this year! Current daily edge requirement=13 My PM dares (and toys) Loves: Teasing, Edging, Holding the Edge, Denial Likes: Pain, Spanking, Small Rules/Clothes Control Punishments: Ruined Orgasms, Anal, Buttplugs, Pussy/Clit Torture Hard Limits: Public, Messy, Pics/Cam, Blood, Risky/Illegal

09-29-2017, 07:46 PM	#9
Truckernaut42 getDare Devil Join Date: May 2012 Posts: 1,240 Blog Entries: 14	Pretty early in life. I was exposed to porn at a young age because my parents didn't know how to block things on the internet and I saw a few porn ads and it kind of sprouted me a bit early. Weirdly enough I used to have fantasies about dropping my pants for fun in kindergarden though, but it was more for humour than sexual but eventually it grew to the idea of "what would it be like to be naked outside?" and in junior high I started looking at videos and pictures of women doing that and it was amazing and it basically formed my exhibitionism to what it is today. Any other minor kinks I have I kind of got from girlfriends who were into weird stuff but nothing too notable. When I was pretty young, maybe 12, I was staying over at my grandparents in the winter and tried a few times to sneak outside naked but I was always too scared. __________________ Add my Facebook I love chatting about dirty fantasies, especially public nudity! https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100007149407768 For those under 5 inches, join the small dick club on FB https://www.facebook.com/groups/2901374083525592 Likes: nudity, sph, truths, public nudity, showing my penis As punishment for having a small penis I must show anyone who asks to see it a picture of it. Message me to see it anytime. I am no longer allowed to keep it private.

09-29-2017, 08:19 PM	#10
NinjaDog Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 135 Blog Entries: 12	I had an interest in submissive type things at a very young age. Sometime around early elementary. Probably 7 or 8 years old. Whenever my friends and I would play a game where someone was the weaker or captive party I would always try to make sure it was me. When my friends and I would "wrestle?" I would always let myself lose so I could be the one being pinned down. Then whoever the winner was had to wedgie the loser and then we started over. I loved hide and seek when there were small cramped places I could hide in and pretend to be held captive. I vividly remember playing cops and robbers (I was the robber) and I insisted that they put me in a close-able plastic tub that we had while someone sat on top so I could struggle to escape. I always thought it was weird that I had an interest in these things. It wasn't until late high school that I discovered there were communities for things like this and that it was something that could be done in a sexual way. I never talked about it and just assumed it was something weird about me I was supposed to keep secret. It's always been fun to me to have someone else take charge or leave me in a predicament, in a controlled situation of course. __________________ 27 / Female / Queer / Sub Last edited by NinjaDog; 09-29-2017 at 08:19 PM. Reason: color

09-27-2017, 06:43 AM	#1
andrew_b getDare Cultist (Outer Circle) Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Dublin, Ireland Posts: 11,066 Blog Entries: 20	When did your kinks start? I understand that people on here may only have one or two or many kinks but what age did you start getting them? __________________ *Best Truth Giver 2016 & 2017* My Real Experiences http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=81891 Send me a pm if you want, I'm always up for chatting to people CHECK OUT MY NEW FICTIONAL STORY "Pushed to Fantasy (On Vacation)" LINK BELOW https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthre...00#post4465100 I've also got snapchat, kik, skype and messenger. If you want to add me just send me a pm and I'll give you my username(s)

09-27-2017, 07:05 AM	#2
kurious kat getDare's Kinkiest Kitty Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 700 Blog Entries: 26	My first experience tying sexuality to kink came at age 18, when a boyfriend pinned me down during play-wrestling. I was unprepared for the strength of my response to it! But as early as 8 or 10, there was evidence of internalized kink. At that age my fantasy world wasn't sexualized in the least, but I remember spending a lot of time pretending I'd been captured by bandits and forced to obey their devious commands.

09-30-2017, 04:29 AM	#11
deliman Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Dallas Posts: 188	My Dad raped me on my 12th birthday. I came. What kind of whore cums from being raped by her Dad? That's when i realized that I AM a whore, a slut, a worthless fuck toy who's only purpose in life is to get that wet hole between her legs stuffed until she comes....and comes and comes and comes. Orgasms are the most important thing in life. So bad, so naughty....I'm so wet. __________________ 25/f/Dare me to do anything! Likes - Public Nudity, Public Masturbation, Public Sex, Family/Friends, Piss Play (receiving), being a slut Dislikes - Diapers, Pain Limits - Scat, Needles, Blood, anything that causes injury, ORGASM DENIAL! (have to come at least once a day!) I do NOT need, want or reply to anyone wanting to be my Master!

