43+24/couple/top seeks 20+/female/sub in (see post)(boobs enclosed)

Happy Me · 10-26-2018, 12:13 PM

Hello wonderful getDare!

AK and I are looking for a third person to join our dynamic. This is something we’ve both wanted in the past, but we didn’t have a good opportunity, with a good person. Now that we’re solid, have loads of trust built up and we have discussed what we want we want to try it out. Our current dynamic is slightly switchy, ddlg, with AK as the primary dom. So far we’ve only switched twice for about a week each time.

We wanted to make sure to say that we are not missing anything in our current dynamic, we are not trying to fill a hole, and we are not looking for someone to be a third wheel, we want someone who can share and have these happy times with us!

What we are looking for

Someone who identifies as a female (MTF and cis females)
Someone over 20
Emotionally mature/ emotionally intelligent. We both find it easy and calm to work out issues or disagreements, there is never anything ugly, and you should be able to do this too.
No drama llama. We have been together over a year, and there has never been any drama. We don’t want to invite drama in.
Someone who is happy with or okay with DDLG. This is a big part of our relationship. Neither of us regresses or acts super childish, but we are both a little childish and playful in our general personalities!
Someone who is okay with being dominated by both of us, but is cool with AK being the toppy top. We are somewhat flexible about how the dynamic plays out, but AK is not very switchy and would not be comfortable subbing to someone new.
Someone who is either submissive or slightly switchy. If you are a little it might be a good fit.
Someone who is happy and kind.
Someone who has no issues talking on voice (we’ll give you time if you’re nervous about it, but we talk on voice a LOT.)
Someone who is flexible about their kinks and dynamic. We are both very flexible in our kinks and in our dynamic and always up for trying new things. We would prefer someone who is also flexible.

Things we don’t care about

Your age, as long as you are over 20
Body type and/or appearance
Pictures or vids/cam
New or experienced- We have have equally as much fun with a very inexperienced person as a very experienced one, though both of our slow, careful, playful styles would be well suited to someone who is either new, or recovering from a bad experience.

About Us

We are both funny, silly, and playful; we don’t like serious stuff but can get serious when it is important.
We like having fun with everything, trying new things.
We both believe (as dom/mes) in a slow, methodical, and high communication approach that keeps safety as the main priority. We’re very focused on safety, emotional and physical both.
We both hate people who use the speed of a text reply as a form of manipulation. There are situations when you can not text back quickly, and we get that, but purposely not texting back will get both of us pretty annoyed.
We are both very open and honest people. We don’t keep things from each other. Sometimes we get shy and it takes a long time to say something, but we are never deceitful or dishonest.
We like to talk about non kink stuff a lot: we’re both into games (AK in computer games and me into other kinds of games), together we like to play browser games like pictionary or pool, we like to watch shows and movies together, we like to talk about anything and everything, like even the mundane things, like what we ate for breakfast. We just love to really be a part of each other’s lives!

What can you expect from us

Fun! During the play, outside of the play, basically all the time.
Support in every part of your life
Awesome aftercare
Understanding
A shoulder to cry on when you need it
Creativity in tasks and play
A whole lot of cuteness
Really excellent communication
Two really excellent caring friends

What we expect from you

Some time
Communication
Honesty
Excitement (expressed with words and actions)
Kindness

Kinks

We are both interest in a wide variety of kinks and are mostly just concerned that it’s not repetitive, so if you are only interested in one or two kinks this is probably not a good fit. If you have a wide variety of kinks, and most of the below are in them, it is probably a good fit kink-wise!
Our top, most enjoyed kinks:
DDLG: Right now our dynamic is a really mild DDLG one. I call AK daddy, and he calls me all kinds of cute little names! He takes care of me, makes sure I eat, sleep and such, and some of our rules and play are very little type stuff. Incest is not a part of our dynamic at all, it’s all about care, control and a freedom to act in a childlike way.
S/M: We are both into pain, but super flexible about the amount and type of pain. We are both what we call Kind Sadists. We only enjoy giving you pain if you enjoy it on some level too! We are careful about the actual pain and also care to give appropriate care afterward.
Orgasm control: Along with control, we are both into lots of teasing and mild denial.
Bondage: This has a wide range of stuff, but having someone bound for us is very wonderful!

Things we will never do: Poop related things, diapers, blood, and the other normal limits.

Other Important random details

I am 43 and AK is 24
Time zones and time spent:
I am in the US and AK is in Europe. The time we spend together (on most days) is between:

Mountain Standard Time: 1:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Eastern (US) Time: 3:00pm-8:00pm
Bulgaria: 9:00pm - 2:00am
Central European Time: 8:00pm - 1:00am

As long as you have between 1-3 hours a few days a week to spend with us during those times, we should be time compatible! We wanted to note that we are both super understanding about regular life getting in the way of these times. Neither of us ever gets upset about such things.

We primarily use Kik and skype for communication (kik for texting and skype for voice calls)
We both have plenty of time and privacy for this
We both like to get attention, you should be willing to text regularly and be happy to spend time with us
I’m sick. Like long-term never gonna get better sick. AK and I don’t have any problem having fun and working around this, it’s just an ever-present thing we deal with.
We laugh a lot during play (not every time, but a lot of the time!)

If you are interested

Send us a nice note to Happy Me (she will make sure AK sees them all)

PS: If you only want leave your kik and one sentence, send it directly to AK.

