Adults giving kids sexual dares

[FriendlySlave]

OK, I am fairly new here, but I have been looking around a bit on this site and it seems to me that extremely sexual conversations between adults and people in their early teens are very common here.

Just hop over any of the "truth or dare online" forums and you will see a lot of "Need dares, im a 14 year old female!" type of threads. Virtually every response is from an adult and is overtly sexual, involving nudity/masturbation/etc. (and I wont even talk about the people who request pictures of these activities) This isn't a corner case, sexual dares are the rule, not the exception around here and there are a lot of kids on this site.

Just a suggestion but maybe you should consider segregating the forums into 18+ sections and under 18 sections. I am no expert, but it looks to me like you guys are begging for legal trouble here.

[Lizard]

There has been lots of discussion about this in the not so distant past, and I think the staff is doing a decent job. This is one of the threads that has discussed putting the age in a person's profile:

http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=17950

It doesn't quite address your concern, but does show the attitude of, in my opnion, most of the people who frequent this forum and the staff.

I can only speak for myself on this, and I hope that most people use the same discression: As I am an older member of the forum, I will post a dare, or suggestion of any kind, only if the original poster is over 21. I will comment, answer questions and/or truths, etc. on any post, but I always check the age of the original poster before writing anything on the thread. Same goes for sending private messages.

Im sure the staff will chime in here, but thought that something from an 'average user' might also be appreciated.

Liz

[jlstockton25]

There are 18+ areas for overtly sexual stories as well as Master/slave relationships.

As Lizard said, there has been issues about ages of members on the site, as there will be for any truth or dare website. As long as there are 14 year olds asking for dares, there will be 40 year olds replying, and I don't see much the staff can do about it.

[tilly07]

I still think its disgusting for 18+ to be giving m8inors dares like that. Especially if it's a female thats recieving the dares.

[jlstockton25]

I agree it's disgusting and wrong, but I don't think there's much the mods can do about it

[doomed_soul89]

Originally Posted by tilly07

I still think its disgusting for 18+ to be giving m8inors dares like that. Especially if it's a female thats recieving the dares.

that last part isn't sexist at all.

if someone is asking for a day ppl are going to respond with there ideas, if the person doesn't want to do it, they don't have to I don't see what the issue is, there just giving them what they ask for not like there doing it with them or watching

[LilAngel]

Personally, I think that most dares WILL require some form of nudity, masturbation etc. It is quite rare that there are solo dares that don't require anything mentioned above. Requesting pictures is against the rules, so that's about all the mods can do, most of the time.

Also, I see this forum/site as an opportunity for people under 18. A lot of the other TorD sites has had to be changed to 18+, because people took advantage of the holes in the rules, or the weaknesses of the staff. Here, moderators take the time and effort to keep this site open for 13+, and that is what makes this site so special.

The way I see it, if the under 18s are separated, getDare would not be able to stay the same (if not better) forever.