10-02-2017, 10:47 AM	#12
melbcuteboi Senior Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Melbourne Posts: 150	I would have found my first kink/fetish when I was 14 and my best friend at the time stayed over at mine. During a game of TorD he dared me to go through my sisters panty drawer and choose my favourite pair of panties then try them on a leave them on for the rest of the game. If it wasnt hot enough going through all the different types of panties already, once i had a foot through each opening on a pair i knew there was no going back and was extreamly turned on enjoying the lace against my skin as i pulled them up my legs.. Mmm...

03-03-2018, 04:40 AM	#13
TicklishGirlyArms Member Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: London Posts: 38	Most of mine started around 8 or 9. Got a tickling fetish from my female babysitter at around 8, who used to tickle me mercilessly. Absolutely loved that. Got a cold fetish when I was 6, when I wore shorts and it was snowing, and the cold wind felt thrilling on my bare thighs. Got a leg fetish at 13, when I saw my crush in a little pleated skirt. Got an arm fetish at about the same time as well when all the other boys got big muscley arms and they all teased me about my skinny little arms. Got a fetish for being chased and caught when I was about 9, watching Cheetara racing Liono in Thundercats, and he just caught her at the end.

03-03-2018, 06:02 AM	#14
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	Hard to tell exactly, but I think somewhere in primary school. maybe at the age of 8? I fantasized about being tied and made to sweat I often tied my legs when alone, nothing really serious. Later I felt a desire of watching girls being abused and forced to do things. One of my earliest fantasies was to see a girl strapped to a fucking machine and forced to orgasm until she passes out. Fun fact - it was long before I had internet so the idea of forced orgasms and fucking machines somehow appeared in my mind without external inspiration __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

03-03-2018, 06:13 AM	#15
stageek Member Join Date: Oct 2017 Posts: 52	For me it started at age 8, I played this Pokemon Mystery Dungeon at that time, and I found the idea of transforming into something else than human to be incrediblyv interesting. I was really anchored in my fantasy world as a kid and I would build my fantasies around cthe transformation fetish (even though it wasn't really sexual at the time, just exciting) Also got the fetish of being chased and caught with my sister as we used to play as kids, it wasn't sexual at the time either and it was around age 9. When I was age 9-10 I had an accident where I fell from my scooter while racing to get to school, I flew and crashed myself on the ground, I was rather well injured and lost most of my skin on my face, on the back of my hands, knees and such... We rushed to the hospital and I was healed there, but my face was covered in bandages, and now that I think about it today, it might have a rather big impact on my life, much more than I thought at that time. I stayed at home for a month just to be healed enough to have a an okay face. And I'll always remember when the doctor was mistaking me for a girl, and told me everything was going to be alright (at that time I had long hair, and my face was so damaged I could have been mistaken for both genders) and I think it flipped the switch for me to get more into my feminine feelings and such. (Do not worry most of the injuries where healed and I could go on about my life) I also got a hint of an abdl fetish which came around age 11, I would dream of being swallowed by some giant or monster and I would land in a world of diapers (what went so wrong in my life ?!). Note that the last time I've worn diapers for actually peeing my bed was around age 12-13, funnily enough I didn't get a vore fetish from this weird fantasy. Around age 14 I discovered masturbation as I was fantasizing about women applying make up on me, and that was the start for every single fetish I had: discovered hentai first, the feminization fetish, then the TG/TF fetish, and so on. Got around hypnosis at age 15, and made my first hypnosis file at age 16 (at the time I was visiting warp my mind alot) I've also gotten into crossdressing at age 15-16 or so... Discovered anal and oral through faproulettes, back at the time when the site had less than 200 roulettes (it's such a big site now!) Then I got into videos and pictures when I had a hypno Master who would hypnotize me into sending him videos, pictures, hypnotizing into living all sorts of fantasies and it went as far as me giving him my full name (so yes he has full potential of blackmailing me and I have completely lost contact with him &#128514 but I trust him to do the right things. Aaaand that's pretty much it, I might have forgotten stuff here and there, but I think I got the most important stuff out.