PPS: Sorry there weren't really boobs

10-26-2018, 12:13 PM	#1
Happy Me Moderator Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 2,092 Blog Entries: 15	43+24/couple/top seeks 20+/female/sub in (see post)(boobs enclosed) Hello wonderful getDare! AK and I are looking for a third person to join our dynamic. This is something we’ve both wanted in the past, but we didn’t have a good opportunity, with a good person. Now that we’re solid, have loads of trust built up and we have discussed what we want we want to try it out. Our current dynamic is slightly switchy, ddlg, with AK as the primary dom. So far we’ve only switched twice for about a week each time. We wanted to make sure to say that we are not missing anything in our current dynamic, we are not trying to fill a hole, and we are not looking for someone to be a third wheel, we want someone who can share and have these happy times with us! What we are looking for Someone who identifies as a female (MTF and cis females) Someone over 20 Emotionally mature/ emotionally intelligent. We both find it easy and calm to work out issues or disagreements, there is never anything ugly, and you should be able to do this too. No drama llama. We have been together over a year, and there has never been any drama. We don’t want to invite drama in. Someone who is happy with or okay with DDLG. This is a big part of our relationship. Neither of us regresses or acts super childish, but we are both a little childish and playful in our general personalities! Someone who is okay with being dominated by both of us, but is cool with AK being the toppy top. We are somewhat flexible about how the dynamic plays out, but AK is not very switchy and would not be comfortable subbing to someone new. Someone who is either submissive or slightly switchy. If you are a little it might be a good fit. Someone who is happy and kind. Someone who has no issues talking on voice (we’ll give you time if you’re nervous about it, but we talk on voice a LOT.) Someone who is flexible about their kinks and dynamic. We are both very flexible in our kinks and in our dynamic and always up for trying new things. We would prefer someone who is also flexible. Things we don’t care about Your age, as long as you are over 20 Body type and/or appearance Pictures or vids/cam New or experienced- We have have equally as much fun with a very inexperienced person as a very experienced one, though both of our slow, careful, playful styles would be well suited to someone who is either new, or recovering from a bad experience. About Us We are both funny, silly, and playful; we don’t like serious stuff but can get serious when it is important. We like having fun with everything, trying new things. We both believe (as dom/mes) in a slow, methodical, and high communication approach that keeps safety as the main priority. We’re very focused on safety, emotional and physical both. We both hate people who use the speed of a text reply as a form of manipulation. There are situations when you can not text back quickly, and we get that, but purposely not texting back will get both of us pretty annoyed. We are both very open and honest people. We don’t keep things from each other. Sometimes we get shy and it takes a long time to say something, but we are never deceitful or dishonest. We like to talk about non kink stuff a lot: we’re both into games (AK in computer games and me into other kinds of games), together we like to play browser games like pictionary or pool, we like to watch shows and movies together, we like to talk about anything and everything, like even the mundane things, like what we ate for breakfast. We just love to really be a part of each other’s lives! What can you expect from us Fun! During the play, outside of the play, basically all the time. Support in every part of your life Awesome aftercare Understanding A shoulder to cry on when you need it Creativity in tasks and play A whole lot of cuteness Really excellent communication Two really excellent caring friends What we expect from you Some time Communication Honesty Excitement (expressed with words and actions) Kindness Kinks We are both interest in a wide variety of kinks and are mostly just concerned that it’s not repetitive, so if you are only interested in one or two kinks this is probably not a good fit. If you have a wide variety of kinks, and most of the below are in them, it is probably a good fit kink-wise! Our top, most enjoyed kinks: DDLG: Right now our dynamic is a really mild DDLG one. I call AK daddy, and he calls me all kinds of cute little names! He takes care of me, makes sure I eat, sleep and such, and some of our rules and play are very little type stuff. Incest is not a part of our dynamic at all, it’s all about care, control and a freedom to act in a childlike way. S/M: We are both into pain, but super flexible about the amount and type of pain. We are both what we call Kind Sadists. We only enjoy giving you pain if you enjoy it on some level too! We are careful about the actual pain and also care to give appropriate care afterward. Orgasm control: Along with control, we are both into lots of teasing and mild denial. Bondage: This has a wide range of stuff, but having someone bound for us is very wonderful! Things we will never do: Poop related things, diapers, blood, and the other normal limits. Other Important random details I am 43 and AK is 24 Time zones and time spent: I am in the US and AK is in Europe. The time we spend together (on most days) is between: Mountain Standard Time: 1:00 pm - 6:00 pm Eastern (US) Time: 3:00pm-8:00pm Bulgaria: 9:00pm - 2:00am Central European Time: 8:00pm - 1:00am As long as you have between 1-3 hours a few days a week to spend with us during those times, we should be time compatible! We wanted to note that we are both super understanding about regular life getting in the way of these times. Neither of us ever gets upset about such things. We primarily use Kik and skype for communication (kik for texting and skype for voice calls) We both have plenty of time and privacy for this We both like to get attention, you should be willing to text regularly and be happy to spend time with us I’m sick. Like long-term never gonna get better sick. AK and I don’t have any problem having fun and working around this, it’s just an ever-present thing we deal with. We laugh a lot during play (not every time, but a lot of the time!) If you are interested Send us a nice note to Happy Me (she will make sure AK sees them all) PS: If you only want leave your kik and one sentence, send it directly to AK. PPS: Sorry there weren't really boobs