Ask (almost) anything: Sir's visit

**Mandi** · 01-14-2015, 12:14 PM

Hey everyone! If you haven't seen my blog about it yet, I have some really really exciting news!

Top Hat, my dominant, partner, boyfriend, best friend, all of the above and more is coming to visit me (all the way from Australia!) for SIX weeks. He arrives tomorrow evening and I am so unbelievably excited.

Anyway, I figured that I would open an ask thread so that anyone who was interested in his visit could ask some questions. (Feel free to ask vanilla questions as well as kinky ones!)

DISCLAIMER: If either Top Hat or I are uncomfortable with a question, think it's something private we want to keep between us, or just simply do not want to answer a question... We won't. Simple as that. This thread is for the enjoyment of us as well as you guys (: Remember, this is an ASK thread only and any directions, dares, suggestions are unwelcome here.

Also, it is very likely Sir and I will be super busy while he is here. I'm going to try to answer questions quickly but I'm not going to prioritize them above other things we want to do while he is here. If I take a while to answer your question, don't worry, I will get all questions answered within a week of him leaving here.

HAPPY ASKING (:

Herewego.. · 01-14-2015, 12:19 PM

First of all, I must say I hope you two will enjoy your time together

What are your plans for those weeks? (globally)

**Mandi** · 01-14-2015, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Herewego..

First of all, I must say I hope you two will enjoy your time together

What are your plans for those weeks? (globally)

We don't have it all planned out but we have a few things planned and a few others we really want to do!

We already have the tickets for two weekend-long kink events that fall during his visit here. We are really excited for them!

We also really want to go to a ballet that is performing here, the aquarium, a really nice seafood restaurant for Valentine's Day, as well as meeting my family (as a friend!).

Other than that we just plan to have a really nice time getting to know eachother in every aspect of our relationship (:

Butterfly · 01-14-2015, 12:26 PM

First of all, I am so so so so so (x10000000) excited for you. I know just how magical a first meeting can feel.

My question won't mean anything until tomorrow, but ...

How did it go at the airport?

SweetTeen · 01-14-2015, 12:38 PM

What is the first thing you did together. Like the very first thing?

Jah Brother · 01-14-2015, 05:46 PM

Just here to wish you two a good time

Deeply touched · 01-14-2015, 06:14 PM

How did he become your master
How has your relationship developed

Wardell · 01-14-2015, 10:20 PM

Top Hat's an Aussie? Stone the crows! I guess he'll be flat out like a lizard drinking keeping you on the boil, until you both get so hungry you could eat a rag doll through a cane chair.

All in all he's a lucky bastard to have a sheila like you, and if he does the wrong thing, tell him to stop being a drongo or you'll be off like a bucket of prawns in the sun.

There... having got all those Oz slang clichés out of my system, tell me... What will be your first act (non-sexual) of celebrating being together face-to-face?

**Mandi** · 01-15-2015, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Deeply touched

How did he become your master
How has your relationship developed

I actually have some blogs that could help explain this and our dynamic. He is my dominant not my master, to clarify.

I would prefer questions more about these six weeks and his visit than general questions about our relationship! Those can go in my AMA if they must.

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Originally Posted by Jah Brother

Just here to wish you two a good time

Thank you!!!

And Butteryfly and ST I will answer yours when I can (:

**Mandi** · 01-15-2015, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Wardell

Top Hat's an Aussie? Stone the crows! I guess he'll be flat out like a lizard drinking keeping you on the boil, until you both get so hungry you could eat a rag doll through a cane chair.

All in all he's a lucky bastard to have a sheila like you, and if he does the wrong thing, tell him to stop being a drongo or you'll be off like a bucket of prawns in the sun.

There... having got all those Oz slang clichés out of my system, tell me... What will be your first act (non-sexual) of celebrating being together face-to-face?

Hahaha I don't think I've heard him say any of those. He actually has a more British than Aussie accent as well.

Well I pick him up from the airport tonight (6ish hours!!!!!!!) and he has been flying for basically a full 24 hours so We might get dinner on the way home or just make something easy when we get to my house. Then I think we will just relax and watch and movie and cuddle and talk and ahhh! I can't wait!

So to answer your question.. I'm not exactly sure yet! But that's the plan we vaguely talked about (:

Oh! But a really big hug in the airport!

dommale · 01-16-2015, 12:11 AM

how much sleep did u get the night before he arrived ?

what did u wear to meet him?

how nervous were you?

how quickly did u do the first kiss?

what name did he call you first?

and how was the first orgasm he gave you ?

**Mandi** · 01-16-2015, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by asslvr's.butterfly

First of all, I am so so so so so (x10000000) excited for you. I know just how magical a first meeting can feel.

My question won't mean anything until tomorrow, but ...

How did it go at the airport?

It was wonderful (: I was sitting in the little waiting area and when he walked out of the terminal I looked up and he smiled at me and then I got up and sort of sprint walked over to him and kept smiling and looking down and then we hugged forever and I kept squealing and wiggling. Then I turned super bright red, which he kept teasing me about. When we were done hugging he linked his arm trough mine and we got on the escalator to baggage claim. When we were on the escalator I kinda felt like I was going to fall over so he held me steady. We walked over to get his bag and I kept hiding and jumping and wiggling and he just kind of laughed at me and put his arm around me. I really could not keep it together. It broke my brain!

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Originally Posted by SweetTeen

What is the first thing you did together. Like the very first thing?

Well we did all of the above stated stuff. Then we got in my car and.. Ummm... He made me moan a little bit...

