04-05-2021, 08:32 AM | #1 |
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New Dildo, what to do with it?
Recently I purchased myself a smallish suction cup dildo off lovehoney, after a frustratingly lonely time this pandemic and seeing a multitude of videos of guys cumming from the dildo alone. I am fully aware of the amount of practise it takes to get to that point, but I've played with my dildo a handful of times so far and it just feels weird? Not painful, just a strange sensation that I haven't necessarily found pleasurable?
I'm sure its a case of needing to spend more time with it, but I'm also worried I'm 'doing it wrong' if thats a thing. I'm basically just confused lol. Has anyone else had a similar thing, or would anyone be able to share their experiences when they first got into using a dildo? Maybe even give a few ideas / dares to try with it (though I'm looking more for advice than anything). I just want to make sure I'm making the most of my new toy. Thanks in advance <3
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04-05-2021, 10:04 AM | #2 |
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when I was first learning to cum from anal, it took some time. Aside from just getting used to having my ass fucked and enjoying it, getting the angle *just right* took some practice and experimentation. For me, the "dick" has to be angled in such a way as to put more pressure towards my front. all the better to hit the prostrate, I guess.
the other tip or trick I read about and found helpful is to not cum for at least two weeks before a successful session. for me, that was simple, as I was in chastity at the time. I still don't cum every time I ride/get ridden, but I orgasm like mad (all the signs and symptoms minus the ejaculation). It took time, a lot of practice, and a lot of hours of not sitting comfortably for me to get there, though. I still think it is worth it.
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04-07-2021, 06:26 AM | #3 |
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Thanks very much for the advice, I guess I'll just have to practise more as you say. I'll also try some self-imposed chastity to see if that helps, but my self-discipline is lacking. Hopefully I can get there one day thanks again! <3
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