Anyway, then we went and got Taco Bell (where he also made me moan a bit....)

**Mandi** · 01-16-2015, 07:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dommale

how much sleep did u get the night before he arrived ?

what did u wear to meet him?

how nervous were you?

how quickly did u do the first kiss?

what name did he call you first?

and how was the first orgasm he gave you ?

I actually slept pretty well. I was really tired. Probably about six hours.

I wore the shirt I had worn at work that day (and sent him a picture earlier in the day so he knew what I would be wearing) and leggings and cute new shoes and my collar of course (:

SO NERVOUS. But only in the ten or so minutes between seeing that his flight had arrived and then actually seeing him.

When we got in the car at the airport.

I think he called me "dearest" first but I can't remember for sure... My brain was melting!

Amaaaaassaaaazing! Unf. So good. I have had sooooo many orgasms so far <3

samdiatmh · 01-16-2015, 05:00 PM

Would you consider a chastity piercing or belt? Perhaps he could keep the keys and mail them to you when you've been good enough to deserve release.

How long can you keep your nose against his stomach before you have to come up for air?

**Mandi** · 01-18-2015, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by samdiatmh

Would you consider a chastity piercing or belt? Perhaps he could keep the keys and mail them to you when you've been good enough to deserve release.

How long can you keep your nose against his stomach before you have to come up for air?

No, I wouldn't ever consider that.

Well, I would imagine if I held my nose against his stomach that would be very strange but wouldn't really prevent me breathing as I still have my mouth to breathe through.. sooo, indefinitely?

01-14-2015, 12:14 PM	#1
Mandi getDare Succubus Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: United States Posts: 1,512 Blog Entries: 30	Ask (almost) anything: Sir's visit Hey everyone! If you haven't seen my blog about it yet, I have some really really exciting news! Top Hat, my dominant, partner, boyfriend, best friend, all of the above and more is coming to visit me (all the way from Australia!) for SIX weeks. He arrives tomorrow evening and I am so unbelievably excited. Anyway, I figured that I would open an ask thread so that anyone who was interested in his visit could ask some questions. (Feel free to ask vanilla questions as well as kinky ones!) DISCLAIMER: If either Top Hat or I are uncomfortable with a question, think it's something private we want to keep between us, or just simply do not want to answer a question... We won't. Simple as that. This thread is for the enjoyment of us as well as you guys (: Remember, this is an ASK thread only and any directions, dares, suggestions are unwelcome here. Also, it is very likely Sir and I will be super busy while he is here. I'm going to try to answer questions quickly but I'm not going to prioritize them above other things we want to do while he is here. If I take a while to answer your question, don't worry, I will get all questions answered within a week of him leaving here. HAPPY ASKING (: __________________ F/19/bi I am a little princess, be nice <3 I am only on this site for FRIENDS. Nothing else. Please don't ask. Ask Me Anything Thread Last edited by Mandi; 01-14-2015 at 12:23 PM.

01-14-2015, 12:19 PM	#2
Herewego.. Member Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: Netherlands Posts: 51 Blog Entries: 1	First of all, I must say I hope you two will enjoy your time together What are your plans for those weeks? (globally) __________________ 20/m/straight-curious/Amsterdam/17cm/1.87 m tall/70 kg Likes: wedgies, small cross dressing dares, humiliation, just fun(ny) dares, truths, punishments, pictures, spanking, exercise dares and semi public Dislikes: useless dares, pee dares, body writing, writing lines, corner time, cold dares, anal, spitting, and messy. Limits: blood, hard anal, face pics, public, social suicide, damage to body etc Kik and skype: herewego.. PM dares! I lost a dare...

01-14-2015, 12:26 PM	#4
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,647 Blog Entries: 515	First of all, I am so so so so so (x10000000) excited for you. I know just how magical a first meeting can feel. My question won't mean anything until tomorrow, but ... How did it go at the airport? __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤

01-14-2015, 12:38 PM	#5
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01-14-2015, 10:20 PM	#8
Wardell Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Australia Posts: 182 Blog Entries: 4	Top Hat's an Aussie? Stone the crows! I guess he'll be flat out like a lizard drinking keeping you on the boil, until you both get so hungry you could eat a rag doll through a cane chair. All in all he's a lucky bastard to have a sheila like you, and if he does the wrong thing, tell him to stop being a drongo or you'll be off like a bucket of prawns in the sun. There... having got all those Oz slang clichés out of my system, tell me... What will be your first act (non-sexual) of celebrating being together face-to-face? __________________ Male, dominant, straight I'll be retiring from getDare soon, but staying in touch with naughtylittlegirl as her friend and mentor. She's the most incredible sub to have ever offered me her submission, and any genuine dom who manages to have her offer the same to them is a very honoured man.

01-14-2015, 05:46 PM	#6
Jah Brother Distinguished Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 620 Blog Entries: 3	Just here to wish you two a good time

01-14-2015, 06:14 PM	#7
Deeply touched Senior Member Join Date: May 2014 Location: London Posts: 102	How did he become your master How has your relationship developed

01-16-2015, 12:11 AM	#11
dommale Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 193	how much sleep did u get the night before he arrived ? what did u wear to meet him? how nervous were you? how quickly did u do the first kiss? what name did he call you first? and how was the first orgasm he gave you ?

01-16-2015, 05:00 PM	#14
samdiatmh Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 599	Would you consider a chastity piercing or belt? Perhaps he could keep the keys and mail them to you when you've been good enough to deserve release. How long can you keep your nose against his stomach before you have to come up for air? Last edited by samdiatmh; 01-16-2015 at 05:35 PM.